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• DESPERATE HOUSEWIFE. posted (5 months) ago
  I have a madman doing things to me and no one believes me right now he is monitoring my computer, em…

• Desperate housewife! posted (5 months, 3 weeks) ago
  I believe my husband is trying to take my identity. Since February I noticed some changes over my …

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cmezia's Top (3) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) Trying to recover from an abusive relationship, but it feels like it was an unusual case.
  

  Girlfriend, then he probably was. Living with him for 2 1/2 years you would know. Thank God you got out. Do not be bitter. Take this opportunity to do the things you have always wanted to do but didn’t. LIVE live like you have not lived. I don’t mean to go out and do harmful things and party your butt off but I mean travel, read, exercise whatever you want. Enjoy life and learn from the madness. You have been enlightened to key traits you need to stay away from. Love our men we need them and they need us.
  
  - written 5 months ago – voted for by word

• (1 vote) My younger daughters are both bigger than their older brother.
  

  Just reassure him and remind him that his sisters have the same genes but they got the tall gene in physical appearance but he has the tall gene in a trait unique to him. Quietly, don’t want to hurt the girls, remind him that his sisters may want to have men taller than them but he won’t have that problem. His will be less limited to height. I myself think short men are cute! He can also be tall with his stature to stand up straight and to be proud of who he is.
  
  - written 5 months ago – voted for by ehuertas4

• (1 vote) Me and my girlfriend havent been happy we have a daughter
  

  Love is two sided. She is going through something you can’t help her with except for space. It is not you–it is her, she is being selfish but what can you do. You can only control what you do. If you really love her please don’t be mad at her for telling you the way she really feels-odds are she will regret this. Be there for the baby the baby needs that love you want to give her. Unrequinted (mispelled) love is not love and it makes one bitter. I know. Please don’t take what she is doing and hate women for it. Please. You sound like you have your priorities in order, you want to love the woman you are with and because of the baby you feel you have to strive for something you will not get-goals have to be realistic or you are setting yourself to get hurt. Not that it will be your fault but that is the way it happens. Do not think this is your fault. You have tried-that is good enough. If you love her when she grows maybe it will happen but remember she has to love you back. You deserve that.
  
  - written 5 months ago – voted for by ehuertas4

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• DESPERATE HOUSEWIFE.
  

  You know you are not me. My mother died mysteriously and when she died I got what little I have left of my life and if this is what I want out of this hell that I have lived in for 23 years, I have the right. I was stupidly thinking that I could save us but I don’t want to die. I have tried the state. Anyways, I am not going to come back to this site. I need help and have tried every way I know how. I can’t expect anyone to help me but myself. So I am seeking employment and am packing things but he is going to get me I know it. If this were you you would leave I know and I have and came back because I truly fear him no one has done nothing so he’s gotten bold and brazenly doing things….. They get off sneaking into homes without people knowing they are there. That is one of the skills they specialize in. SO if you know this man is doing things to you and no one believes me I am trying to survive with this crazy man. I left my exhusband he is not a normal man who will allow me to leave without him being the one to do it and he is messing me up on the way out. Thank you all for caring enough to reply. Many of you are judging me and thinking how stupid. You and I wouldn’t wish this on anyone do not know what hell I am in.
  - written 5 months ago

• Desperate housewife!
  

  I have been on help.com for awhile now and feel the need to help others if can’t help myself. I really care and this is the first time I took time to help others. ****. A chill pill- no wonder people are leary of being themselves. Isn’t this a help.com website to help others while trying to get help one needs.
  - written 5 months ago

• How can i tell if a girl likes me.
  

  My creepy butt will not reply back to you. Didn’t mean to creep you out.
  - written 5 months ago

• This is definetly going to sound wierd.
  

  Be honest with your feelings. Reassure your friend that you want her as a friend and not a lover. Do not let anyone make you do anything you don’t want to do. Tell her that her killing herself because of you saying no is not healthy. She has very little confidence–be careful she is walking on eggshells.
  - written 5 months ago

• I got out of the army because it just wasn’t for me and while outprocessing found out that I was pregnant.
  

  And thank you for joining the army for us.
  - written 5 months ago

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