Can you see yourself living like this for the rest of your life? It may hurt you terribly now, but it may be that by ending this now you change your path from a life time of unhappiness. As a person who identifies with the behaviour of your girlfriend this is not a reflection on you or something you are doing wrong. She just may not be ‘in’ the relationship anymore. Don’t do it to yourself. You deserve better than settling for this. - written 4 months, 2 weeks ago