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• (1 vote) Dear God,
  

  Lift your head above your shoulders
  See the sun is shining
  You may not appreciate it’s glow
  but there is a silver lining
  reach out, reach out
  take my hand
  and I will will gentley lead you
  to summer shores with clean warm sand
  where you leave your cares behind you
  
  Godbless
  
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago – voted for by Silverwings

• (1 vote) i have no money, i am living with my insane girlfriend in her mom’s living room, and i just lost my job.
  

  You have only one problem - your need to move out. By the sounds of it your girl friend isn’t very supportive and you could do without that. I know your posessions mean a lot to you, but what is peace of mind in comparison. If I were you, I would sell enough to buy a train ride to somewhere where there are jobs and start applying today if that is possible. Over the internet I suppose is one way to get a job in a different area. Once your job is secured, you will need a room to rent. Get a cheap one sorted if you can. You can advertise on the internet for a room share in the area where your new job is. You’ve got feet, brains and something to sell for dollars. Do it and you will wonder why you never have before. I hope so anyway. You live in a country with a history full of pioneers - join them!
  
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago – voted for by Summerson

• (1 vote) i am completely in love with my best friend….all i can do is think about her all the time!
  

  No, I think you are jealous of her new interest. Leave them be, if you want her friendship.
  
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago – voted for by PrettyBabyBlueEyes

• (1 vote) Does sex really have anything to do with love and emotions?
  

  Your supposed to do it the right way round. First you fall in love and the emotion of it leads to two people making love. The man wants you and loves you and you want him to make love to you. If that is a not what is happening, then stop and have a bit more respect for yourself. There is nothing nice about having sex with anyone, it is just the phsyical. The best time is when you both love each other and want to show each other your feelings. Passion is there long enough to get two people together long enough to reproduce. Most species of animals end it there. To want to spend your life with someone is different. He will want to make love to you to show you his feelings for you and re-introduce those feelings so you don’t think he doesn’t care. Long term though the passion dies down a bit and is replaced with trust. He trusts that you love him and visa versa so making love doesn’t happen so much. Have you noticed how some women complain that their partners take no notice of them - perhaps that is because the passion was not really there in the first place.
  
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago – voted for by seeuseeme

• (1 vote) -
  

  Always say hi back and smile try ‘Hi yvonne’ or whatever her name is. Saying her name will make her feel important to you. You don’t need to make conversation with a helping hand every so often, when she is least expecting it, is offered. Don’t say, ‘can I reach that for you’ just reach for it and as you pass it down try a warm smile with eye contact. Don’t linger, it should be one swift movement. She will then wonder if she saw what she saw and will watch for you next time - hopefully anyway. Conversation can wait, or join in with one she is already having with someone else - as long as it a general converstaion for anyone to put in their bit.
  
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago – voted for by elysium

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• i think i wanna run away….
  

  Sorry, you lost me on that last post. Please explain.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• so d_mn unhappy.
  

  Do you have a partner? why is your family pressuring you?
  sorry for the questions, but to help one has to understand.
  If everything you are doing and everything you think you should be doing and everything everone else thinks you should is getting to be a strain, then sit down and think about things. Sit at a table, get some paper and a pencil - a pen will do. Now draw a circle in the centre - that represents you. Write in the circle things like tired, fed up, no life, agitated, bored - what ever - you know how you feel. Hint - write these things in two columns first and then draw a circle round them. If your like me, I hope not, you won’t be able to keep the writing inside the circle if you draw that first.lol.
  Now, off to one side write another 2 column list with things like - happy, energetic,organized, - you know, things that you would like to feel like, in other words better.
  Now, you need a list of ways to achieve this - I would start with - see the doctor and then move onto sorting out what is important, what is not, what can wait and what can’t and then what doesn’t really matter on the face of it and dump all that. Things maybe like what other people are pressuring you into.
  Your next will be - whether or not they are right or wrong - depending on what these pressures are - you might want to get help on answering this one.
  Go on in this way untl you have worked out everything and the solutions.
  I do think you should see a dotor, your low energy levels might be due to something that can easily be put right - like a lack of iron.
  Ignore agathingy, he/she is not being very pleasant.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• I dont have any friends :( .
  

  Thanks for the hug anna, give me a shout if you come a cropper and need picking up, I will willing do that. thanks also to nutmeg and yrja, not for me, but just because you all helped. I would like to add you all to my friends list - is that ok?
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• I dont have any friends :( .
  

  Offices have never been very good places to make friends. People become stale and find cliches to hide in and their thoughts are not so good. One office I worked in, I was so shocked in my young life to see this. Everytime someone left the room a crowd would gather and say mean things about that person. Then another would leave and the same would happen. One said to me ‘if…….asks if you would like to see the photos of her wedding, say no.’
  Unfortunately, she didn’t ask. I would have loved to have seen them and would have made such a fuss over them, everyone else would be put to shame.
  Try for a new job if you get the chance, or you could ask to be moved into a different area of the building from your boyfriend, then you would be able to start interacting with others while he is working somewhere else.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• Sending it out there….
  

  Those women look like that because women were more feminine, that was their role in life. They had men hoping and closing doors, standing up when they entered the room and catching them when they fainted. Oh, how wonderful, now women want to open the doors by themselves and men don’t know whether to let them or whether they are going to be punched in the face for doing this small thing for them. If women let men be courtious to them, men would feel they had a reason for being there.
  Well, I think so anyway. Go be that maid of honour, enjoy the dress and looking like those women before they took all their clothes off - you could go home and act that bit out on your own later:0
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

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