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A guy and a girl meet at a bar. They get along so well that they
decide to go to the girl’s place.

A few drinks later, the guy takes off his shirt and then washes his
hands. He then takes off his trousers and washes his hands again.

The girl has been watching him and says, “You must be a dentist.”

The guy, surprised, says “Yes….how did you figure that out?”

“Easy,” she replied, “you keep washing your hands.”

One thing led to another and they make love. After they are done, the
girl says, “You must be a really good dentist.”

The guy, now with a boosted ego says “Sure, I’m a good dentist, how
did you figure that out?”

She replies “Didn’t feel a thing.”

Message? That you care. Care for her as a human. Care to get to know her entire person. Care to treat her like a woman not a sexual object to be fawned over and lusted after.

You want to blow her mind. I’m telling you how to win her heart.

Your choice….

She has to see you as someone with a high level of trust. Listen to her head. Only then can the heart follow behind.

Wrong. You need to be a total gentleman here. She is vulnerable and you CANNOT take advantage of that. If you so much as brush a nipple you could lose her forever. Right now you are a monk under oath of celibacy. Let her decide when to to take the veil off.

Support your friend in every way you can. I have pledged to pay to have Smeagol taken to the vet to update his shots.
I told her to give you a hug and she promised she would.

She can’t find my email address… Lend her a hand.
Wait. Wash up first.

Slow down, casanova. Concentrate on being her friend which is what she really needs right now. Your libido can come later.

Well, we both know she is going to need a lot of comforting when she finally has to let go of her beloved pets. I am hoping to find a place where they can live out the rest of their lives in peace. That at least should give her some peace too. Your job will be to help her find employment.

But no pets allowed there either…?

Oh and keep7 is on a final warning from mod Dani. If he gets banned this time it will be permanent just like little nicks.

I’m a softy for dogs. Have 4 of my own 3 of which will be traveling with me on vaca. Will she be staying with you or is it a different residence?

what exactly am i supposed to do

Thank you :) It is very much appreciated. I’m praying that things will turn out normal.

I’m alright. My knee is still sore, but I’m able to walk on it now…

As for my wife… well things were looking good, but the past two days have been… well her memory isn’t very good. She often asks the same question 4 or more times in an hour… she just doesn’t remember asking before, and things like that…

She went for her MRI this past Thursday, so we’re hoping for results soon.

maybe

but you were a little mean

Pleasure! Hope it was a good one. Lol.

Happy bday! for 5 days ago!

Right?!
wtf was THAT?
lol!

thanks

He’s still teaching. He teaches middle school special ed.

Ok, thanks

Sent. There’s also a detailed explanation attached.

Though, I just realized I don’t have your e-mail address anymore.

OK, it’s on the way.

Mind if I get your opinion on the complaint I plan on sending out?

Sure-sure.
I’m not entirily out of touch with the brotherhood maaaaaaaan!:D
It may be a bumpy ride but I wish you all the best in your endevors.

Doc, you have nothing to worry about.
First, you’re right about the long distance relationship-thing. They just don’t work.
Secondly, everyone is single, you, her and Aussie-dude. Does she actually think that he is going to keep his sword sheathed? He’s an Aussie-dude. He won’t. Secondly, it does no good to tell the Aussie-dude to let go for her own sake - he’s an Aussie dude and will hold on for the sake of bravado.
The age difference between you two means scrap to me. Keep going for it.
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Here is the real crux of the matter, she wants to hang onto something that she can’t have. it’s obvious to you and me but it may take time for her to see it. Frankly, you have to move in such a way as to gently tear her from this unhopeable hope she has.
All is fair in love and war. If she’s comming over to spend the night with you - horray! Keep it going. If it goes further, then let it happen.
Yet, you really do know what’s going on but you may not entirily allow yourself to realize it. You are a stand-in boyfriend.
I say that with certain tone because of what you risk. For me, it is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all. But, it also provides contrast for her. What has Aussie-dude done for her???
Nothing.
As long as you both do things together and as long as she has ‘feelings’ for the Aussie-dude, technically she’s double-dating. She isn’t required to break up with her boyfriend to date you - it’s already happening.
If you want her, keep going. Do what it takes. Win the prize, man.

I’ll be around for a while.
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Relationship advise? I only give it when I feel safe:P
I weigh each post differently and consider every avenue I can. I’ll do my best.

Sure she is dating someone else, but it may be that she is just waiting for you to make the first move. But I’m going to be honest, I suck when it comes to relationship advice.

Tbh, I think it sounds like the feelings are mutual.

k

go ahead

Miserable. You?

I looked over the TOu again and saw a way around it. The rule is this: “You are not: Transmit, collect, or access personally identifiable information about other users without the consent of those users and CBS Interactive;”

Well if they click on the link they have given their permission, that’s the way I look at it. So I think I restore your post.

Hmmm…I think there might be.

Hey!

Sorry, but your post had to be deleted because change.org asks for personal information like the address of the user signing the petition and linking to such sites is actually against the rules.

-Freud
Moderator

Just curious about your username. Does it have anything to do with the visual effects protest? Aeolian..

Yea, I miss my friends here, but theres a time for everything. I actually checked in here a week ago and felt like it was just a mind freak, my time spent on here. LOL, I guess I was creating a reality here . Hope that makes sense. Yea, are you happy with your life decisions. Its tuff out here being on your own. When I get it down Ill share it with you. I guess I am just popping in for the day, but I think Ive pretty much said my peace on help.. LOL 12 step program helped me break my addiction.. kidding.. lol.. Stay the coarse .. Keep an open heart, and give em hell, most of them deserve it..

Hi Jackson, its been awhile

I’ve been in tv production for many years. Right now I’m working as managing editor for a digital magazine.

uh oh… drama is never good.

have you told her how you feel? usually i am against confessing to someone in a relationship but if she starts to feel like the long distance is failing, maybe telling her before it fails would be better so you don’t come off as an opportunist preying on the vulnerable.

good for you!! that’s awesome to hear, you must feel great :D this summer i am going to be working out with my mum. NO ONE can whip you into shape better than you mother XD (at least mine)

i’ve been crazy busy with school, so much to do and so little time!

Hey Jackson, don’t know if you remember me. I was sansceriph and then Sans. Joined help I think back in early ‘08 about the same time you did. I didn’t realize you were into animation and design. I’m not exactly into that, but a related industry.

haha smooth XD

hahaha i’d say go for it :D she sounds like she’d make you quite happy :P

that is.. of course, if the boyfriend is not working out. maybe ask about that

noooooooo D: man, you need to get yourself back on the market.

How’s the alley project?

meningitus??? like… seriously or…? get that checked!!!!

*return hugs*

…*also hugs your puppy dog because she’s awesome*

could one of those things easily make just 3D anime type of videos? thats what i am mainly trying to do.

hey DJ, what software do you use to create 3D games you work on? im going to try my hand at making some just for me but i need to know what software to get. any suggestions?

hahaha lol sort of.