Wrong. You need to be a total gentleman here. She is vulnerable and you CANNOT take advantage of that. If you so much as brush a nipple you could lose her forever. Right now you are a monk under oath of celibacy. Let her decide when to to take the veil off.
Well, we both know she is going to need a lot of comforting when she finally has to let go of her beloved pets. I am hoping to find a place where they can live out the rest of their lives in peace. That at least should give her some peace too. Your job will be to help her find employment.
I’m alright. My knee is still sore, but I’m able to walk on it now…
As for my wife… well things were looking good, but the past two days have been… well her memory isn’t very good. She often asks the same question 4 or more times in an hour… she just doesn’t remember asking before, and things like that…
She went for her MRI this past Thursday, so we’re hoping for results soon.
Doc, you have nothing to worry about.
First, you’re right about the long distance relationship-thing. They just don’t work.
Secondly, everyone is single, you, her and Aussie-dude. Does she actually think that he is going to keep his sword sheathed? He’s an Aussie-dude. He won’t. Secondly, it does no good to tell the Aussie-dude to let go for her own sake - he’s an Aussie dude and will hold on for the sake of bravado.
The age difference between you two means scrap to me. Keep going for it.
Here is the real crux of the matter, she wants to hang onto something that she can’t have. it’s obvious to you and me but it may take time for her to see it. Frankly, you have to move in such a way as to gently tear her from this unhopeable hope she has.
All is fair in love and war. If she’s comming over to spend the night with you - horray! Keep it going. If it goes further, then let it happen.
Yet, you really do know what’s going on but you may not entirily allow yourself to realize it. You are a stand-in boyfriend.
I say that with certain tone because of what you risk. For me, it is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all. But, it also provides contrast for her. What has Aussie-dude done for her???
As long as you both do things together and as long as she has ‘feelings’ for the Aussie-dude, technically she’s double-dating. She isn’t required to break up with her boyfriend to date you - it’s already happening.
If you want her, keep going. Do what it takes. Win the prize, man.
I looked over the TOu again and saw a way around it. The rule is this: “You are not: Transmit, collect, or access personally identifiable information about other users without the consent of those users and CBS Interactive;”
Well if they click on the link they have given their permission, that’s the way I look at it. So I think I restore your post.
Yea, I miss my friends here, but theres a time for everything. I actually checked in here a week ago and felt like it was just a mind freak, my time spent on here. LOL, I guess I was creating a reality here . Hope that makes sense. Yea, are you happy with your life decisions. Its tuff out here being on your own. When I get it down Ill share it with you. I guess I am just popping in for the day, but I think Ive pretty much said my peace on help.. LOL 12 step program helped me break my addiction.. kidding.. lol.. Stay the coarse .. Keep an open heart, and give em hell, most of them deserve it..
have you told her how you feel? usually i am against confessing to someone in a relationship but if she starts to feel like the long distance is failing, maybe telling her before it fails would be better so you don’t come off as an opportunist preying on the vulnerable.
good for you!! that’s awesome to hear, you must feel great :D this summer i am going to be working out with my mum. NO ONE can whip you into shape better than you mother XD (at least mine)
i’ve been crazy busy with school, so much to do and so little time!
Hey Jackson, don’t know if you remember me. I was sansceriph and then Sans. Joined help I think back in early ‘08 about the same time you did. I didn’t realize you were into animation and design. I’m not exactly into that, but a related industry.