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• Thank you all, posted (3 months, 3 weeks) ago
  My problem, is being solved… and we both will be getting married by end of this year.. I wish…

• I Really Need help.. posted (5 months) ago
  As per my last post, we decided that we will give 15 days time to see if he can think of me as someo…

• Hi, posted (5 months, 1 week) ago
  Some days back I got engaged with Sonu, Arrenge marrige.. we are being dating for last 4 months now&…

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• I think I need a break from my hubby.
  

  Break off cannot be an option at any given day.. Coz then you will close the doors to go back…
  I feel you need to talk… talk openly with him on what you feel about your relation, wht difficulties you are facing for the same, and what can be the solution on that.
  When you will approach him, do not show at all that even at the back of your maind you are able to think of baking out of this relation..
  Keep the approach as if, there is a problem in the relation, which we both need to discuss ans sort out…
  Give time to him, if he is not open for discursion at this time… and give time to yourself as well!
  
  All the best!
  Anju
  - written 3 months, 3 weeks ago

• My fiance left me four days ago.
  

  I can understand your situation, as i am going through the similar problem, and my engagement as well is on the verge of coming to an end, as is not able to feel a connection, however he do not have any past affair….
  
  If you feel that if she comes back to you, you will take her in your lfe.. is it really worth it dear?
  1 fine day she said lets call it of, you agreed, then she would say i want you back, now you will agree again… is this the way it is gonabe?
  Its a long term commitment, and both the partners have to take 50-50% responcibility.. you cannot take 100% respocibility even if you wish too!
  
  Regards
  Anju.
  - written 4 months, 1 week ago

• I Really Need help..
  

  The thing is that we have aready discussed the things he agrees to the fat completely that he has behaved wrongly with me, and even said sorry for that… thats when he said Let me actually put efforts to make this work.
  last 2-3 days I can see that he is trying really hard to come out of all this… Tonight we all four (Me Kishor, and his parents) will go out for dinneer. And he said we will buy a gift jointly. He only invited me for dinner, he said we full family should go out, as its there marrige aniversary…
  So now i can definetly see his efforts… But i am still not geeting that feel that he has actually realised what is that feeling of Love.
  And just dont know how to make him relaise that.
  - written 5 months ago

• can someone translate something for me?
  

  See, after a certain pasage of time, people tend to take each other for granted or may be the way you behave or react goes completely predictable, and then you start loosingthe charm in the relation, this makes empty mind do some wrong notions about the things we wont…
  I think she again wish to feel the same excitement she felt, when you met her for the first time, or wana agin feel that best hands together…
  To do this you necessarily need not have any 3rd person in your life… Just do some small things which she will never expect from you.
  Make her feel special once again, and treat her the way you treated her on the very first date.. and she will get to know, that she was wrong in saying that!
  All the best.
  - written 5 months ago

• I Really Need help..
  

  Thats not at all a problem for me…
  but the thing is that.. he is a Sr project manager and the project release in 4 months, he just cant think about siding the work at this point of time.
  - written 5 months ago

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