~Lucy~'s reply history at Help.com

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but if he cares for you that little, then maybe you are better off on your own, did he say it in anger, we all say things we dont mean, just in the heat of the moment,

so you will kill yourself because he told you too, so your not her, your daughter is left on her own, and he can carry on his life, come on, is he really worth losing your life over

i think you dont really want to kill yourself, its just an angry outburst because you dont know what else to do, you know you can do this without him, you know there is no perfect parent, you just have to do your best, but first you have to look after yourself

so who has full care of your daughter, i’m confused, but what is important is you get the help you need, you are worth more than someone who tells you to kill yourself. stop and think what life will be like to know her mother killed herself, how messed up will her head be,

i want to say walk, because its free, but that wouldnt be helpful, so i would have thought the train or a coach service

so leave him, and get some help, to get you back on course, you can do it on your own

ok so you have a 4 yr old and pregnant as well, dont these children deserve for you to carry on with life, you dont need some low life if he makes your life sh*t, be strong for yourself, and do a great job of raising your children

[quote PollylaLa]You are not fit to be a mother! You should care for no one more than your daughter! You are talking crap sayign she wouldn’t care! Don’t you dare do this to her! How old is the daughter that youn are trying to abandon forever???????[/quote]

your not helping poll

so you’ve made some bad decisions, haven’t we all, make the changes to make your life better. you must want some help, or you wouldnt have come here, talk to people, it can make all the difference

[quote HelloJewel]Get a better job?Move in with family?Go to a ******* home?GET OFF THE INTERNET?!Yeah!Instead of getting another job and paying for electricity, LET’S GO ON THE INTERNET AND ***** ABOUT OUR PROBLEMS![/quote]

thats not really helpful

cant you set up a weekly/monthly payment plan, where some of the money will be taking off your debt,

ok, well come back when you’ve tried living like that after a month and tell us whether it has made you happy, if you want to throw your life away no-one can stop you, but people will be lees interested in helping you if they see you wont help yourself

i guess you will need to get a new job, so you will meet people there, but moving doesnt change who you are, and so whatever you are struggling with now wont change

if you have social anxiety, it will be with you where ever you move to, you need to get some help to overcome your anxiety, if people where you live now know you as a quiet person, but are ok with you then why not use that as a start and when you see someone that you have seen around why not just start by trying to smile and say hi as you pass them in the street