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• Just in case anyone was wondering I have not been on for 2 weeks as been more ill than usual. posted (4 months) ago
  Sorry for delay to shouts and invites. I will be on tomorrow or at the weekend. Hope you all ok.…

• I’ve changed my photo. posted (4 months, 3 weeks) ago
  I think kittys arms were getting tired being held up Lol.…

• God Made a Man But then he had a Better Idea :) lol posted (5 months) ago
  Made a Man But then he had a Better Idea :) lol…

• Suicide Urge. posted (5 months) ago
  I just want to say a big thank you to everyone who responded to my posts, I was really surprised at …

• Internet Love Scams. posted (5 months) ago
  This is a post I posted last year on a site that has loads of info on Internet Love Scammers. I am …

• I am still fighting the urge to kill myself. posted (5 months) ago
  I posted about how I was feeling and all my health issues a couple of days ago. And was very surpris…

• I am 47, I suffer with various illnesses for 14 years now and I am in a wheelchair. posted (5 months, 1 week) ago
  I usually hide how i feel, but I have got so depressed recently I am thinking of killing myself, but…

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• (1 vote) Hey…my name is Britanie…I’m 16 years
  

  Hi Sweetheart, I was 1 of the people who responded before. You obviously have had a traumatic childhood. Which I can relate to as well. As I said above in my 1st reply, I have depression so I know how you feel. Also I am a mother of 3 kids, 2 of which are girls. My 1st born, was with my 1st love., Who while sober was great but drink made him violent, so I can understand your mum too as I was only 17. If your mum did not care, she would have dumped you with social services and run off. But I am guessing because she had you to think of, like a lot of women in this situation think they can’t cope alone. I would guess you & your mum are having arguments and some adults forget what it’s like to be 15/16 and all the changes going on in your body will affect you physically & emotionally. You MUST speak to a professional. You have taken a step by coming on here but you need someone who can sit down with you who is a professional to help you. As we all said above your DR, EMERGENCY ROOM OR SCHOOL COUNSELLER. Also why don’t you try sitting your mum down and telling her honestly how you feel, but not when you are fighting. When you are with her next and things are not too bad tell her, and explain it the way you have on here. At least you will have tried. But as I say please go to a professional too, as depression is a MEDICAL ILLNESS you must not feel ashamed. As for your dad, I hope he will change maybe he has had help this time. Did you know that Alcoholism is also a MEDICAL CONDITION. I f your dad gets or has had professional help and he really wants to stop drinking it’s not easy but it is possible. Try and understand your mum was only a year older than you, when you were born and she had to put up with the violence too. BUT she has never left you from what you say, so she must love you. Also speaking as a mother no matter what happens mothers nearly always do love their children but sometimes, when things are difficult, they don’t always show it, or if they have to work they get tired and stressed and sometimes don’t see what is really going on. So try talking to her too. As far as those girls in school go. They are just mean bullies. Don’t let them see that what they say upsets you as that’s why they do it, because they are ignorant or jealous or maybe they have problems too and that’s how they deal with it. But do not listen to them a lot of the time it’s jealously. Don’t give them the satisfaction that their words get to you. Just laugh and tell them their sad, or just walk away. If things don’t work out well with your dad in 2 years you will be 18 and can leave. If you study and try and get your exams and think of your future and what you would like to do with your life. You will get though this but you must get PROFESSIONAL HELP, OK. Let us know what happens. Good Luck. Believe in yourself.
  
  - written 5 months ago – voted for by lovwink13

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• Harry potter meets Rent.
  

  LOL
  - written 4 months, 2 weeks ago

• Do you belive in aliens?
  

  YES I definitely believe in aliens, The universe is sooo big, there are galaxies we dont know anything about, and planets we haven’t found yet. I think to think (confused you all now) We are the only life form in a Universe we haven’t even really explored and is so massive is a bit arrogant of us. Anyway, I am an alien according to my friends LOL. Lecture over :)
  - written 4 months, 2 weeks ago

• I want to post some magic dust in case my birthday card for MariaBad doesn’t arrive on time.
  

  [quote Breaking The Silence]I read magic dust and birthday card and the first thing to come to my mind is anthrax.[/quote]
  LOL
  - written 4 months, 2 weeks ago

• I want to post some magic dust in case my birthday card for MariaBad doesn’t arrive on time.
  

  [quote dolace1]HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!Great people r born in da beautiful month of MAY! mine is
  da 28.[/quote]
  You are soooo right too, shall try and remember yours Lol, Thanks. :)
  - written 4 months, 2 weeks ago

• I want to post some magic dust in case my birthday card for MariaBad doesn’t arrive on time.
  

  [quote magic dust]um…….
  why do u want to post a little bit of me??
  
  
  happy birthday anway
  i should be there apparantly…..
  so happy brthday for yesterday (i think)
  
  hope u had a great day
  
  xx[/quote]
  
  Thanks, and thanks for letting mas borrow a bit of you Lol
  - written 4 months, 2 weeks ago

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