yea, i feel like you did overreact.
but then, perhaps i did too. my father passed away on monday morning, im all out of sorts right now. please forgive me. and do stay around, weve all had our run ins with people, its just the way it gos with human nature i guess.
Post has been removed =)
I hope that means you will
be staying here at help.com
If there are any other questions
or concerns feel free to leave
me a shout. It is ~ 6:30am
and due to school I will not
be back till sometime after
3pm(eastern standard time)
so if I do not reply for awhile
I am just not here. Have a good
day.
Sorry to feel that way and wish you would stay. I could remove the post completely if that would get you to stay here at help.com
As for shutting down your account, we are not allowed to do that. But the following link will provide you with a way to effectively “close” your account. http://help.com/faq#sect18
By going that course you are free to return to help.com at any time simply by logging back in.
It’s my pleasure. I so know how you feel. There have been a couple of times where I have felt like I’ve been cut open and thrown into the Amazon bleeding. Once the man eating fish get the whiff of blood (and there are alot of them here) they are there just to eat you up. If you do have to leave I hope you can come back… or feel free to keep in contact via my website www.greenmancoaching.com
I understand what you are going though. I’ve felt it… many of us have. Ken, actually is a really good mod. I’m sure he meant no insult. But I do understand you. Most of us here are looking for a little bit of validation. It’s important, and when we feel we get the opposite of that, it is very harsh. Now you may say that is not the case with you, and that’s ok too… still not getting the support you felt you needed is hard. It happened to you today… it’s happened to me many times.(including shouts from the main admin telling me to basically stop reporting posts)
The bottom line Medusa… I’ve seen your post and your more importantly your replies. You DO bring value to this site. If you must go, I will understand, but I will also mourn the departure of a valued member.
Bright blessings ~ Richard
I have no “problem” with you. Ask me what you do not understand about this. You reported a post. The post was fine(good that you reported it but…), your reply to the poster telling them to leave is harassing or offensive. I told you kindly(as I had many people agree the shout was not offensive) that next time you report a post you think is wrong do not tell the user to leave or that they won’t get help here. Make the report and let us look into it. Do you understand?
You can report things. the report was fine to make. Better safe than sorry. in this case the post you reported didn’t violate the TOS. The thing you did wrong was tell the user to leave. Just reports posts and don’t bother telling them
How did I harass him? Does that mean that I am not able to report anyone? How do I know when it is ok to report someone or not? Should I not bother and leave it all to the mods? So what’s the point of having a reporting system? Could you please be less rude? A least explain why the post is ok rather than telling me I am haradding someone.
I am honored that you added me to your friends list, thank you. It is my pleasure to return the favor and add you to mine as well. Please feel free to shout me anytime, or email me via my website; www.greenmancoaching.com