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• So recently I met a girl and got to know each other pretty well.
  

  Oh and that time may be YEARS down the road. I know from experience. Go out and date and see what is out there. The timing for these things is up to a higher power.
  - written 5 months ago

• So recently I met a girl and got to know each other pretty well.
  

  If you really want to be with this girl. BE PATIENT. Don’t do anything more than you did when you knew you were just friends. she already knows what you want her to know. it is up to her to figure out when she is ready. you both may end up falling for someone else. Time has a way of changing things whether we want them to or not. always be understanding and respectful of what she wants. when the time comes you will know it
  - written 5 months ago

• I’m not sure if I’m doing the right thing.
  

  Well after that long you can claim him as your husband. some states have a common law marriage law that basically means you are married just not in the system. What does he say to you when you talk to him about it? How does he treat you? How important is marriage to you? Love is what is the most important. Love binds all. what does your heart tell you? do you feel married?
  - written 5 months ago

• I am in an interracial relationship, and it seems to be a problem for my boyfriend’s mother.
  

  You need to know how he feels about you. I mean really feels. Is he willing to go the distance? Is the only reason he can not give you a ring due to his mothers money? Does she have other reasons to not like you? a lot of this depends on how much he loves you versus how much he loves his mother. regardless he should respect you both. If he truly wants to be with you then he and his mother will have to come to an understanding. that is between them. How patient are you? If you feel he is the one then only time will tell. good luck
  - written 5 months ago

• hmmm..here’s a complex situation for me…my
  

  First off he made the decision to leave her. Don’t feel guilty. let him know how you feel. you will experience a lot of first with this guy. and believe it or not he will experience his share with you. We have firsts with each new person we date. Enjoy them They are yours.
  - written 5 months ago

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