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• Last night the tree in my back yard was split in half through the trunk by heavy winds. posted (3 months, 3 weeks) ago
  Does this mean that the tree has to be cut down?…

• I have decided to go back to college and I am scared. posted (3 months, 3 weeks) ago
  I am 41 years old, divorced, with three children ages 15, 11 and 8, of whom I take care. I work tw…

• I have a post from yesterday about how I feel about myself; on how I dont think I am pretty. posted (4 months) ago
  Well, the reason I feel this way is I have had three dates in the past month with three different m…

• I dont want this to seem like a “poor me” post, but I suppose it will. posted (4 months) ago
  I dont like myself and I never have. I am 41 years old, a recently divorced mother of three ages 1…

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• So how do I start trusting my husband again after I caught him talking to another woman?
  

  Men are fairly cut and dry with their answers where we women want to probe deeper; sometimes making a mountain out of a molehill. I do agree that the first response was a little rude, but if Anon really wanted help, she would at least read all the posts and help us more to understand why she is upset over “just talking”. I didnt get out of this post that he cheated before, and essence did. So unless she comes back and clarifies, then we did all we could :)
  - written 3 months, 1 week ago

• Why do people find it so hard to forgive a liar?
  

  Trust is earned and when one lies, the trust is gone. Forgiving the liar isnt the problem, it is the fact that the liar now has to earn one’s trust again, which could take a very long time depending on the lie.
  - written 3 months, 1 week ago

• job-hunting is hard for me.
  

  I know what you mean about your lack of confidence regarding never getting a college education. Im in the same boat girlfriend! I wish you all the best :)
  - written 3 months, 1 week ago

• So how do I start trusting my husband again after I caught him talking to another woman?
  

  I think that where the word “again” is used in this post doesnt imply that he cheated before. This post really sounds like jealousy and possibly self esteem issues. If I’m wrong, then I want Anon to let me know. Men and women live in this world together, and talking to one another is inevitable. If Anon has trust issues with only talking, which is what she typed, then her marriage will be in trouble. Trust and communication are the key to success. With her probing him about just talking to another women, he put up his defenses because he is upset over the fact that she doesnt trust him. He told her nothing happened passed talking, but if she keeps harping on the issue, of course he is going to be upset.
  - written 3 months, 1 week ago

• So how do I start trusting my husband again after I caught him talking to another woman?
  

  I suppose if you caught him talking with her in an intimate way, that would be reason to be upset. If he was just talking, then you need to stop and think how you would feel if you were just talking to another man and your husband didnt believe you when you said nothing happened. You would be angry too for not being trusted by him.
  - written 3 months, 1 week ago

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