okei!'s shout trail with zilverknight - Help.com

I replyed back. Are you heading of for the day? If so I wish thee a pleasent day and a goodnight rest for later

i sent u an email. pls check it out.
thanks for everything. hv a nice da =)

No I’m not chinese. but I’m a huge mix off diffrent races…

My e-mail is this user name @hotmail.com

idk ur email! do i hv to reseach on it here.

i appreciate ur helping, & u talking too much is not in a negative way. i am just lazy reading much. =)

i want to see ur face. ru chinese looking? describe it here.

me, they say i hv chinese fair looking skin.

in my previous old shouts I have written my e-mail address. e-mail me then I’ll send you my full name as I don’t want it to show here.

And I don’t talk much acteully only if needed to be.

u talk to much (but i dont mean it in a negative way)
no. not indonesia.
wats ur fb acct (email pls) i’ll add u up. so we can see each other’s pictures

I’m not overreacting. This Is what guys see. if you like it or not.

Perhaps you can’t force feelings but one has a brain and wisdom to weild it properly.

You can ignore feelings… for instance I’m angry with a person and want him death. doesn’t make it right for me to act on it. Because I felt so… or
I saw a nice looking chick and I can use her as a dip and then some. if the feeling isn’t mutual doesn’t make it right to act on it either.

You always have a choice to act on it or not. another example regarding feelings a classic: your Queen and your daughter is in trouble You want to safe her but can’t because if you do you forfeit every life of your people. and your daughter was clearly in the wrong.

What will you do act on it safe her? make a compromise? or forfeit the people?

Let me geuss your from indonasia right? just geussing I have some indonasian friends. I’m also part chinese in my bloodline. My hobby is learning japanese so yes I know and into Asian culture

and yes I have Facebook

ur overreacting! im no way hunting 4 taken men! of course not! it just happens when it happens.
u cant force feelings! u cant force d magic! d compatibility factor. d common denominators! each day, u cant help but think of him. boyA. boyB. etc. but lately im more into boyB lol. but hey, he flirted 1st. i think. im not sure now.
im in asia. do u know countries in asia? & ya i work too. other than waiting for my 1 tru love i work to save my sanity & keep me from starving =)

do u hv facebook? i cn add u up

Once again that is an illusion. A dangeous Fantasy.

Lets pretend I’m Guy C just an example

I see a nice good looking won. Seems to have a nice personlity. Nice smile… pleasing to the eyes. All check!

All system go! going in for the kill. Let’s find more about this pretty lady. So I observe ask Quistions and etc. as I’m interested.

Now I get too hear something not nice…Rumours been floating that your hunting guys who are in a relationship. Big red flag…. Not only one but two.. another flag… It also happen in the past before these two. and openly flirting when there obviously taken! another red flag. Those are three flags already….

Okay.. okay pradise not lost the dream of her is still theretis cute sexy woman. Then I hear that many friends and family disagree of her choice and lifestyle. But she won’t listen…. Okay she has a right to be bit stubborn it’s her induvidualty! Then I hear i’s ben going on for months now and even years! red flag, red flag even more red flags!

Then I think this almost sound like a rerun from desperate housewives! or sex and the city…

This girl is hot but can’t be reason with another red flag.

Verdict…. I pass too much hassle!

This is what your potential guy is seeying. Is this the message you want to come acros with?

I look older then my age. But I’ll look younger when I come of age. IT runs in the family. I got good genes.

Where I’m from? The Netherlands I’m an IT System Administrator how about you?

ya correct. wud dat be old? lol well, in all fairness, i dont think i look like one. (im more of a smiling face, & i laugh like an idiot most of the time, & i think that helps in making me look younger than my age)

ur still young 26! but i guess u hv ur share of experiences to share it w/ idiots like me lol

ur from where? wat do u in life?

If you want either get yahoo or MSN. it’s much easier too chat and isn’t monitored on here.

I’m finishing my other reply as we speak.

Regarding me yes I’m somewhat knowledgable I’m still learning. I’m 26 as you have seen my previous post most likely. You cannot see that it is my age. Don’t be fooled by my age…. Moving along… I’m not in a relationship atm. I’m single… Reason haven’t found Ms Right nor am I in a hurry.

May I ask your age as a lady? I know it’s rude to ask. I think it was around 29 if I’m correct?

i don’t have. u seem to be knowledgeable at relationships. how old ru btw? ru into one now?

seems your online now do you have msn or yahoo?

thanks for all the advice. i really appreciate it. but you see, i know all of that long before i fell for him. though i am still unsure if i really fell for him now. cause you see, i know that he is in a long, committed relationship with a beautiful, decent woman (with whom he would do anything for)

but you see we had a lot of things in common, so much compatibilities. too many to ignore. there is somethin in his eyes, in his smile, in everything and anything he says and does. i know it is hard, just now as it is, it is hard. i long to give him the better of me. but there is something in me that backs away.

he is my co-worker. we work in close proximity. and i think he had been dear as a friend as well. i don’t think ignoring him totally is an option. cause for now he gives me happiness, a sort of breather.

anyway, i won’t do anything immorally if that’s what you think. in fact, we never had kissed at all. though he constantly invade my dreams, the hell idk why! i can see in my dreams his deep, prolonged look. smile that won’t go away. oh! why does he have to be with someone, hadn’t he waited for me?! lol (bad again i know!)

Your in love with an image. what you think love is. This guy is taken why do you allow your mind to think there aren’t better guys then him.

If you focus on him which is wrong. You will never ever see other guys that are good. Not only are you wasting your time on him. Your wasting your time to find a a lot more decent guy then him.

As mention you fell in love with an Image (illusion) that is he. Wake up smell the coffee. because that perfect guy other then him is already infront of you or about to show up in your life. But if you focus on this guy. you will miss him. And that is trully a crime. The risk is too great to miss out. Okei atm your betting on the wrong horse! your going too loose too much at this rate!

u know wat, i didnt plan to feel watever it is i think is feeling now. for months i backed away & wont let proximity win. BUT it happened. i dont know how d hell it happened but it happened dat my feelings had grown over him.

u see, idk where the tears r coming from when i thought dat he & his gf are going to get married. u see, it pains me d hell, dont know wat d hell im feeling 4 him

If you think he is your happiness. You have a big problem…

Your life in love, will be only in ruin….
I can advice you to stop that kind of lifestyle. but I won’t advice you to get that guy. have you even read what I wrote?

there is a 95% chance he will cheat on you even you managed to get him for yourself….

ya. wrong in every sense of d word. but he’s my happiness

Tbh. Your going the whole wrong way regarding this guy. I recommend you cease and desist with this guy.

This guy is not good for you. even if you manage to win him, over and he becomes your bf. What is stopping him to not do it again flirting with another woman. While he is with you.

The path your on now and your quest will lead to a destructive and bittered live.

The path your on is not healthy. I don’t think when you where a little girl growing up and said to yourself “wish”. I want to be miserable and stealing people bf so I can be even more miserable in life.

ya. how would u make a man fall 4u. ur so compatible yet it won’t be that way, cause he’s in a long time relship w/ another.

Hello Okei

Do you wish to talk?

Hello okei

Hope you in good health. This is my IM name
type in this name and then @ hotmail.com

Think it will be easier this way to talk.
Hope to hear from you soon.

Cheers,

ya hellO!

Heya I’m a friend of Angie. I just passed by on this site after a long while. As I was talking to angie I was wondering… what was holding her up. To see you where chatting with her. So I taught hmm let’s drop a hiya.

How are you doing? A friend of Angie is a friend of mine. My name is Zilverknight but you can call me Leonardo at your service milady