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• I’m in love with someone i really shouldnt be.
  

  thank you ~lilies~
  - written 4 months, 4 weeks ago

• I’m in love with someone i really shouldnt be.
  

  thanks. im planning on studying first and when i have a job and can support myself i’ll move away from my parents. and he has told me he will wait for me. he doesnt want to me to do anything stupid and reminds me that we will be together someday when the time is right.
  i just hate how even tho my parents know nothing of this relationship, they still dictate what i can and cannot do.
  - written 4 months, 4 weeks ago

• I’m in love with someone i really shouldnt be.
  

  this isnt a phase. he is the guy for me. there are so many things right between us. it would have been easier for me to not enter a relationship with him but i have and it has been worth is. he is the reason im happy again. for years ive been the good little girl that my parents want me to be but ive never been happy. he loves me for me and not the idea of me - thats what my parents do. he is the reason im enjoying my youth. i dont particularly want to go against my parents wishes. before i met my bf i was happy marrying the ideal asian guy but i cant now that ive met my bf. i would love to follow my parents wishes but how can i if it isnt what i want. it would only make me miserable again like i was b4.
  - written 4 months, 4 weeks ago

• I’m in love with someone i really shouldnt be.
  

  Well when i turn 18 i can do what i want. in theory i can move out now if i really wanted. Thing is, both me and my bf are in full time education and we want to go to uni etc. I know this sound wrong of me but practically its better for me to stay here till im qualified and have a good job etc. My family are well off enough that i dont need to worry about finances for uni whereas my bf comes from a single parent family where money is tighter. if i were to leave my family id have problems supporting myself etc. Is it wrong of my to stay with my family till after i have got my qualifications and am in a good job?
  - written 4 months, 4 weeks ago

• last night was the first time in a long time that i cried!
  

  you are a very strong person for admitting you sat and cried and wrote all that. I know that sometimes all you can feel is the pain but try to find the positives and concentrate on that.
  - written 4 months, 4 weeks ago

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