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• You know who you are… posted (6 months) ago
  …And I just really wish I had never told you about this place. I feel now that there really i…

• The Feeling Of Being Avoided. posted (8 months, 1 week) ago
  And alone. This guy, the same one from my last post, we’ve been talking every day for nearly…

• This isn’t really a rant or question or story. posted (8 months, 1 week) ago
  It just is. So, I don’t know if I’m crazy or not, but it’s really getting that wa…

• He’s Not Hard…. posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  So… my boyfriend is about to be 25. We just started dating about a month ago, though I’…

• This Song Reminds Me of This Site. posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  It’s The Nobodies, by Marilyn Manson. At first, you think its incredibly depressing. But for s…

• My Fatass Loathing posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  Okay, so im ready to lose weight but i have no ****** clue how to go about it. Like… im about…

• My guy friend gives me goosebumps. posted (1 year, 6 months) ago
  But i have a boyfriend. im so confused. i wish things would go back to the way they were, when i did…

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• You know who you are…
  

  You’re account is deactivated, lol.
  But I love you with everything I am. And thank you for coming home to me. I can’t say that enough, even if you never do read this reply.
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  - written 3 months ago

• The Bible..Read it..you know you want to.
  

  I think this post is awesome.
  And I think it served it’s purpose.
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago

• Ive lost my virginity
  

  Um, I read this way too late, I think, so I don’t know if you still need help or not, lol. But I just thought you should know that you probably should not worry about getting prego. I’ve had worse things happen to me than having the condom split, and I’ve taken the morning after pill two different times and I’ve been okay, so I think you will be too. I know that the first time I took it, I was fine except for minor stomach pains. But the second time I was really sick and had to leave work to go lay down. It can effect you two different ways I guess, but either way you should be okay. I would do like they said though, and if the pain from losing your virginity lasts for longer than a week then go get checked out. You don’t need anyting else to worry about, aside from this dude being a prick. *Angry face* Grrr…..
  But yeah. I would not worry so much if I were you in this situation, becuase it’s rare that the pill does not work, since it is a high dose of birh-control. And pains are normal the first time, so you should be fine. If you have any questions, feel free to ask. Lol, this is a real long comment. But all-in-all, I am just glad that you are smart and I think you did the right thing by getting the pill. A lot of girls worry too much to even think of doing so and then have to face the consequenses.
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago

• My friend has been cutting herself since 7th grade
  

  I used to cut, too. All the time. I cut my ankle so nobody would see.Your friend is lucky though, to have someone like you. My friends never asked me to stop, but rather started doing it themselves and were only there to literally patch the wounds when I cut too deep. They are real friends, but they never told me what I needed to hear, such as the fact that 1,) It’s okay to be upset, and 2.) It’s not okay to blame yourself. No matter what happens, your friend needs to know that it’s not their fault, or atleast that nothing will be made better in the way they are trying to vent. When I cut, I always told myself that I’d stop when somebody asked me to, because thats how I knew someone really cared. But no one ever asked me to, but rather just watched. Then, when my mom found out, she cried and begged me to stop. So I did. I promised her I wouldn’t do it again and thus far haven’t. All that it took for me was to know someone really cared. And I think you should let your friend know how bad this hurts you, and that she not only hurting herself. And if that doesn’t work, then do as the others have said and show your friend this site. She will always have someone to talk to here.
  Good luck. You really seem to be a great friend.
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago

• You know who you are…
  

  Okay, yeah. I used to be a major cutter. Hardcore. And sometimes I still like to think of doing it, even if I don’t anymore and know I shouldn’t. I just like to keep reminders around, because sometimes it’s okay to remember my own past, and all the reasons why it’s better left there, even if I need to see it in my everyday life to cope. I’m not offended. Makes me feel better, kinda, to know I’m not alone in it. It’s rare to meet cutters where I’m from, let alone hear about them unless the people on the news get bored and use it as a lame ’story’, lol.
  
  And thank you very much, Grace. I’m very glad that I found this place, even though now the friend that this is about found my past posts. I’m hoping if he ever comes back, he will read this as well, mostly because I hate to say anything and ruin his good times. But no matter what, I will continue to post here. People help me, and I like helping others. I think this is the best place I’ve ever discovered. Even more-so thrilling that it was an accident I found it.
  Thank you :)
  - written 6 months ago

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