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• Exercise for older, mature people:How much is YOUR bail? posted (4 years, 9 months) ago
  This is fun to do. Just read the ‘offense’ and if you’ve done it, you owe that f…

• Do beggars here bother you? posted (4 years, 9 months) ago
  First off, I’ve got to say: I really like help.com! I think it stands for something great. I…

• How do I patent an idea? posted (4 years, 9 months) ago
  I’ve got (what I think) is a great idea for a website. It would be something pretty big with…

• how come it says, “hi my name is…(above my avatar)? posted (4 years, 9 months) ago
  i definitely did not write that in. i think it’s a little silly looking and i want to change …

• What can i do for my mother? posted (4 years, 9 months) ago
  She deserves a break! i wrote a post yesterday that gives examples of all the sh8t my mom has to d…

• I feel so helpless….. posted (4 years, 9 months) ago
  well, i’ve mentioned before that i am clean 2yrs. i was addicted to heroin for 12yrs. i’…

• MEN ARE JUST HAPPIER PEOPLE posted (4 years, 9 months) ago
  NICKNAMES * If Laura, Kate and Sarah go out for lunch, they will call each other Laura, Kat…

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jezzy9's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) Do you cut?
  

  very well put. i is healthy to get angry!
  ya know, when you hear about those people that snap and commit horrific crimes(usually against their loved ones)? well, they are the people that do not get angry. they keep everything bottled up until they snap
  that is one reason why it is healthy to release your anger. otherwise it becomes negative energy that turns on you. you end up directing it either at yourself, or it gets directed in the complete wrong direction.
  
  of course there are good and bad ways to show your anger. freaking out breaking things is not really the best way to go.
  you must acknowledge your feelings, no matter how good or bad they feel. anger is not immature. it’s actually a sign of maturity, the fact that you can separate what’s acceptable and what’s not.
  
  while we are on this subject, i will also mention that it is good for two people in a relationship to argue sometimes. my fiance thinks i’m crazy because i told him that we have to learn how to argue correctly! he says”correctly, huh?”
  yes, correctly! screaming, saying hurtful things is not the way to go.
  
  but it’s ok to disagree and share that with each other. it’s ok to not get along. acknowledging it, and dealing with it is the way to go.
  
  the longer you keep things bottled up inside, the more detramental they will be to you when they finally come out. because eventually, they will come out-one way or another
  
  - written 4 years, 9 months ago – voted for by Felicity

• (1 vote) DONT LISTEN TO THEM, THEY DONT KNOW !
  

  i agree with some of yourf ideas but not everything on a whole. education is very very important! its also very importat for parents to be teachers to their children. kids are very impressionable and they are not going to learn everything at home. parents need to encourage their children to be individuals, be creative, and think freely.
  
  some people, some religions without a doubt restrict their children/followers from free thought. that’s unfortunate. there are waaaaaay too many conformists, yes.
  
  i do think that people should break molds, and be different. a good education can encourage all of that. i do think the restriction comes more from with in home, then at school.
  
  bad parents are the ones that think their children will learn everything they need to know at school. so not true!
  also, bad parents are the ones that need their children to be a ‘certain way’ because that’s whats acceptable in their neighborhood!
  i could go on and on about this, but i’ll just leave it at that for now
  
  - written 4 years, 9 months ago – voted for by Chunkymoves

• (1 vote) *
  

  that was great! what about,1. i cut myself for fun because it feels good!
  2. i cheated on my boyfriend but he is THE MOST important thing to me ever, and i love him so much.
  3.i have a whole bunch of kids but i can’t take care of them because i refuse to work! having a job is for stiffs! who will give me money? oh yeh, i’m pretty too.
  4. should i dye my hair black or red?
  
  - written 4 years, 9 months ago – voted for by Commander Ikari

• (1 vote) To All Cutters.
  

  okay guerilla radio, that scenario sounds very traumatic, but we all have our own traumatic situations. our problems are ours because it’s the things in our life that hurts us. my problems are no less of a problem to me just because yours might be bigger or worse.
  
  i’ve been through some very traumatic things, butt here’s always going to be a worse story than mine.that doesn’t make mine any less traumatic!
  
  - written 4 years, 10 months ago – voted for by JahRadio

• (1 vote) I am trying to figure out if I should call off my wedding.
  

  well, just to tell you a little experience of mine-
  my son is 8 months old. so, when i first got pregnant, my fiance lied to me about something MAJOR! he didn’t cheat or anything but, to me it was HUGE!
  anyway, i felt soo betrayed. i think lying is so unacceptable. i feel that you should never lie in a relationship.
  So when that happened it caused big fights and i started to question everything he said to me. i considered just giving up in him, but i didn’t.
  it’s a year and half later and i now trust him 100%. it was a foolish thing to do, it caused hard times, but i think he really learned fom it. ever since he has totally stepped up, he’s a great man and a great father.
  
  i tell you this because you have to weigh everything out. when two people truly love each other, you have to weather the storms that come.
  at the same time, without trust you can’t have much
  so, will he stop
  or will he lie to you your whole life?
  you have to ask him and yourself. look deep within and if you really feel that he will never change, you should atleast delay the wedding
  
  being lied to sucks, it hurts and it can drive you CRAZY!
  
  - written 4 years, 10 months ago – voted for by kmichelle

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• I need help getting my life together.
  

  I agree with LazyDaze. You should definitely talk to a doctor. I’m sure if you get help with the panic attacks, it will be much easier to deal with everything else. I worry way too much…I imagine the worst ALL THE TIME, i think it’s very unhealthy. I try not to do it, it’s very hard to control. So I just constantly tell myself that everything is gonna be ok. Good Luck. Definitely try and deal with it in a healthy way.
  - written 4 years, 4 months ago

• I use Ares, a peer to peer soft, all goes well till last week.
  

  you should take ares completely off of your computer and re-download it. i used to use ares but there’s a lot of viruses. you’re better off using torrents to download everything
  - written 4 years, 4 months ago

• ~So Tell Me~
  

  yeh i’ve been made fun of by my fiance. he makes comments about how i gotta hurry up, get on the computer and go help people…..
  it’s all in good fun. we’re like that with each other, we do a great job at making each other laugh. it’s okay to sometimes find your laughter through making fun of your loved ones sometimes. as long as it’s not in a hurtful manner
  - written 4 years, 8 months ago

• ~Deleting My Friends List~
  

  i’m not on this site an awful lot, but i try to respond to invites. i especially like yours. they usually make me laugh! i wouldn’t mind staying on your list.
  
  ya know i have a short list of friends and none of them ever show up to my invites so i don’t even bother anymore!!!!!
  - written 4 years, 8 months ago

• If You had a Super Power what would it be ?
  

  yeh invisibility would be cool. also though the ability to heal yourself when you get hurt
  - written 4 years, 8 months ago

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