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• Today is a better day…I am feeling better about my marriage. posted (1 year, 6 months) ago
  But…there is still this empty hole. Is that empty hole something I should be feeling cause I c…

• One more day has passed. posted (1 year, 6 months) ago
  I am feeling worse than yesterday. My husband is so understanding about the affair. But I know he is…

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• i feel like blowing my brains all over the wall.
  

  I am really worried about you..You havent replied to any of us..I know this must be hard for you. But we want to help you…we care. you have to talk you have to open up. No it isnt easy talking abut your feelings but you cryed out for help. That is saying something. That means you WANT HELP. Please let me know that you are ok. I have worried about you since I first read your post.
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

• Domestic voilence help.
  

  you have to get out of there. I know it seems as if it is impossible. But it isnt worth risking you or your children. I know it is scary to be on your own. DOn’t ever think for one minute that maybe it will get better. This will continue and may even get worse. I have a child and I would run like hell if I even thought my husband would hurt either one of us. You need to contact your local churches and the police dept. They can help. The church can help find you somewhere to stay until you get on your own 2 feet. There are plenty of single moms out there…you arent alone. I know it must seem hard because you have so many kids but you will find help. You will fin dthat ppl are kind and gracious when soemone is in need. This is a life and death situation please get yourself out. Do you have any good friends or family that may be able to help?
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

• I’m trying to figure out my marriage.
  

  Read my posts and you will see that my marriage is hard and confusing..Maybe it will make light of your marriage
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

• One more day has passed.
  

  I must leave for work now but I feel somewhat better knowing that my marriage may be hurt but that it is going to work…Starting new and fresh means something…it means that I have a man that loves me and the he understands me more than I know…and that is a good feeling. Especially to go to work with. Thank you all for your help.
  I know I need to forgive myself and that is my goal.
  Until next time….
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

• One more day has passed.
  

  That is true so I guess I should feel happy. I feel bad mostly because I hurt him and I dont feel like I deserve forgiveness. He told me after I told him that he had cheated on his ex a few times..he never told me that before.but I guess he was trying in his own way to relate to me…to tell me that it is ok..that we are both human..I think that my marriage will last..I just have a lot of work to do..and that stresses me out
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

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