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Sexuality is something very personal for everyone. It’s alright to question it, so long as you take care of yourself and love who you want to love.

It’s not really the rate at which your losing weight that matters, but the way in which you are losing it. Are you still eating enough, not over excercising? As long as you are losing weight through healthy means and aren’t already underweight than 6lbs in 2 weeks sounds fine.

I don’t know the exact number of cases in Australia, but there have been not deaths. I was refused entry into an important exam at uni though, because I had a slight cough and a sniffle… It was 8am on a winter morning who doesn’t sniffle a little bit?? So worried? Not particularly, not yet anyway. Irritated? Very, I’m not able to resit the exam until july!!

I think something that is at the core of people is that they are scared. Teenage pregnancy is scary to them because it could happen to them or their daughters. When things seem unpleasant or frightening the first instinct people have is to hate it so that they can justify their feeling scared… This means that they can justify not trying to understand, not having to deal with things. This is where bigotry and judgement comes from. I don’t know I guess all we can do is hold our heads high and be what we are as honestly and authentically as possible.

The good thing is that not everbody has this reaction to things their scared of, and some people don’t get scared easily… Some people will actually understand and ask and listen. You seem to have a lot of people around you who care for you and will support you in every possible way, and no matter how horrible things can get you always have yourself to rely on, in everything that you are and can be. If you can keep hold of who you are and live that, than no matter what hits you, and who looks down on you, you can bring glorious things out of the most horrible circumstances… Sorry I don’t mean to sound to bright and sparkly, but I guess we all just have to be hopeful sometimes.

As long as I live I never think I’ll ever understand my dad. But be honest with him try to talk to him, and if he gets angry, just tell him that you love him, and won’t fight with him, if he wants to be angry let him be angry but don’t bite back, it just makes everything build into a conflict….

I don’t know what you wrote sounds pretty good, but just make sure you let him knows you love him and don’t want to fight with him.

tell him, and try to figure out with him a way that you can help pay it off… be honest and apologise and stuff… It’ll be easier than having him blow of the handle if he finds out by himself.

Hang in there… I can’t offer any advice, because we all have to go through these things however we can in our own ways… I can say though I am three years free of SI and although I have crappy days most of the time life is glorious… SI can be a coping mechanism so I would never tell you not to, but one day you won’t have too, and you won’t want to. Just look forward to that, give yourself something to want and work for.

There’s not a lot you can do… except talk to him find out where he is coming from, maybe suggest that he speak to someone, a counselor, social worker or anyone, help him get some frameworks in place to deal with whatever he is dealing with.

Love story theme song?

Apple, green tea, cool shower… maybs an energy drink?

Let them know you’re sorry and that you are always there for them, and then give them some space. If they have an issue they probably need some time alone to sort it out. When they’re ready they’ll know your a friend and you’ll be able to sort it out.

Tea and chocolate cure everything! Also distractions, taking sometime for yourself and talking to a friend all help.

It’s best to wait 10 days after the last time you had sex… Are you worried?

There is a lot of hate in this world, it’s pretty heartbreaking. But there is also a lot of love, and that’s something to hold onto. I like what you’ve written, and I love the idea of passion for love. Let’s foster it :D

High School is an exhausting and painful time. We all feel awkward and socially unacceptable… You say you have good friends? Organise a party together, I’m sure some of your friends know boys, ask them to invite them and their friends, try to have fun and don’t worry too much