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i get depressed too but you have to force yourself to do something about it, seek help, talk to someone. decide what you want to do in your life and go for it. you can do anything. the world is yours not your mothers or sisters.

you can get addicted to being in side and on the computer. being inside all the time also leads to depression, which it sounds like you have.
take heart, you are not alone. it is hard when no one listens but if you get out a little each day then things seem a bit brighter

hay you should live in uk. gas cost £1.27p a litre here. i cant afford to drive anywhere right now. :(

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Me too, i like the ways eoucurus thought.

I have the same prob with my mother in law, its always why dont you move here. its so much nicer. I could not she would do my head in.
just tell her thankyou but no. It is your live and although she is just being helpful and offering to help you have to live it.
tell her you are happy where you are.
i do all the time with the in laws. maybe one day they will listen. lol

If you cant remember what you are doing after drinking then you should cut down. Something bad could happon. My brother went out on a drunken night and got spiked. he was found naked in a building site the next day. he still does not talk about what happins and now drinks very little.

I hate smoking but only she can do it if she wants to. My fella smokes and i make him go outside. he has smoked for ever and we have been together for 10 years. i have never liked it but if he is not ready then i cant make him.
you need to put some faith in you girlfriend to quit when she is ready. she should want to do it for herself and not for you or she wont keep it up.
Also you need to stop nagging her or else it can ruin a relationship. give her time. its hard.

Call the police, if he says he is sorry ignore him. he needs help and you can’t do it alone. there are people who can help you and will listen. it needs sorting strait away. dont delay.

Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
Epicurus
Greek philosopher (341 BC - 270 BC)