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• (2 votes) Will i ever find some one ?
  

  YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It’s hard to be patient. You’re 18! I guarantee it!
  
  But there’s no reason to kill or give up eveything! It doesn’t work that way! :)
  
  All I can tell you is that it will happen unless you live on a secluded island and you’re the only person on the island.
  
  Interestingly - it often happens when you’re not looking. First thing is to be friendly, courteous and respectful if you’re looking for a girl. A friendly smile and hi is a fabulous start and if you’re not doing that to women you cross your path on a street - anywhere or any age - time to get practice even if it’s someone you’d never date. You might make their day…. And one day….if you’re in line at the grocery store - or someplace else - who knows….your friendly confident easy going smile and pleasant hi might be what starts a conversation.
  
  The first thing is to find others and be friends with them. Who knows- they might have friends too.
  
  Again - the answer is yes! You won’t find the perfect one instantly - that’s the odds and wouldn’t be best for you anyway. That’s just a numbers game and a random person isn’t for you. Get to know a number of people - or find tips or ask how to do so - if that doesn’t come normal to you!
  
  YES - YES - YES!
  
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago – voted for by cole_wrinkle, Who?

• (1 vote) For all those who care, I think this is how I am beginning my book.
  

  The best advice is keep writing. You have an excellent beginning!
  
  Here’s a little feedback. It doesn’t mean my feedback is correct, and there are not 10,000 other ways to do it. This is my style of editing snd writing.
  
  I’d perhaps consider that your paragraph above might fit better in entirely as an intro section, versus the start of a book, of copy on the fly leaf.
  
  There’s no wrong way to start a book and nothing is wrong. Just keep going….that’s the hardest part. Don’t worry about editing it any further!!!!!
  
  Specific Feedback:
  I might not focus on this being a story. They can assume that, so maybe no need to tell them it’s a story, etc.
  
  ——————————————————————————
  Here’s a condensed start without mentioning that they’re reading a story.
  
  
  It was a miserable time in his life. He was angry with everyone, for no specific reason. This boy was different than other teen-agers, he knew it. (Add - where are his emotions - what is the issue right then at that moment that will allow you to get to this sentence.
  
  He was rescued by someone who never even knew he had saved him. Who probably will never know. This is Darmiks story.
  
  (This leaves mystery that I like - where I want to read the next paragraph.)
  
  How to get to the next paragraph….(or the rest of the book)
  (This is just one technique.
  
  Write down different stories that are compelling to you in your life with a beginning middle and end. These may be snapshots - a paragraph - a few pages - etc. It could be the scene where he was that related to what was in his head.
  
  (you mention teen-ager so might want to start with that age period first.)
  
  Don’t worry about order at first. Do that later - you can always put them in order. You can always put bridges around them to make them make sense. You can always find an editor to edit it to make you sound superb. However, if you can write in order - you have a talent that I’ve yet to master.
  ——————————————————————-
  
  Next - - - you might pick it up with a story that starts…
  
  D wasn’t sure …..(then go into where he’s different from his perspective and a story)
  
  TIP:
  
  What’s super helpful to me:
  
  Write out a paragraph mission statement of why you want to write the book and what you want others to get out of it, or if for yourself - then enjoy the process and see where it leads………………………………………
  
  Write down 10 thoughts of what you want in the book in any order.
  That becomes the outline (you can adjust at anytime, delte or add)
  
  superb! Don’t worry about anything - just put pen to paper and go!! You’ve got this section done above in an edited form you like - so go go go!
  
  We’re waiting for the story to begin. Bravo. There are some excellent starting points above.
  
  Again - there’s no correct or wrong way. This is just one technique and style of how to go forward.
  
  You’re done with the above. Later….you can revise if needed.
  
  It’s hard to provide feedback in this manner!
  
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago – voted for by Rocco.

• (1 vote) I think I’m pregnant for the second time.
  

  There are a number of things. Stress could shift the dates of your period. If you’re eating or sleeping differently or had difficully in that regard, or if you’ve started or stopped medication, or even potentially a major shift in anything you do. If it’s becomes later - take another test. It’s ten bucks or so worth spending for the worry. And lots of girls and women do not have exact regular periods. You’re the best judge of your body - so if you start feeling strange or weird, best to see the Doctor. Don’t forget we lose annd gain a day or so depending on the month. :)
  
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago – voted for by bitrina

• (1 vote) So there this guy that i hate
  

  You did what you felt that you needed to do for being a friend which was to tell her. Sometimes the reactions of friends are odd, hateful, especially when it has to do with their relationships or spouses, and they tend to take sides, which may hurt you.
  
  Just know that you did what you felt was right and if this is happening then things will come to pass to make things apparent. Sometimes other people don’t want to hear the truth, and there’s nothing you can do about that except go on with your own life and let them do whatever it is they will do because there is no way you can change this - they have to experience it first hand.
  
  You can try to find proof, but you have to determine if it’s worth your going to that effort - or if you just want to go further on this to show you’re right and because you’re angry. You have a right to be angry….but hang in there and see how things go.
  
  All you can do is let your friend know that you care about her - and know this is a rough time for her or both of you - and hope it will pass in the future and to be a friend you have to let your friend do what she feels she has to do. Tell her - when she wants or if she wants to talk or (do something that you guys do as friend, that you’d like to do so)
  
  Again - here’s nothing you can do and it’s just getting into the middle. Now if someone is being abusive, or there’s another danger, that’s another reason, but it sounds like the someone in question playing around needs to grow up….and time will be the teacher for both you and your friend. Tell her you’ll be there whenever she’d like to chat, or get back together. Maybe give her a couple of weeks and call her to do something, or do something nice for her.
  
  Best of luck - I know you must hurt over this…and you’re not wrong in telling her - but now that you did…you have probably done as much as you can for the time being. Hang in there! As things pass - and as things come to light - as they often do down the road, the friend will realize that you were looking out for her.
  
  Be at peace with yourself, and be patient as you can be, knowing you did your best and it’s okay to let things go now….(unless I’m missing part of the story) :)
  
  smiles
  
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago – voted for by Narcissus

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• Will i ever find some one ?
  

  YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It’s hard to be patient. You’re 18! I guarantee it!
  
  But there’s no reason to kill or give up eveything! It doesn’t work that way! :)
  
  All I can tell you is that it will happen unless you live on a secluded island and you’re the only person on the island.
  
  Interestingly - it often happens when you’re not looking. First thing is to be friendly, courteous and respectful if you’re looking for a girl. A friendly smile and hi is a fabulous start and if you’re not doing that to women you cross your path on a street - anywhere or any age - time to get practice even if it’s someone you’d never date. You might make their day…. And one day….if you’re in line at the grocery store - or someplace else - who knows….your friendly confident easy going smile and pleasant hi might be what starts a conversation.
  
  The first thing is to find others and be friends with them. Who knows- they might have friends too.
  
  Again - the answer is yes! You won’t find the perfect one instantly - that’s the odds and wouldn’t be best for you anyway. That’s just a numbers game and a random person isn’t for you. Get to know a number of people - or find tips or ask how to do so - if that doesn’t come normal to you!
  
  YES - YES - YES!
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• For all those who care, I think this is how I am beginning my book.
  

  :) looking forward to it - off to raid the frig then sleep! :)
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• Paint me a picture…
  

  I’d like to try Speights! We share in an expertise in procrastination. Hey - we’re both experts!!!!
  
  
  
  Happy day to you - I’m off to try to go to sleep after raiding the frig.
  
  :)
  
  Nice to see your post dancefloordestroyer.
  
  PS Help.com is such a great procrastination tool.
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• Paint me a picture…
  

  1. I love animals.
  2. I love plants - little sprouts thrill me!
  3. I love People - lest I forget! They rank higher than 1 and 2 and usually grow taller, but purr less. It’s a shame we don’t have tails.
  4. I am tall.
  5. I get lost driving since I’m listening to music or just end up passing the turn or the exit. I ran a toll booth accidentally years ago.
  6. I’m always up later than I should. I get tired at the wrong times, even if I try to go to bed early.
  7. Without a doubt - Diet Coke and I’m thirsty now.
  8. I don’t judge by money or clothing or rank, but wonder if I really do - if I seem to want to sit by someone who is better dressed on a bus than someone sloppy, or different. Am I prejudiced? I pull for the underdog.
  9. I don’t ever think I’ll be mature. What is mmaturity? I think it would be great to be so.
  10. I love blueberries, then watermelon, but can’t decide if blackberries, raspberries rank higher than watermelon. Lychees are great too.
  11. Fruit Flavored Ice Cream - Yep - peach, strawberry, berry, orange ish…of course blueberry ice cream.
  12. I’m way late at responding to invites to post like this one.
  13. I’m cheating off other posts above and I’m afraid of death,(that’s a copy from above) but also afraid of being homeless, illness, disaster and deception, no money, lack of food, and losing someone I love.
  14. I think you - just you along could change the world. I can too.
  15. I’m curious, always into everything, nosy, learning, asking questions.
  16. I am jealous of those who are able to be happy all the time, and always smile. Can I have what you’re having please? Do you eat blueberries?
  17. I don’t have a tatoo, since I’d never be able to decide. I can’t decide on my hair color. I need a sci-fi tatoo that changes based on a wireless frequency.
  18. I’ve had someone save me. I’ve experienced the kindest of strangers.
  19. I love firefly, and Roswell, and classic movies usually from the 40s plus other things. Uh, i like bones, and house, and gray’s anatomy when I can see them.
  20. I was in a fighter jet and it wasn’t on the ground. The trip was way too short.
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• Closed!
  

  Congratulations! It’s okay to be as spotted as a dalmation - that is - if you’re painting! Enjoy the splatters….means you’re getting there!
  
  :)
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

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