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• A soldier’s christmas posted (1 year, 11 months) ago
  Twas the night before christmas, He lived all alone, In a one bedroom house made of Plaster and sto…

• Where is the fine line between Trying to help save someones soul and just preaching at them because you view them as wrong int heir beliefs? posted (1 year, 11 months) ago
  My example happend 6years ago. It was the first pagan Samhain festival held were I live. A small gr…

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• What should I do for Christmas?
  

  Have christmas early. Its the celebration and meaning that are the important things not the date. Before you leave have it early… I of course hope that you haven’t left yet. But if you have alot of bases have computers set up with yahoo and web cams. If you are lucky enough to get near one of those you can still see your family on christmas. As for what to do while you are gone if you are in a position to help the local children of families that would help you keep the christmas spirit. If not spend time with the people you are stationed with get to know them and help them have good christmas’ too. Unfortunatly I don’t know what is around where you are going My husband likes to play soccor with the kids in africa.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• My father died 4 months ago today and i still havnt got over it.
  

  Mourn him please but don’t leaave your family because of your despare. Talk with you mother and siblings about your pain and your father. They will be able to help support you and in turn you them. Please also see a therapist to help you work through this pain. Spiritually I believe your father is still with you comforting you loving you. Talk to him when you are missing him badly he is listening. Talk to God and Jesus (or whatever your faith follows) they to are here to help you. Do not hold how you feel in. You need to let it all out. Cherish you father and the memories you have for him. Honor him by living a good life and being happy.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• Can i move out at 15?
  

  You will need to do things very carefully but yes you can move out. I would love to know why you feel you need to move out though. If you are being abused in some way then please go to a school councelor or some authority figure and report it. depending on the location on where you live depends on what you need to do to get out of your parents household. The only reason I say that you have to do things right is because most states have runnaway laws and you could end up getting yourself into trouble.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• help…
  

  Sounds to me like you already know the answer. You are having doubts about the relationship which is a bad way to start things off. If you already know that he doesn’t have girlfriends for more than a week then you can pretty much predict where your relationship is going to go. Love is something earn and developed over time. What you are feeling for him is lust it feels very similar to love and often mistaken but it is not able to sustain a relationship. Wild boys can be fun at first but they cannot be tamed to have a serious relationship. Be careful.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• I am in love with a married woman who won’t leave her husband.
  

  I agree with Queen She is playing you hun. She has the best of both world. Her husband and children and the security that comes with that and you her lover who can give her the emotional attantion she is craving. She may honestly be unhappy in her marriage and may honestly have feelings for you but it is unlikely that she is going to give up the security and life she made with her husband just to start all over again. I am afraid that unless you want to lie to yourself and say that 2 times a week is enough to satisfy your heart then I think you need to move on. Also if she knows that you are going to have to leave her because you need more than just being the other man she might get the courage to leave him. Though this is a long shot. Take time to heal from your divorce and heal from her. You will find true happieness in your life when yo are ready.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

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