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• A soldier’s christmas posted (3 years) ago
  Twas the night before christmas, He lived all alone, In a one bedroom house made of Plaster and sto…

• Where is the fine line between Trying to help save someones soul and just preaching at them because you view them as wrong int heir beliefs? posted (3 years) ago
  My example happend 6years ago. It was the first pagan Samhain festival held were I live. A small gr…

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• Can i move out at 15?
  

  You will need to do things very carefully but yes you can move out. I would love to know why you feel you need to move out though. If you are being abused in some way then please go to a school councelor or some authority figure and report it. depending on the location on where you live depends on what you need to do to get out of your parents household. The only reason I say that you have to do things right is because most states have runnaway laws and you could end up getting yourself into trouble.
  - written 2 years, 11 months ago

• help…
  

  Sounds to me like you already know the answer. You are having doubts about the relationship which is a bad way to start things off. If you already know that he doesn’t have girlfriends for more than a week then you can pretty much predict where your relationship is going to go. Love is something earn and developed over time. What you are feeling for him is lust it feels very similar to love and often mistaken but it is not able to sustain a relationship. Wild boys can be fun at first but they cannot be tamed to have a serious relationship. Be careful.
  - written 2 years, 11 months ago

• I am in love with a married woman who won’t leave her husband.
  

  I agree with Queen She is playing you hun. She has the best of both world. Her husband and children and the security that comes with that and you her lover who can give her the emotional attantion she is craving. She may honestly be unhappy in her marriage and may honestly have feelings for you but it is unlikely that she is going to give up the security and life she made with her husband just to start all over again. I am afraid that unless you want to lie to yourself and say that 2 times a week is enough to satisfy your heart then I think you need to move on. Also if she knows that you are going to have to leave her because you need more than just being the other man she might get the courage to leave him. Though this is a long shot. Take time to heal from your divorce and heal from her. You will find true happieness in your life when yo are ready.
  - written 2 years, 11 months ago

• A soldier’s christmas
  

  Kev I am a navy wife. My husband right now is in Africa with a bunch of marines doing who knows what. He’s not aloud to tell me but such if his job. I am also born and raise in a major Navy town. Nearly every male in my family is military. So I have heard it all. I hate war I hate the stories. But the men and woman that go overseas to the war zones are heros all of them dead and alive. You are a hero to me for having to leave your family behind and face dangers no man should have to face. You miss birthdays, holidays and aniversaries to fight a war to help other people you will never meet. You made so many sacrafices to do your part for our military that in my opinion makes you a hero. I know you don’t feel it and most of the others who went to Irac don’t either. But I find that most heroes are to humble to see it.
  - written 2 years, 11 months ago

• i need to let go of a situation.
  

  Z It really does sound Like postpartum depression. They say that if it lasts more than a few months than it is a serious problem that needs to be taken care of with the assistance of a doctor. The feel of a lack of interest in your daughter is really what is telling em that that is what it is. They will put you onto an anti depressant to assist you in bringing your mood up. PLease stick with the therapy. Hun I know what it is to feel so overwhelmed you don’t know which way is up anymore and if you are haveing post partum on top of that … OMG! One month after I had my first daughter I left my now very ex husband. The couch fell through the floor at my house and had to be replaced. I had no job to support my baby and had to graduate highschool at a special nightschool. I only mention all this to let you know you are so not alone everyone goes through rough patches in thier lives. PLease talk to your therapist she will be able to help you get the help you need to become successful. BTW look at your daughter and know when she looks at you she see her mommy a woman who can do no wrong.
  - written 2 years, 11 months ago

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