steff's shout trail with Sir Cody † - Help.com

hello my friend! I’m pretty good…but I’m really disliking my job lately and that’s pretty discouraging.

How you are?

Hey Steff, how are you?????

Oh sorry got distracted. It is Tuberous Sclerosis.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tuberous…

What’s TS?

Camp John Mark, it is a camp for people with disabilities and their families. Every weekend they deal with a different disorder. This weekend it is TS, which is what my sister has.

Oh cool, what kind of camp?

Pretty good, I am getting ready to head out of town. My family is going to a camp. This is going to be a great weekend, I hope.

hey codster! i’m good, how are you?

Heya Steff, how are you?

Things are OK, I’m keeping busy, but I really don’t like my job and it just makes life a little unhappy.

I am doing pretty good, how are things at work?

I’m great (except that it’s Monday and I’m at work). How are you?

Hey Steff how are you?

Well, I can’t exactly afford a wedding. Also, I live in Colorado as do my sister and a few friends, his family lives in Pennsylvania, my family lives in Illinois, my extended family (grandparents) live in Missouri and Minnesota and I have friends scattered everywhere. Even if I did have a wedding I feel like no one would travel that far to come.

Everything else is fine, I still work the same job in the hospital but I don’t really like it that much.

What are you doing these days?

I may have been 17…

No actual wedding? Not something I saw coming. Will there be any sort of celebration?
How is everything else going? Still working at the clinic?

wow, I thought I first met you when you were 17? our Cody is growing up… lol

And we don’t have an exact date yet, we’re not really having a wedding, we’re just going to get married at city hall.

I will see some family. I haven’t seen them in a couple years so I really need to get up there. haha I will be twenty… Can’t wait till I turn twenty one though. Its great you are getting married. You guys have set an exact date?

What are you going to do in Dallas? And will you be 19?

Well, I’m getting married in about three months or so. And I’m getting really excited.

Well, I am pretty good. I am going up to Dallas soon for my birthday. Whats new with you?

I’m really good! How are you? What’s new?

haha How are you?

Hi Cody :)

I’m trying to be a more faithful help.com user again!

Hey! I’m really good! How are you?

Hey Steff, how are you?

Now don’t say that a nice smart and Godly girl wouldn’t want you! That’s just not true. Just continue to be a good friend to her, but make sure you concentrate on your life outside of your friendship the most. You want to continue to become who God wants you to be. So keep praying and she knows she can come to you when she changes her mind :)

Well, at one point I asked her out… sorta. Actually, I asked her father for permission to ask her out and he said that it was ok with him. I wasn’t sure that I wanted to ask that night as at that point we were speaking on a regular basis. I called her that night and right off the bat she asked if I wanted to talk about what I had asked her father. It didn’t occur to me that he would tell her until after I asked him. Well, she gave some good reasons about why she didn’t want to be in a relationship like that. They were valid too. So right now I am just waiting for the right time. I still have feelings for her and she knows that. I ignore them and things work well. We don’t talk as often, but still frequently. We met up at a starbucks this last Sunday and just talked. It wasn’t a date, but I think that in a few months the way she sees me will change… For better or for worse is something that remains to be seen. The “masks” that I wear around people don’t work with her. She can see right through them. That is partially why she refused; she never said as such, but she knows that I haven’t really opened up to her. I am working on that, but for now we are very good friends and nothing more. I am quite ok with that and even if she never returns feelings for me, but for now I just have to get past this thing I have for her. Here is the kicker, her parents have sorta become another set of parents for me. They even offered me their extra room in their house if I needed it. I won’t need to move in with them as much as I would like to. I decided that it would be unwise living in the same house as the girl I have feelings for, her sister, and her parents. Anyway, you could say I am not wooing right now, but if given the opportunity I will. I think though that I have painted myself into a corner… It seems that the only women that I am attracted to anymore are extremely godly and intelligent. I am not the sort of guy that type of person would want a relationship with… In short, I am SCREWED.

oooh! you have to tell me more about the wooing!

Oh sorry. I am good. I am not in school anymore, but I am learning more than I ever have. I am in the process of wooing a friend in a manner of speaking. I am not quite ready for a romantic relationship, but I am getting there. Within a few months things will be more certain about everything.

Well I am glad you are happy. :) What else have you been up to?

I’m really good! I know you don’t approve, but I’m still with Mark…we’re engaged and getting married in January, so I’m soooo happy.

How are you??

Hey Steff long time no see. How are you?

Nothing romantically speaking has happened much since we last spoke. This is a good thing I guess.

I have finally graduated from highschool. Can’t move out though as we have an unstable situation.

Job is uneventful, but I am learning a lot about other stuff.

I have found that there is a lot going on that many don’t know about. About viruses, laws, governance, constitutional rights, and evil people. Oh, and according to a few reports from some federal agencies I am a terrorist. Haha, go figure.

If you are wondering what I am talking about here is a link or two.

http://www.infowars.net/

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAaQNA…

That last link is a video that show a decent summary of what is happening. There is a lot more though. I gotta get going now, talk later.

OK it’s tomorrow! Tell me everything!

Lot’sa stuff. I can’t get into it all right now as it is mom’s birthday today. Send me another shout later so I remember to tell you “everything.”

TTYL, Cody

Heyyyyyy Codster! I’m doing well. Life is good and boring these days. How are you? Tell me everything!

I haven’t seen you in ages!! How are you?

All is well here! I’m still with Mark and really at peace about it. Anything new with you?

Steff! How are you? How is the job? Any guys in the picture? Sorry about never talking. Anything new?

hey Cody! it’s been too long! how is everything?

I know! We haven’t talked in forever! message me on msn when you can!

Hey Steff, how are you? I wish we could talk now but I have to get to work. Talk to you later.

you know, it’s the same as my email address!

What is your msn id?

I do go on msn everyday! I never see you there though! I miss talking to my little brother Cod-ster!

Hey Steff, do you not use your chat anymore?

finally! I feel like I haven’t talked to you forever!

Hey Steff, my chat is fixed now, WHOOHOO!!

:)

Hey! How are you Supa Steff?

good news? hmmmm

*thinking*

nope

I understand. Any good news?