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hey, thanks for the pretty flowers! :)

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Thank you!

my name is stephanie

oh that’s cool

Yes it is my name.And what about you.

Geet means music,Music of life.

so what does “geet” mean? is it your name?

Ok,good.

when people come into the hospital, my department checks them in and puts them in the computer. then later, I look over the paperwork to make sure it was done correctly.

hmmmm,good.Well wt do u do in the hospital?Or what is the work profile that you have?

things are fine here. how are things working out for you?

I am good,you tell how things are working at your end?

hello geet! how are you?

Hey Steff how are you?

I don’t know how it is in your country, but here a masters degree makes you very educated.

Ummmm,i can not say that i am v-educated because i am alwaz thirsty for knowledge,and there are many people in the IT Industry,in front whom i am just a kid.
Well i am doing masters in IT.

Oh, you must be very educated.

I am an IT Analyst.I create programs,work on wesites,check their programs whether they are working fine or not.I work on computer related problems

what kind of work do you do?

and no offense, but i figured your country wouldn’t let women work.

Same here.I am in the office right now.

not much, just working. how are you?

hi steff.whats up?

I know people all over the world are different. I live in a country where anyone can do whatever they want. YOu must think we’re crazy!

sweet-heart,go through my scraps again you will get your answers.And you will also get to know what is the culture and way of living that we have.
Take Care.

Is that how you are treated? Not allowed to go shopping or show your face? I guess if you like that, that’s fine. But I know you said you would rather live with your parents forever instead of getting married, so there is proof that the law makes you unhappy.

Any waz dear i have to go now,will talk to you tomorrow,lols,Take care,say my hi and congrates to your would be.

bbye

Nop i am used of it and i am very happy with it and i am proud of my country which has balanced laws and rules,which is neither so open nor so close.Perhaps you are not aware of other country’s culture,where girls are not allowd to go to market,not permitted to study even not to show there face to an stranger,They always live in veil.

well, you have a different god than I do, and different rules.

Doesn’t it make you upset to live in a country with so many laws that you have to do what you don’t want?

ummmmmmm its not compulsion,but this is a social rule,
And it is made by God as well how can we deny from it.
even the animals on the earth search partners for them.

yes, I’m getting married and I’m very happy. I’m getting married because I want to and I love him and I want to have my own life with him.

Are you going to get married?Hey Congrates!

wait…you HAVE to get married?

I wish,I could but this is the rule of the society,we have to follow this.
And there are some other things as well.

haha, no i’m not upset that you’re a girl.

but if you really want to live with your parents forever then I suggest not getting married.

any waz one thing i would like to ask after knowing that i am a girl are you upset.
;)

kidding!don’t mind i have a jolly nature.

I want,I really want to live with them but we have to leave our family after marrige because i have to take care of my husband and his parents and in the absence of me my brother’s wife will be taking care of my parents.And adjustment means (see all the time we can not arrange luxury for us if suppose we have limited money,limited space,limited things we should be able to adjust with them,who has seen the future may be tomorrow i become bill gates and may be i can go down so need not to get frustrate due to limited things we should be able to search happiness in the limits)ok.

oh I thought you were a man.

so won’t you miss your parents? don’t you want to take care of them?

and what do you mean adjustment is quality?

first of all i am a girl.
So i would have to leave my parents.
And if my brother gets married.4 rooms flat is not small.And if it is,we will construct another room and if not we will adjust.Adjustment is quality of Indians.

We respect privacy and each other’s feeling as well but we are not private to our parents we are quite open to them but if somebody wants to be private,he can seperate some space if the house is big like if there are two floors in a house one of the floor can be taken by parents and another one by children.

But maybe they want to be left alone. Don’t Indian people like privacy at all? Or are there different wings in your home?

no,no its not compulsory but ya if we care for our parents we should not leave them alone without a solid cause,thats all is Indian thinking.

And to live seperately with the parents does not prove that you are bad,it depends person to person and your intimacy in the relation.

my brother is not married yet,he is sent out for study and i already mentioned that my grand parents are not alive if they would,we will be living with them certainly.

so we have family of 4 people out of which one lives in another city.

My grand parents are not alive if they would,we definitely would have been living with them.and my mom she is from another city she left her family overthere to get married with my father(In Indian culture girl leaves the home after marrige and go to his husband’s house),and my father has 3 sisters who lives with their families after their marrige and one brother who is living with his family in another city as he has job in a different city.

You are not the part of our culture thats why you were feeling like this,I appreciate your culture your way of living as well.I respect your freedom but i also accept this,that sometimes we really need some one close to us like our mom or dad because they are the best in this world to accept us as we are and to understand us.

It depends,if i talk about my family my brother lives in another city for his study and i live with my parents but if i will get a good job in another city i will also move,we believe in our culture but we are not conservative,and when my father will retire from his job we will call them to live with us,in the same way if a home does not have this much of space to keep each and every person in it some of the people will shift in another house.

If I lived with all my relatives it would be about 50 people in one house…probably more.