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• (2 votes) I’m a girl and i have dark hair on my upper lip
  

  Dear Shosta8: I feel your pain sweetie. Us Eastern girls have to deal with that all our lives. The best way that has worked for me over the years is waxing (warm wax). It will not scar you, it will burn a little but no blisters, but make sure you have an experienced person do this. You don’t want an amateu to traumalize your skin. Don’t bleach it, because the chemicals are bad for your skin. Don’t shave it, because it affects the texture. When you begin waxing, you will see that after a short while your hair will grow out thinner, it will take much longer for regrowth and as you get older it will be much easir.
  
  Also another ancient Eastern method is banding. That’s when you pull out the hair with thread (strong silk is peferred), but you gotta make sure the person knows is experienced. That technique is very old, effective, it stimulates the skin by promoting better blood circulation and regrowth is dramatically reduced after only two sessions. The only thing about banding is that the first time it is not for the weak hearted, but after a while you won’t even feel it. The last method I would recommend is tweezing. Like I said, this too will be a bit painful because you skin is not use to it, but it is still effective because it pulls the hair out from the root. Love, LP4444
  
  - written 3 months, 4 weeks ago – voted for by kmichelle, shosta8

• (1 vote) im getting a new tattoo, something that represents my son.
  

  Hey Danbo: here is a suggestion: the coordinates of exactly the place of his birth.
  
  http://www.gpsies.com/coordinate.do
  
  Love,
  LP4444
  
  - written 3 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by danbo513

• (1 vote) films..
  

  Try www.netflix.com. You have to pay for a monthly membership but it’s not expensive (i don’t think so). They have a very large library and you can watch movies online from anywhere. If you want Movie Biz info or watch trailers of a particular movie, go to www.imdb.com. This is an ever expanding and large library of any info you want to know about any particular movie.
  
  I hope this helps.
  
  Ciao,
  LP4444
  
  - written 3 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by -Cap'n Roj Returns-

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• The Angel who healed my wings.
  

  BrokenWings: Simply beautiful…Thank you for posting this.
  - written 1 month, 3 weeks ago

• More problems… I believe myself to be a bad mother.
  

  Dear Washu:
  First of all being a single mom is NOT an easy task at all!!!!
  SO, you need to take it EASY ON YOURSELF.PLEASE DON’T BE SO HARD ON YOURSELF.
  Have faith in YOU and believe that you will pass this difficult stage of your life.
  This is a test of you Faith in yourself and faith in the fact that you are guarded and watched over by your angels.
  
  Believe me, I know all about it being a single mom; my girls are now (17 &19). I decided to be a single mom at age 25 with two little girls, a low income of $18,000 per year with very little child support living in Hawaii!!!! I had dropped from a size 6 to 2 because I would not eat as much to save money so that my girls would eat well and stay healthy. I did not care about me; my little girls were growing and I avoided them feeling any of the suffering i was dealing with at any cost. My focus was that they had to stay happy and I was the key.
  
  So many nights I cried myself to sleep, only drinking warm milk and a slice of bread to fill my stomach. Sometimes I would wake up in the middle of the night with my face wet realizing that I was even crying in my sleep.
  
  I put all my focus on my girls and never ever allowed them to see my pain, tears or suffering because they were so young and deserved only sweetness instead of misery. I did not want to get wrapped up in my misery because I knew once I would go down that road I would take everyone near me with me as well.
  
  Maybe you son acts out because he needs you. He needs attention from you. He needs you to be positive and show more love despite what is going on around you. Not that you don’t love him, because I know you do. But, sometimes we get so wrapped up in out problems we just don’t see how we protray ourself to others who matter. Maybe you need to step out of your cirlce to see the big picture.
  
  I had to deal with something very similar with my now 19 year old. She became disruptive when as she turned 13 and we were battling it out for a while until I changed my strategy and started giving her more positive attention and IT WORKED like a charm. She responded to it very quickly.
  
  As far as an idea for a job? Well, I am not aware of your talents but one job that pays well with minimal requirements is transcription job. You can work from home and transcribe various documents legal/medical/business. You don’t need prior experience, but the only minimal exp required is that you must be a good typist and proficient in Word. You can even train yourself at home prior to embarking on this possibility. You can even post your services on e-Bay!!
  
  No matter what, always remember that you are loved, protected by God and angels and that EVERYTHING WILL BE JUST FINE.
  
  BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!
  HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF!
  DON’T EVER GIVE UP!
  LP4444
  - written 2 months ago

• I am in desperate need of a loan to get myself out
  

  Have you tried your church? When I was in a very bad situation when my girls where much younger, I went to my Catholic church and they actually helped me with my rent and they helped me with finding a second job. This avenue might work even though it might be tough to approach them due to pride.
  
  During winter I found this white van in a grocery store shopping center parked in the corner. There was a little sign posted on the window that the owner of this van was homeless and would appreciate any food donation or gas donation to keep warm. It seemed true because each time I would get off work very late 11pm, I would pass by this van and see a little light on in the van, I suppose to run the heater to keep warm. One night, I decided to walk up and just offer this person money, because it just did not seem right. As I walked up to the passanger window to avoid shocking this person, i peeked in and to my surprise this very mature lady who looked like my grandmother with long white hair was the occupant of this van. She also had her dog with her and all of her possessions where packed very neatly in this van with a little small sleeping area in the back.
  
  My heart just dropped to the floor. I could not believe how we allow a poor lady like that live in her van without a care. How we drive by and ignore such things because we are so self involved. I wanted to cry right there, but I did not want to insult her. I did not want her to think I am looking down at her in anyway. I left the money on her seat and just took off in tears. I went to the ATM and took out more $ and just walked up to her window again and placed it on her seat. She was so kind and gracious. Iprayed that she would be alright.
  
  I never saw that white van again after that day. That van was a fixture in that shopping center for a while and some of us commuting to work knew about her. I found out later that she had lost EVERYTHING because of the economy and she did not want to burden her kids. She later was rescued by a church and placed in a home. Thank God for that.
  I was very glad that I no longer see that van in the shopping center, because i know that lady has a roof over head now.
  
  So, my dear, no matter how tough it gets just remember that you are not alone, you have angels and God is there for you. Just turn it over to him and everything will be fine. I promise you. I promise you. My angels saved me and I raised two girls without child support, help or moral support.
  
  I will pray for you my dear.
  
  LP4444
  you email was blocked, but if you ever just need some “Pick Me Up” & support…don’t hesitate give me a shout…
  - written 2 months ago

• I am in desperate need of a loan to get myself out
  

  Hi:
  
  It all depends on the $$ you need but if you need a quick fix and you don’t want to do the outrageous “Pay Day Loans” then go to you boss explain your situation (plead your case with logic & facts only - it’s all in the delivery) and try to cash in two weeks of your vacation. Most companies no longer give out advances, but what I have discovered in my research, is that most company employee policies do NOT address this specific area (not yet anyway), so you have yourself a LEGAL Loop Hole. So, go ahead and take advantage of it; you will loose two weeks of vacation, but you will gain some peace of mind without the outrageous “Pay Day Loan” interest rate.
  
  I will pray for you. Don’t worry, everything will be just fine!
  
  :)
  - written 2 months ago

• Does anyone else talk to Angels?
  

  [quote JemProject]Okie dokie, here we go again:
  
  Ikari and anon - if you want to just mess around and make fun of people then kindly do it elsewhere!!!
  
  If people want to believe then let them, okay? No slating other people on my post, thanking you[/quote]
  
  It’s a shame where people just ignore what you ask of them earlier…the post has seriously deviated…it’s as if you have to watch it like a hawk…
  That’s a shame
  
  This is a simple/sweet post
  Do you talk to your angels?
  Do you have any angel stories to share?
  Simple
  - written 2 months ago

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