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• Are there any fat girls out there who have a boyfriend?
  

  some guys like a girl that will actually eat a meal rather than just sit and watch the guy eat.
  so dont think of your body as a bad thing, if you want to change, dont go head on at it and then give up, do it in stages, go for a walk now and then, use the stairs rather than the lift.
  its the little things that make a difference, then maybe join a gym (if you want) im sure your lovely as you are, and if your willing to talk to people online about things then take it one step further.
  
  meeting people is the easy bit.
  surely you have friends that you go out with sometimes.
  have a night out and talk to the guy thats looking over at you (when hes on his own or with one of his friend and take one of yours over too, strength in numbers) make small talk, hey my friend and i were wondering if you know of any good clubs around here.) foot in the door conversation started.
  you see what i mean?
  there are plenty of people out there that will be looking for someone too. so after talking to people maybe you dance, dont drink too much and start seeming desperate or you could be used and abused. (i hope this makes some kind of sence)
  
  every time your doing this your confidence is growing, and dont be afraid to be let down now and then,
  
  Oh my god he said no to a dance,
  
  the world will NOT end and its HIS loss (probaly gay or self centered)
  
  all im trying to say is dont give up hope, dont be desperate and dont put yourself down, even if you think your not (you could be inside)
  
  think positive,
  
  be yourself
  
  as thats all you need to be.
  
  luv Jay
  21yo M
  from northants.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

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