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- (1 vote) i just wont some one to help me !
“i just wont ma life back been bullied every since i started primary school and still are til the very day and no one can do anything about it spet i just suffer on my own wiv no 1 to help me. i just think ppl would be better if i wernt here”
Bullies… they are just some pathetic persons with low self-esteems. So low that the only way they can feel good is by making others feel bad. If you let yourself feel down and unhappy because you got bullied, that would have meant you have let the bullies ‘won’. Why do you want to make those bullies happy by reacting in the way that they want?
Defy them! If they wanna make you sad, then you should not be sad. Be happy! If they wanna make you cry, then don’t cry. Laugh! If they want you to fear them, then don’t! Instead, you should pity them, probably they behaved the way they are because they were abused physically or mentally by their parents when they are still a child.
- written 7 months ago – voted for by okei! - (1 vote) What should I do?
I am in the almost exact same situation! Except that in my situation, i am the guy, and i only became suicidal again (my depression was previously under control before i met her) after she dumped me. She also made promises to me, promises that she eventually failed to keep. My heart was broken into a million pieces…
First thing’s first, you must be honest to him. Have a long talk with him. Tell him exactly what you feel. There is no way that he can completely let you go or to forget you within a short time. Because it is impossible. Offer him your friendship instead. It will be very hard for him to be completely cut off from you.
Expect that he may use suicide to ‘threaten’ you not to leave him. I know, because i almost did that myself. Just keep talking to him. Let him know that you still care for him as a friend, and friends shouldn’t make friends suffer the heartbreak of losing a friend.
Last thing is, i hope you don’t get a new boyfriend less than a week after you break up with him. My ex did this, and i hate her for it. Makes me feel like i am just one of her toys. And she is jumping from one guy to another.
Well, these are just my opinions for your considerations. I hope both of you can get over this situation. It will take a long time and it will cause sadness and stress to both of you. But don’t give up! Be strong! And hope you two don’t end up like us.
- written 1 year, 4 months ago – voted for by Kristina Black