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Oh okay.
Haha.
Just had to make sure it wasn’t an online relationship…those are just kind of…interesting.

Going to go to bed, good night!

Haha okay (:

Wait.

Do you have an online girlfriend?
Or do you have a real one, like real breathing, in-the-flesh girlfriend?

Haha.

Perhaps.

Hmm do you want/need to talk about anything at the moment?

Ah.
Well she’s right.
Don’t.

Haha I like my really creative advice, don’t you? :P

You mean, does she rely on you too? Tell you not to leave her?

Hmm.

Just warning you…be careful when it comes to needy people…I really don’t know the situation but still. Try and develop more of an independence.

That’s nice (:

Thing is, you want to be careful when it comes to that. I mean, don’t put all your life on one person…I’m not quite sure how to explain it, but you need to find other things to live for.
Because, I mean, she’s not going to be around forever. It might take you a while but you need to learn to stand on your own.

Just warning you, reliance on other people tends to crush you…talking from too much experience here x.x

For most.

Don’t listen to them…seriously.

THen again, it’s your life. I’m just trying to give you advice haha :P

Why don’t you tell me about this girlfriend of yours? I’d tell you about my boyfriend but there is no one to fit that description anymore LOL.

Unless you want to talk about somethin else, I don’t know, you just said you would like to talk to me again when my brain works, so…yeah.

Oh PSH.

Okay, I’m not even joking,

EVERYONE is bipolar first of all. To the point where there is no such thing as bipolarity, unless it is REALY REALLY extreme to the point where a person could suddenly get angry and kill someone he loves, you know?

I don’t think that’s the case with you.

And besides, I think modern-day psychology and psychiatrists and everything are total BS. Don’t listen to them. They just want more money out of you. They also just want to screw with your mind.

What, do you think you have a disorder?

Cause I think the truth is that, all people who are sane think they are insane, and people who are generally insane (or simply have minor disorders) really don’t realize it.

So you’re probably really just normal.

Do you have a lot of bad things going on in your life?

I definitely do (:

You should too!

Don’t take life too seriously. It’s great fun and you just have to remember to make the right choices.

Oh yes,
it certainly does.
I’m just not at that point yet :P

Well I know what I LIKE to do but my dad is pushing me to major in something that I only somewhat like…so I’m not sure what I’ll do.

Nice!
Have fun (:

JUNIORRR all the way.
I’m registering for SATs this weekend :(

Enjoy sophomore year while you can, it’ll be gone in a second and then you need to start thinking about what you want to study in college and then where you want to go…unless you already know what you want to do, like some lucky people, you are like the rest of us undecided ones who panic. Lol.

Haha yup.
Are you going into your junior year of high school?

No problemo!

Random thought of the day: You know what I love? Surprises. Especially when they come before birthdays (: (my birthday is in 7 days)

Haha,
whenever you want (:

Yes,
in the end we all die.

But for now, let’s have fun, shall we? (:

I LOVE long messages too…I used to get really wonderful, loooong emails and I got so excited every time I got them…

but now, nothing. =/ silence. I miss long emails, long late night phone chats, long romantic text messages…

wow i really am a total romantic.

okay, why am i telling you this?

because i’m tired and my brain is running away without me.

hope i helped at least a little, and feel free to chat with me anytime!

best of luck to you! good night!

p.s. just remember to smile (: and remind yourself that your life is important even if you don’t understand why. hmm don’t think that helped at all…my brain’s run dry of anything good to say :P

I mean, if it’s so meaningless to you,
might as well have some fun, right?

Good, moral fun, I hope (:
not to strike as a total goody-goody…I’m really not…just advising you not to go killing anyone for pleasure…hahaha totally joking but you know what I mean, right?

What is it that you’ve found?

Life really isn’t that meaningless.

And, okay, if in your point of view it is, if it’s so pointless, then okay you could argue–what’s the point of living? But you could also argue–what’s the point of giving up?

Just keep shoving forward into this messy, miserable, chaotic, wonderful, beautiful life!

Ahh I wish I could give better advice. I thought after that mouthful I gave you there, you might be a little more inclined to be hopeful. Ah, well. Was worth the try anyway :P

Well, it’s good that you can be in a relationship like that….that’s a sign of good mental healthiness I’d say (:

Ahh yes I know how that is. Being a girl, I often get sad but lately I’ve been getting so angry to the point where I’m shaking and can’t see straight and basically panic out of my mind with anger. Sometimes I wonder if I need anger management…

haha ANYWAY aside from that,
religious views aside, everyone has a point in life but part of that point is simply figuring out what it is. Even if YOU at the moment do not see any meaning in your life, it doesn’t mean it’s there, but it could also mean that YOU YOURSELF are not putting any meaning into your life.

YOU yourself have to create a meaningful life. No one is going to tell you where to go or what to do to create one, they won’t even tell you if you will really make an impact on the world. But you’re another domino in the set of all dominoes that causes major things to happen…sorry weird explanation, but basically each little person’s actions really DOES make a difference.

Basically I guess what I’m telling you to do is, put some meaning into your life by living life to the fullest according to YOUR measures (just because one person thinks living life to the fullest involved drugs and drinking, doesn’t mean it is for you), remembering to think of others especially when all you seem to be able to do is think about yourself, and do something GOOD (hopefully SEVERAL good things) in your life that will benefit others.

Make a difference. You don’t have to go out and try and feed all the starving people, but little things like helping someone pick up dropped food/spilled drink and basically just being a good person…that is probably the most rewarding feeling ever.

Working hard, especially in school, is also extremely important. Even if it’s difficult and you may moan and complain throughout the process, the end result is always great.

Remember…life’s ALWAYS improving!

Hope you didn’t get bored as you read that :P

Yes yes, I know what you mean.

Hm…can you pinpoint what exactly it is you’re feeling? Loss of hope that you’ll ever be happy? Doubtful that life will improve?

I might be going to bed soon cause I’m soo tired but I’ll respond when I can (:

Haha okay.

But, as I asked before, anythin specific? Recent breakup? Recent divorce? Or death? Sounds awful but basically you know what I’m asking. Specific or general?

WHYY do you think you’re vain.

Don’t say that.

Okay, so is it anything specific bothering you or is it general life stuff?

You online?

Ah, well I’m nearly always on it, it is set up to keep me online through my phone. Mine is PKborange, if you ever feel the need to talk, I’ll be there.

Indeed. Have you seen my reply to your post, and do you have AIM?

Woah, hey man, I see you are online, probably not by the time I finish long time no see (alphaknight )

Haha, I complain to some people all the time, I don’t mind.
But if you really wanna stop then just stop.

I guess it’s not.

I swear, you think way too much.
It’s like you think in a higher level… more in depth, to the point that I can’t comprehend.
But that doesn’t mean that you should give up on life, there are probably people that think about this and will agree with you.

Well, what do you want from this life?
Why is it that what you have now isn’t enough?

Well, what’s so different about then and now?

Ouch, that was short and painful.
I thought you were against suicide, what happen to that?

Oh yeah, today is tuesday. It feels like a wednesday for some reason.
Spill it all out, what’s bothering ya now?

Aw that sucks.
Still wanna talk about it?

I’m pretty good.

cool, i hope it will help.
How are you doing?

Hey you, I don’t know if this will help.
But you should read about Nirvana, as in the state of being free from all suffering. It’s a buddhist belief, but it might give you some ideas.

Well, I hope it works out. It’s been too long since we’ve seen you guys!!!

So I guess you were right then (about not being able to help us), LOL! Ask your mom to call or e-mail when she gets back! So where is everybody tonight?

Sure you can! You know what you’ve got going Memorial Day, right? Stasia doesn’t have finals until the next weekend (May 28-June 3) and I just wanted to make sure you aren’t in finals the weekend before she is.

Cuz I couldn’t help ya guys. Can’t wait to see you in May.

So why didn’t you answer the phone? :o)

lots of new posts i made explain it all

its been going well.

yup yup
hows it been going for you

i havent finished the book, just got farther.
and the very long poem is actually a song i love, there are two of them in my profile, i feel they are on topic with help.com and work well in my little shout voice thing, i wish they were my words.

oh hyo
the name is just something from my book, i rather liked it so i kept it.
but what do you mean about blub?

nvm about the last shout.
Haro is dead, so it deosn’t matter now.

Would you please change what you say in your profile whenever you get on here?
I tried to change me name, but the name is taken.

Well.. good
♥