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hey thats great - im happy for u - i know youll do well…ive been working n goofing off…

wow…i love 2 travel but cant right now…glad u had a good trip…has anyone called u Victoria recently, Victoria?!… :0

Vicky…hey…im back…whats goin on?…u doin ok?…Will

hey stuck ^_^ its been a long time since i heard how well you were doing with uni applications, and work ^_^

sorry its been so long. its my fault for not keeping in contact.

any how, how are you :) if i remember correctly your name is vicky :) but then im not sure. so if its not, then i apologize :)

hmm yeah can say some kinda fate
do you beleive them?

hmm maybe you don beleive it but i do beleive
life signs i mean if there is something happen to me or something im gonna do before that most of the time i can see a sign

ohh yeah here is another sign my gf mom and sis is in england.
im from uae she also in uae

hey i was talking to you but i didnt ask from you where r u from?

and i don know why i really feel very very bad today i wud have give up
if my parents don have any hope about me but i cant do it my parents have hopes abt me
but im in a very critical situation like i want to live but i cant live for some people its funny but the person who suffer only they no how hard its

wat do u mean by dis? “been there done that bought the t-shirt etc it really does work do stuff for you for you thats makes you feel good about yourself”

ohh yeah i know love has ups and downs but dont you feel 9 months is not too much?

no after that i dont feel like doing anything
all i can say is if i never think about her at least a one day after that what she have done to me it wud be my best day but i cant stop thinking her each day i get up with her memories im trying hard soo hard i don no how long i can be like dis now im really weak cant hold this.
im looking for true love is it exist in this world?

are you out of it now?
how long it ttok to you come out of that
and what you did to come out from that

heyy how are you?
i have a small question

heyy how are you?
i have a small question

hey stuck, how are you? and how is your world coming along :)

hope you had a nice day :), and all is well your end. take care and speak soon

hey you :)

sorry to hear your down :(. a holiday rep sounds fun i guess. so although she is down, i wish heer all the best :)

as for me, im fine thank you :) work is alright, and i am fine. i have taken up a hobby in the form of darts. i have always liked darts, and have been playing for a little while, but lately i have been hitting the board :P, everyday.

hope all is well with you :)
take care, and speak soon….

*I am NOT ready to handle somebody…

Thank you for asking. She would have just disrupted my life the way it is now. I like being by myself and doing the things I do by myself now. Not only that, she had a lot of emotional baggage and I am ready to handle somebody else’s problems. I can barely handle my own problems, let alone somebody else’s. Love ya!

I am not. I gave her her walking papers. She was just looking to keep me around as an “emergency” relationship. I would have been left feeling like Forrest Gump. It’s over.

hey stuck :). its been a while since we last spoke, so how are you? :) hope your doing well, and uni and work are going well. take care and speak soon

-Matthew

wow shes 6ft. thats exotic to be honest……..
and your going to trip up her giraffe legs lol, good luck with that one :)……

oh okay, well shes stuck up and your a bitch. nice lol….

i would pay, to watch your day tomorrow. in fact i bet thats what your “people” are going to do. instead of talking between themselves or anything, their just going to watch you and her lol….

could you beat her up though?

ooooooooooooo i see. it the bitch thing lol….
so does that mean you dont talk to one another then?…..

okay i have to ask. why dont they like you?…..
and how did the uni thing go?

oi oi, yourself. dont skin head me, vicky lol. your a girl remember :P…….

my weekend was fine, and this one is going to be, just as fine. got to go to the bank tomorrow. yaay :(…..

as for passport no, havnt sorted it. i filled out form, went to post office handed it over, and they said as im an adult now, i need an adult photo. i kid you not, there is no differnce between how i look now, and 4 years ago, or maybe 5…….

so i have to get two photos, signed and signatured bu special people. im not happy.

anyway how are you :)

haha that sounds pretty funny. but why did you get thrown out by your own friends? what happened?

well at least you’ve been to spain! i have only been to lanzarotte, however you spell it. it was pretty cool though, and was my first time away with family.
although family werent that cool :P lol……

and that is a good deal! especially for time of year, and location. thats pretty special..
how many of you are going then?

and your welcome, hullywood was pretty funny hehe

well thanks, i never knew that. i would much rather pay, than have it get returned!

that was amazingly cheesy (hullywood) but i like it :) very funny, and nice play with words hehe.

tonight sounds quite nice. especially as its all free woop woop lol.

and im actually not really planning anything. i just want one, so that i can run away somewhere if i want to hehe. im not going to lie, i am quite sick and tired of england. and im only 19 :(……
with a passport, i am able to get up and leave hehe.

barcelona? very nice. although you do know, unless your staying with a friend, barcelona is very expensive….

well hello vicky hehe. sorry i just talk quite a lot, and since its been over a week (shameful on my behalf) that we last spoke, i was like, is your name vicky, or not. but you have cleared things up for me, so thanks :)…..

i havent done anything special :(. i have just been working really. i am sort of in the process of doing my passport, but i can see its going to be a right bitch to finally get! and is going to cost me like 72 pound :(…….

sounds like all is going well where you are. again thats hull isnt it? and are you going any where special tonight ?

hey vicky? hope thats your name :)

how have you been? it seems like an age, since we last spoke. but how are you?

is all well with work, and how did you get on with uni?

anyway take care and speak soon :)

-Matthew

thats okay i enjoyed our hug to :). and yay congratulations. see i told you, you would finish it :)………

and im fine thanks. just hating working :(. and at least you get to go to uni. i have to stay and work for the next 40 plus years…….god iwant to cry.

anyway take care and speak soon :)……

-Matthew

Aaaaaaaaagh poor you. want a hug. to late (((Hugs Vicky :), and tells her she really nice and cool. also pretty :)))))

and im thank you. dont worry i do exactly the same thing. i always left revision and tests to the last minute.

im sure you will do just fine :)……

how much have you got left to do? also how is work going ?

Aaaaaaagh sorry to hear that. im not really any good,with written advice……

erm, how about you just say how nice a person you are, who is ready to learn and really wants to be given this opportunity?

anyway sorry im not good at written advice :(……

but how are you? and how is this thing going?

hey Vicky whats up?

not alot is up with me to be honest. went back to work on thursday :(…….and had a slight man cold last week…….

otherwise im well thankyou……

anyway how are you? and how is work going?

well speak soon and take care…….

-Matthew

wow sounds kinky hehe. and it sounds fun. from the female perspective!

mine was fine thank you. ended up in leicester uni for a couple of nights. honestly it was amazing.
and the night life is incredible!

anyway take care and speak soon

-matthew

hey hey!

how are you? and how was your new year :)

-matthew

i have no idea what goof noes is lol……..

anyway sounds like your going to have fun tonight!!!

take care and speak soon

-matthew

oooo tights :p. any goof noes?

and yes, i am tipsy. got the layz finerges as well :) lool hahahahaha

so enjoyingn xmas ?

ooooooooo kinky lol…….

so im apparently drunk, and now your going to get your way with me :P…..

okay, jump me hehehehe

so with your day off tomorrow, any cool plans?

dam it!! i thought so, but there are so many Vicky’s im talking to. i just got confused. and no im not drunk lol….

trying to seduce me like that :P lol………

and you worked all weekend? awwww that sounds tough.
so are you working tomorrow as well then?

ooop is your name amanda? sorry if it isnt but i cant remember who is who…..

and if im wrong who are you?……
i mean i know who you are, but i cant remember your name……

sorry about that

hello amanda. i cant remember your shout but i’m sure it was good. i dont mean to be rude either, but im feeling really lazy, and my mouse dragging has just stopped!!!

anyway how are you? and how was your weekend? also any cool plans for tomorrow?

anyway take care and speak soon

-matthew

hi five!!!

hey how are? how was your week end?

That’s really good. Glad to know you’re doing well with that. It kinda gets easier everyday doesn’t it?

Like you said, worry about that bridge when you come to it. Stay strong :P.

I hope you have a very Merry Christmas as well =D!

I’m doing a lot better. I recently [last week] told her I wanted NO contact from her at all… No calls, IMs, texts, emails, FB messages, NOTHING lol. She seemed like she didn’t really care. This week she IM’s me telling me she misses me. I just deleted it.

I feel so much better now. Like a weight has been lifted. I know I’m better off without her, so even though I get those “I miss her” thoughts too, I put them out my mind. I don’t miss her, I miss the memory of how she used to be and what we had.

You’re doing way better than me lol. You keep your head up ^^!

That’s cool. How’s everything with the ex and such? You cool?

Hey, I’m doing iight. Chillin. How u?

Hey. I feel like major shit right now, so I’m taking a break from Help. If you ever want to reach me, I opened my email up to you.

I hope everything goes okay for you tomorrow and that you stay strong. You really do deserve better than what he can give you right now. Later

Oh man, you’re doing awesomely though! You’re almost over the one month hump =)!!!

His birthday is probably bringing up the old emotions and memories. When we’re hurting, we tend to latch onto all the good times and good memories we have of our ex-SO. You have to remind yourself, though, of the times he treated you badly, when he was a jerk, and that things weren’t all peachey all the time. Remembering the bad will give you perspective and help you remember that there’s a REASON why you’re not with him right now. You deserve better. =)

How long’s it been since you’ve spoken to him?