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• Do you think it is worth getting married? posted (8 months, 3 weeks) ago
  I ask because I want to get married. I just want to hear some opinions on the matter.…

• Misery- Followed by Pain posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
  I have no one. Hope has left me. Luck walked out on me. I knocked on Help’s door, But he didn…

• In your opinion, how can you tell whether you are REALLY in love? posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
  It seems like an easy question to answer, but, at times, it’s not.…

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• Misery- Followed by Pain
  

  No I don’t mind at all! We wrote it just for fun!
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• My official let’s chill out post.
  

  [quote ♥Rαvεr♥][quote Fizz][quote Nightowl]I dont really give into the dramawhores anymore…because by giving in, that makes me one too lol. I’ve stopped caring what people say. If they want to argue, I dont bother. I read something funny one time “Arguing on the internet is like running the special olympics. Even if you win your still retarded.”[/quote]
  
  rofl ain’t that the truth!!
  
  But the internet is a breeding ground for Drama Queens and Kings.
  
  We can overcome it though, with positive energy and lots of laughter!!!![/quote]
  
  Couldn’t agree with you more.
  One of the ‘old’ mods i thought did quite a bad job. Picked their favorites and used their abilities to their advantage.
  
  Aside from that i cannot say ONE mod has done a BAD job apart from this incident. There human! Not robots! They have to make opinion based decisions and thats just FACT!!!
  Ok…so our feelings do influence.
  
  I would like to congratulate Ditzy and Ken in particular. Because both these people i have personally seen be friends with users and have to tell them off and warn them etc.
  
  I’d like to think i am good friends with both of these mods…yet…ditzy will tell you, has had to warn me once or twice. And i have seen her have to do the same to at least 2 or 3 of her closer friends on here.
  
  So if someone wants to go and say that they are unfair or loyal to their mates are wrong. Because despite personal feelings i have witnessed these two in particular do their job, tactfully, regardless of their own wants and needs.
  
  And that i think is owed a bit of recognition because everyone is trying to moan yet they have nothing to back it up. They just feel as though someone has not been punished enough. But if everyone that acted wrong was banned first off there would be very few people here on help.com.
  
  Mods, love what your doing. I do think we need more, simply because of the overload. But what you ARE doing is a great job. Keep it up![/quote]
  
  I couldn’t have said better myself.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• My official let’s chill out post.
  

  It’s okay. I’ve been having some issues. Other that that, it’s pretty good.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• My official let’s chill out post.
  

  So how is your day so far, fizz?
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• In your opinion, how can you tell whether you are REALLY in love?
  

  Love is when you are willing to sacrifice some things that you may have wanted, or things you may have wanted to do, for the sake of your mate. You feel more compelled to make sure everything is going good for them. If not, you try your best to do what you can to help them. Communication is open, and you are willing to hear out what your mate is going to say to you-whether it may hurt your feelings or not. Honestly, in a relationship, there are things that your mate may say that you don’t want to hear. However, if that person truly loves you, then for the sake of helping you, not hurting you. Even if she’s talking about something you think is stupid, you listen to her. Love is not easy to maintain, but if you truly love someone, you will try. Trust is another factor. If you don’t trust your mate, then you might as well go your separate ways because love is built on trust, and communication is built on love. All of these are needed in a relationship.
  
  So, if someone love somebody, then one would try their best to make they maintain these four qualities:
  
  1) Trust
  2) Communication
  3) Self-sacrificing attitude
  4) Patience
  
  Sex doesn’t even com into play. Sex is a show of how much you love someone. However, you don’t have love someone in order to have sex with them. So when you think about whether you TRULY love someone, how good the sex is shouldn’t even come into play. The reason I say that is because if you are married to someone, after a while, sex gets old. Even married couples that had sex all the time wound up divorcing each other. Therefore, just look at the person’s traits. See how much you have in common, and take a look at their dislikes, and how you feel when you are around them.
  
  If you feel as though you can be with that person forever, then it’s LOVE!
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

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