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• I have been seeing a girl now since December 23 2006.
  

  I was with a guy like that. I`d let her go and find someone else. It`ll only end in disaster. she`s the type that simply goes `gimme gimme gimme gimme` and never asks if there`s anything she could do for you.
  I had a child with my ex - beautiful smart little girl.
  I booted him from the picture. It`s been nearly 5 years since she was born (I had her as a teen) and now what`s he doing with his life? well let me tell you … NOTHING
  he has no job, he lives in his dads one bedroom apartment and sleeps on the couch.
  We broke up and got back together lots. he was the one to break things off then come crying back the same night. eventually it got longer and longer - and eventually i cut him off. he wanted everything his way and if not it was *over*
  so finally i said fine and i dated someone else, who was smart, more well established with a job, educated. and now that guy my oldest daughter calls him daddy and he has been there for her since she was born.
  The other guy .. cares more about himself than his child.
  
  Your girlfriend (like my ex bf) is a good for nothing bum.
  Ditch her and find someone worthy. My ex got on disability
  (which is stupid! he could easily get a job in labor .. how hard is it to bring one box from point a to point b?) i didnt know laziness was a disability.
  he throws his money around but buys cheap stuff for his child.
  (one of the many reasons I booted him out of our lives)
  I don`t think you really love her. I think you like certain things about her.
  
  I say distance yourself frmo her, give yourself time, block her off completely.
  when your ready find a local girl - then you`ll realize what a waste of time this last girl was. you wont see it until you get a different view on your situation.
  hope this helps.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• I don’t know what to do… So me and this
  

  get protection. you werent smart enough to do it the first time, better not make the same mistake the second time especially if you`re going to take off.
  If you fight a lot, then it`s probably best Not to be around each other.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• My friend is pregnant at 15 years old and the father
  

  baby`s father deserves to be in jail for being a pervert.
  You need to tell her parents (and help her parents tell the authorities)
  What if something happens to her? and she could have been helped if someone else
  had known about it?
  If she doesnt get prenatal care she will not be able to properly care for herself or the baby. best of luck
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• Fake Baby
  

  In canada vaccines are not a requirement (I thought they were)
  here they tend to get them at approx 6 months, 1 yr, 18 months, 2 yrs …
  not sure the rest I stopped my first borns shots at a year.
  for new borns they are now giving them 4 shots at once (use to be three)
  vaccines are for rubella, tetnus shot (sp?), cant remmeber the rest. chicken pox here is optional, mumps …
  Check ups are done every few weeks and less often as baby gets older. My kids are healthy so they only go like once a year now.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• i think i want a baby, okay here’s the deal i’m
  

  Get a Nanny or mother`s helper job.
  That way you can be around kids.
  Kids at school use to look at us going to daycare on campus to get
  our babies at lunch or after school, and one girl would comment on
  how she wanted a baby too. but you have no idea what the responsabilities of a parent
  are. A baby at your age is not the best idea. how are you going to support it without a job? how are you going to pay for school? My daughter`s school is $385!
  and my second daughter will start in september. So I will be paying nearly $800 for both their schools (thats more than my rent!) I want them to have excellent education - not just whatever is convinient, and good education is not cheap! And no I think you should wait longer than 18 or 17. I had my kids at 18 & 19 and it was still a struggle. wait until you finish school, are married in a stable relationship, with a good job (and make sure hubby has one too) before even considering a child.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

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