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• Support needed to re-invent myself and discuss about friendship and love
  

  Hey Miskat!!! I’ve been really busy these last days and I hadn’t time to think…:) But I must say that whenever I think of my problems, I remember the words of you all about my case and I try to follow your suggestions!It worked so far…Basically I’m trying to take it easier and to focus on my own needs. It’s a long process I’m afraid, but I started and you’ve been of good support!
  
  And you?! How’re you doing?! How’s life going?
  Hope fine…
  
  Many thanks! Hugs and Kisses (abbracci e baci in italian).
  Roberta
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• Support needed to re-invent myself and discuss about friendship and love
  

  Dear Miskat, you know what?! Ignorance is the most sad plague of our hypocrite society…and your parents are too much into it! They don’t deserve you, believe me! Unfortunately, we cannot choose our parents. We can choose them not to be part of our life, though. I’m sure you’re such a good person and I’m happy you’re proud of yourself!
  There’s nothing wrong in your nature: it is just a diverse, fascinating and beautiful form!
  Thanks for your support. Reading about your experiences allows me to confront me with interesting people!
  Speak to you soon, I hope!
  I go to study…ah, you know what’s a paradox?! I’m studying economics of happiness!! Hahahaha!!!
  Maybe it’s useful to have some insights into what makes other people happy and learn how to let happiness in my life!
  
  Baci, Betty
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• Support needed to re-invent myself and discuss about friendship and love
  

  [quote ♥Rαvεr♥]You sound so intellegent and smart, you have a beautiful mind.
  
  I think by the sounds of things you are living your life to please others!
  
  Its about time you did something for yourself.
  
  b>Ok so how about you quickly make 2 small lists for me. /b>
  
  1. Make a list of all the things in your life that make you happy and proud.For yourself…this has nothing to do with others.
  
  2. Make a list of things you WANT to do. For yourself…this has nothing to do with others.
  
  If you are able to and want to do this, then we can help you a bit more maybe :)[/quote]
  
  Thanks for your compliments! I think I’m completely normal though!
  Lists…(I like your suggestion! :) )
  1.
  a)SINGING…LOUDLY!!!
  b)Cooking. I truly love it!
  c)Eating what I cooked in point b) :P
  d)Writing. It’s been ages since the last time i did it.
  e)Making love
  f)Swimming (used to be competitor)
  g)Buying myself something that makes me say, in front of a mirror, “Oh, you look great!”
  h)In general, feeling strong emotions of whatever sort that make feel alive!
  
  2.
  a)I want to learn playing the guitar
  b)I want to take a course in photography and capture everything I find extraordinary with an artistic touch
  c)I’d like to write a book
  d)I’d love to travel much more than I do…hopefully with a little more money I’ll do it soon
  e)I’d like to have my own lovely family….oh, I love babies!
  f)I want to volounteering…I did it in the past and makes me feel ALIVE…(Sorry…it’s related to others, but it’s really been such a luscious experience!)
  g)I want to be a better person and learn something everyday.
  
  My career…: I’m a post grad in economics in an excellent university (top ten in world rankings), I’m planning to do a PhD…well, you know what? It’s not what makes me happy. I just think I did it because I’m intelligent enough to do it and to show people I can…plus to make my parents proud of me. It’s not that I don’t like it, but I’m convinced it’s merely necessary to live not to enjoy living…I’m too idealistic.
  
  What do you think?
  Thanks for your support!
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• Support needed to re-invent myself and discuss about friendship and love
  

  You people are amazing! I really appreciate your kindness and genuine support! I’m very tired now so I’m going to bed…I must say hopeful after realizing that people like you exist and that this has been a good channel to get in touch with you. I hope we can discuss about it further another day. Not anonymous anymore, Betty.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

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