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I think it’s best that you step back abit.
Not to the point where you just totaly stop bwing friends. It’s okay to be best friends still and play around and have a good time, but not as intense as it sounds like it’s getting. And if he’s annoyed about some of the things you’ve done, then y’all should tlak about it and just figure it out so you don’t do it again

yeah it helps alot :]
but I’m scared that if I do that again they’ll blame thier break up on me and I don’t want that at all

[quote Q28]right now she sees her boyfriend as her friend and not you. Just take a step back and let her realize him as a joke.[/quote]
True. But if she’s getting into troubles because of him then there needs to be an intervention somewhere.
Tell the police about the abuse, and I don’t think that both parents signed legal stuff saysing that they could get married..

just buy a punching bag, or write to let out your anger, stress, sadness, whatever it is that’s making you cut.
I just gave up cutting not too long ago.
look at your arms and ask yourself “Do I really want to have more of these scars here for the rest of my life?”
and if it’s sadness or something bad that’s making you do it, then you don’t want to cut because the scars are just reminders of what happened.
Look to the future.

get a punching bag.
It’s great to releave stress on and it keeps you in shape

eek, that’s pretty bad…
How often do you talk to her now?

yeah, I know about these things. Once your done you can have good times.
Believe me. I’ve been in summer school before

way to crush my hopes and dreams Marshall :/

but maybe if everyone who loves her and is concerned about her talk to her she’ll come to her sences before something really bad happens

It’s hard not to do that. But if you do keep it up he WILL break up with you for that reason.
And from what I see. you really like him and don’t want that to happen

everyone’s nervous about it at first.
Hell, I still am, but I think that all music should be heard.
So just let it out and see what happens

They’re there because that’s how we feel?

ok, so I agree with amonkhan. Be honest, just tell her straight up that what she’s doing is irresponsible and irrational.
And tell her how you feel, how her sister feels, and how everyone else feels.

I think that you shouldn’t think about the bad things about him moving.
And I think you should trust him enough to not be lieing about staying with you.
He will :]

yeah you’re right.
But I’m scared to act on my feelings :/