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good…i was certain that was the answer and its what I intend to do. I’m think writing all night was a way for me to gather my thoughts where I could see them.
So much passes thru my mind at times each new idea is forgotten by the next. I really dont want to say it in a letter, I still fall mute though when I’m with her and want to approach the subject I tend to clam up. I really didnt think a 15 page was something she’d make it through either…lol. Its just that the night went by fast and I basicly transcribed my thoughts onto paper as I contemplated the situation.

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If you check around the web, law info, the state law library at the statehouse, you can find info about having it quashed. Its something you need to do in plenty of time before the court date, but it can be done under certain circumstances. Shortly after I got married to my ex, she recieved one to go as a witness against an ex boyfreind who had abused her years earlier. The case involved one of his current flings who was suing him for abuse and wanted her testimony to back up the charges I guess.
This was extremely painful for her and she didnt want to go to the trial. She had spent years putting him in her past and thought she was finally free of him but then the DA knocked at the door and thrust him back into her life. I had to hold her together thru all of it to the point where I wanted to put the jerk in jail just for making my wife upset again. She was able to get it quashed and didnt have to go to court. He was still convicted, her words were not needed to prove his guilt.
Perhaps the other girl question’d my wifes reasoning for not wanting to appear, but in the end it worked for everyone and only the guilty went to jail.