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• Help answer the pros and cons of having children? posted (1 week, 4 days) ago
  ! I would like to know what everyone thinks the pros/cons are to having children. Are they really p…

• College Help, research paper for a buddy of mine! posted (1 week, 6 days) ago
  He is trying to find information on Hesser College, located in Manchester, NH from 1958. His focu…

• To All Women Familiar With Planned Parenthood and The Fight Against Bush, Please Read! posted (2 weeks, 4 days) ago
  This is just my opinion, if you’d like to leave one, please do :D Here is the link you̵…

• I sent in an entry for a poetry contest a few weeks ago and didn’t think anything of it really. posted (4 weeks, 1 day) ago
  I got a letter in the mail today. It was from the International Library of Poetry in Maryland, USA…

• I thought everything was ok. posted (1 month) ago
  It was a Sunday morning, the sun was shining and it looked like it would be a good day. I woke up a…

• Screw it, all the poems in one spot: posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  “Trepidation” I am lying on the ground, Tears falling, the only sound. Quite fragile …

• How can life get so bad, so good then go right back to so bad again? posted (1 month, 2 weeks) ago
  Since breaking up with Jamie, my life has lost a lot of its meaning. I still do all the things I …

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~IBWHOIB~'s Top (2) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) How do you know when its the right time to say “i
  

  well cakin, guess what hon? You’re not really ready to say it if you’re expecting to hear it back. you know when you truly truly love someone you are willing to tell them anything including the “i love yous” without expecting anything back. If you are just waiting to hear it from him to say it first, you really need to take a step back and think if you’re truly in love. Think about this: If you did say it and he said it back, then one day, say three years or so down the road, he just stops saying it… then he decides to split up and you both go your seperate ways. Would you still tell him you love him without expecting to hear it back? If the answer is no, then you are not ready…
  
  - written 2 months ago – voted for by AmandaLynn

• (1 vote) I am writing this in floods of tears.
  

  I wish I could give you a hug right now. I know how much you’re hurting and all I can say is I wish my guy felt like you do. This may be one of the biggest mistakes of your life, but all you can do is recognize it every day. Try to do exactly the opposite of what you did do. Just keep trying to show her how you feel about her everyday. If you truly want her, you’ll find a way to keep fighting. I am.
  
  - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by pinkfluf

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• the only way out for me is to end my life….
  

  Yes, we’re concerned. I haven’t been on much, but to find nothing new here is buggin me. Su? We hope you’re doing alright honey.
  - written 16 hours, 45 minutes ago

• LADIES!
  

  Even better, find yourself a FREE clinic! If you can’t find them, don’t tell Planned Parenthood that you have insurance, they will charge you on a sliding scale. Usually they’ll come up with a very minimal payment or you’ll find that you won’t pay a red cent. You could just walk in there too and tell them what’s up, that’s the nice thing about places like these. :D Good luck honey! :D
  - written 1 day, 8 hours ago

• I’ve been having this dark brown discarge for almost 2 weeks now.
  

  I tend to agree with Nyx. I am a front to backer, but I have experienced this as well, but for a much longer duration. It is more than likely that it is because you missed a few pills. I used to be on the depo shot and when I finally decided to go off it, I had this happen to me for months… Go see a doctor just to be sure, but I would say that it will probably pass on it’s own. Pills, shots, the patch all do extraordinary things to our womanly parts. Sometimes I wonder what the h.e.l.l. I was doing on that **** shot. Oh, yeah! I don’t like kids, that’s why! Good luck honey and don’t worry yourself too much over it. GO TO DR. THOUGH :D
  - written 1 day, 8 hours ago

• RIDDLE!
  

  [quote randomnessma]There has actually been a strange instance where two children matured in separate wombs (usually producing fraternal twins) and were classified as “not twins.” One was black, the other was white. Same father. Go figure eh?[/quote]
  
  Yeah the mother was white and the father was black. Saw them on GMA or the news or something. Pretty amazing actually…
  On the other hand, if the riddle was about a black couple then one child would be albino… yeah… albino…
  “Two black people can get together and have a white child; that’s called an albino. Two white people can get together but not have a black child; why? There’s no such thing as blackbinos….” Sorry, no offense meant, just a joke I heard once. :D
  
  However, again, it’s triplets, the other is a girl.
  - written 1 day, 8 hours ago

• Ok a segestion for this site.
  

  [quote yourabi]Howard the duck is pure awesome.[/quote]
  Awesome! Simply awesome! :D
  
  Oh and chat is chat… if they don’t wanna chat, then who cares?
  - written 2 days, 17 hours ago

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