Thank you for your reply, that was awesome. I feel better and I am not even sure why–just reading that made me feel about 100 times better.
I appreciate your setting limits–it’s a good and healthy idea. I am on Yahoo IM, (or actually, pidgin since I don’t use Windows).
(email removed) — I think that works for adding someone. I have never added someone I didn’t already know so this would be a first for me. I hope to hear from you soon :)