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• HOW DO I GET OUT?
  

  Remember that he isn’t seeing the real you, only what he wants to see. When he isn’t getting what he wants, he says things that he knows that will hurt and upset you. This is a way for you to question yourself too, don’t let that happen. Don’t let it work on you. He is self-centered and only thinking of himself. You need to right him off as trash and never talk with him ever again. Your self worth is important, you need to feed it because you are important. Always remember, when making out, make it a short time and be up front that you don’t go all the way, that way there isn’t any questions where you are going with it.
  Good luck
  Carolyn
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• Ok so i really need some help.
  

  Hi there,
  You have a hard road ahead. Been there, done that. Have you looking at all of your opinsions? Other family members that would take you? Family can really help sometimes. Being on your own sounds great, but it is hard. You will need more education, or door will be closed to you. Sounds to me that your head in on right, just take the time to think aobut what is good for you.
  Good luck
  Carolyn
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• HOW DO I GET OUT?
  

  Girl sounds like you need a true friend that tells you like they see it. You to be making a list of all the good things you see in yourself. From reading your post I can see lots.
  1. You can see that your old friends aren’t on the same page as you, or you would be hanging out with them.
  2. What the bothers are doing isn’t cool, and not for you.
  3. You think more of yourself to let some guy use you to get off.
  You are doing the right things, you just need to see them as awesome for you. But hating your dad, no sure about that, but remember it isn’t forever. When you start liking yourself better, that might go away. But the most important thing to remember is “NEVER GIVE UP” you don’t sound like a quiter.
  Good luck
  Carolyn
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• So Unhappy…
  

  Wow girl, you have a box full of troubles. Even though living with mom is no picnic, it is a starting point for you and baby. Babies are a hand full, having mom around will be a big help. Of course this doesn’t mean that you have to stay there forever, but until you have things in order to be on your own with your little one. By all means please make sure that the dad pays. He didn’t mind in the making. Your baby will be the joy of your life. Finding someone to care for he/she will be something, so mom might be of some help for a while. It will give you time to rethink your plan of life, because you will have a new person in yours.
  You sound like you have a lot of anger, not sure who you are angry at. Might want to think about that. And if you are having trouble with the people at mom’s, lock up all that you don’t want to come up missing.
  Good luck,
  Carolyn
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

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