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• okay so im 21 college dropout who works in a grocery store part time.
  

  “im in dept, have bad credit, and i live with my overbearing parents who treat me like a child.”
  
  It is kind of easy to see why they treat you that way. Don’t get me wrong, my life is pretty screwed up as well. Stop working part time try and go full time. Talk to your parents, ask them for advice as to how you can better your life (Get back in school).If they offer advice, it obligates them to provide a way for you to follow it “IE if they say go back to school, they must let you keep enough money to go.” If they make to much money for you to get financial aid, move out. There are all kinds of social programs to help out low income people. Use them. Get on your feet. Get off of them (the programs, not your feet. LOL). Ask around work if any one needs a roommate, they may not be a friend, but at least it won’t be a stranger.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• I am getting devorced, I am financial hell, I have no friends, can’t turn to God anymore just want to die.
  

  As a Meseanic Jew, I do feel that we are still bound by the Law. However (and I can,t speak for all MJ’s) the Law fortold the coming of Yeshua. As the Perfect Priest and the Perfect Sacrifice, he atoned for all sins, even those considered unforgivable by the “letter” of the Law. When I began attending a Jewish Synagogue, for the first time in my life I felt truely conected to God and His people (I was raised Baptist, my father’s family is Jewish). Yet I still turned away! I am truely tired of dening who and what I am. My problem is I am torn between am I “A creation of God, that has a purpose and a plan from God” or “A wretched piece of ______ that can’t even turn to God from fear that I am faking it”. If I am the latter there truly is no point of going on. I refuse to turn to wordly things to medicate the pain. I truly belive that the purpose of man is to worship God, and be a light unto the world. Even with this knowledge, I turn from Him! The best anolagie I can think of is this. You have a really bad sunburn. You wake up on the third or forth day and it doesn’t hurt any more. The abseance of that pain seems to be the best feeling in the world. My life is a sunburn. I just want the pain to stop.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• I am getting devorced, I am financial hell, I have no friends, can’t turn to God anymore just want to die.
  

  “3. don’t give up on seeking out God, pray to Him. He is always there, just seek Him out. Go back to your church often, join group activities, talk to your priest.”
  
  Actually that would be Rabbi. I am a Meseanic Jew. I know God is there. I have felt His pressance and will in my life. I ALLWAYS TURN AWAY FROM HIM! I don’t know why. That is just one more thing that I am tired of failing at. I know how pathetic I sound. I was recently diagnoised as bi-polar. The medicine helps me with an impulse control problem that I have allways had and that has led to most of my situation. But this last time that I turned from God I was on my medicine. It just seems that my last “excuse” was taken away. Even now with all the encouragement that you and others here have given me, I am reluctant to seek Him. I am really tired of trying and failing. It seems worse than not trying at all. The worst part is I know that the enemy is at work in me trying to keep me seperated from God. In some strange way that is one of the only things that gives me hope. Why would he try and keep me from him if there was no hope?
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• i am a 33 yr old single mother of 4,i have worked hard
  

  [quote aimzers]Thanks for telling us?
  There isn’t really a question in there that I can help you with. Sorry![/quote]
  
  Yes and your very helpfull. Obviously she would like a suggestion on her work situation. The only thing I could suggest is go to your local community college. Ask for plans that include certificates that also build towards an associate. You and your roommate could varie your scheduals to cut down on sitting costs. If you think that will take to long think of this. Have you ever wished you could go back and be 23 and do things differant? Well, when you get to be 43 you will look back at today, make it count.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• er fast help
  

  That’s when it’s leagle (here in the States) I would gues alot start earlier to seam older (cooler?).
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

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