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• I always feel guilty. posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  I know that I don’t have to or shouldn’t but guilt is engrained in my very nature. Or sh…

• What is true love…. posted (1 month, 3 weeks) ago
  I am curious what this means to others. When my fiance’ asked me what I needed from him, the…

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BFree's Top (2) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) Do you know what its like to lose someone?
  

  You are not alone. Your wife Nancy is with you now. She will always be with you. She wants you to be happy. She will be holding your hand through surgery. She will look over you hoping you have the life she wants you have. You are the hero that sacrificed everything for her, the last thing she wants is for you to not go on and be happy. Your happiness will be her legacy. Find peace in your quiet moments, let her laughter in your heart, enjoy the time you had together. You had something with her that others only dream about. Revel in that fact, don’t despair. But allow yourself to be happy. Remember her, and be happy. Plus, come here when you feel alone. People will let you help carry you through those hard times.
  
  - written 4 weeks, 1 day ago – voted for by gerry51

• (1 vote) Lately I really, really hate my body.
  

  Here’s the secret, most people have that nasty voice in their head. We especially have it when we are 14. Focus on your dance. Your dance can express your inner beauty. I used to dance too. There’s a lot of pressure on dancers to have a certain image. The truth is the beauty of the dance comes in the expression, not the body. The other side, is the more you starve your body now, the worse it will be later. I know you are too young to think about later…but you have to.
  
  Mom’s get jealous of their daughters because they are younger..etc. Don’t let her control you image. Plus, she may have been just being a mom. 5 squirts may have been enough.
  
  Heads up, friend. You have a long road ahead of you. Approach it with love of yourself.
  
  - written 1 month, 3 weeks ago – voted for by skyy

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• Is there any way I can win over my girlfriend’s parents who are so bent on her dating Jewish men when I’m not Jewish?
  

  Ask them. Tell them. Let then know you respect them. Don’t ask for their respect though, it will either come or it won’t. Asking for it won’t make it happen.
  
  Perhaps say, “I get the feeling you don’t approve of me. Is it because I am not Jewish? I am curious why?”
  
  Then continue to treat their daughter with respect. That’s all you can do.
  - written 13 hours, 12 minutes ago

• Is it wrong to sentence a juvenile to the death penality?
  

  An eye for an eye leaves everybody blind.
  
  Why does killing people who kill people make killing okay?
  - written 13 hours, 19 minutes ago

• :)
  

  If you do, buy two. so if it gets lost, you have a back up.
  - written 1 week ago

• I still hurts… no matter what.
  

  Richard, I have been following your post, but didn’t respond often. I am sure I am not the only one. You have so many people here supporting you and wishing the best for you. All of that postive energy has to be coming your way. It is amazing to read from the front to the end your healing process. You are in a good place to reflect, learn, heal, rebuild and set sail again! Perhaps your new helmsman will have a better sense of direction. :) Take Care.
  - written 1 week ago

• :)
  

  If your looking for something like a totem, make that your “thing” until you find it. When you find it you will know it is the right thing. You will feel it. Make it your adventure. Once, it is found, you will be like old friends. I know these are mental games we play, but they work for some. Good luck.
  - written 1 week ago

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