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• I am an HIV + man who is in desperate need of finding a new, rewarding and successful path in life. posted (2 months) ago
  I am litterally starting from the bottom trying to rebuild my life. I have lost everything that I …

• I want to learn Latin. posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
  I am not sure why, is there anyone out there who has learned Latin and would be able to give me som…

• I don’t know where to start but I feel I have to in some way try and reach out for help. posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
  I was diaganosed in early 2006 with a rare brain fungus. I suffered a great deal with it but throu…

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• OK from what i have heard….i guess i have low Self-esteem….what can i do to build up my self-esteem?
  

  Believe, above all, that you are the most beautiful amazing person that you know. Trust yourself with the beauty that you have, be it outward or inward - or both! The one person that you should love wholly is yourself and then allow that love to filter over into the lives of others. Each one of us is a beautiful unique creation, able to love unconditionally if we so choose. But please, STOP and think what it means to love unconditionally…. look it up in the dictionary and look over it, write it down and carry it in your pocket…. Look yourself in the mirror, not looking for faults or lines or wrinkles, but look for the beautiful things about you…. concentrate on those…. believe that no matter what you can love yourself with the ferociousness that an animal devours it’s prey. You have every right to live as deeply and as passsionately as you want to live. Believe in you!! Love yourself unconditionally!! Then you will begin to notice how things will change and your self esteem will begin to change…. nurse that change… hold it against your bones until it becomes a part of you. Breath it in…. You will feel it all around you (and in others)…. You are in my thoughts and prayers!! Take care…. and don’t forget…. look in the mirror for the beautiful things. So few people ever approach a mirror thinking that they are going to look for something beautiful looking back at them, they always look into mirrors looking for fault. I am holding many good thoughts for you…. Take care!! :)
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• A friend sent this to me today, yikes!
  

  Thank you for the information. Unless someone is a companion to a dog (I hate the term “dog owner”) they might not truly understand the angst you went through for Chloe. I recently lost my dog, Sydney (a greyhound), to cancer. It was a horrible thing to go through, he was the only child I have ever known.
  
  I am so happy that you and Chloe are together again, happy and healthy. Hold her close, those years you spend with her are so absolutely irreplaceable. God bless. :)
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• Songs…
  

  Oh and a song by Culture Club called “Victims”….
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• Songs…
  

  “Holding Back the Years” by Simply Red….. a beautiful song!!! And it’s from the 80’s!!! :)
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• I don’t know where to start but I feel I have to in some way try and reach out for help.
  

  I agree with every word you have said. I do believe though that it is o.k. (and I have had this conversation with many other Christians including my pastor) to ask God for things in life. We get not because we ask not!! It is o.k. to hope and dream. God has indeed shown me great and wonderful mercy, there is no question of that. For you to fear that I may never know the true love of God, believe me friend, I live daily with His love around me in many, many, touching and endearing ways. I know it believe me. Without it, I would not be here today. The fact that I seem so concentrated on my “dream car” is actually a backward way of me saying that I do wish that God would bless me with a gift that wonderful so that I may finally stop having to ask people for so many other things. I am not a materialistic person by any stretch of the imagination, I simply want to get back and forth to work so that I feel as though I contribute to the path God has put me on and contribute to society in general. A car, unfortunate as it may be, is necessary to be able to do what I need to do to be able to contribute and not just live off of society. I know in my heart, despite any exchange on here or any where else in my world, that I will one day live in the Kingdom of Heaven, away from sickness and personal want.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

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