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• HELP ANAGRAM……… posted (4 weeks) ago
  DBK Anybody know what DBK sounds for ?????????????…

• DONT LISTEN TO THEM, THEY DONT KNOW ! posted (1 month) ago
  !! Think about this….. Education is concious awareness of what happened, does that make sense…

• POWER posted (1 month) ago
  How do we regain our power?? We all tend to be object referral and unfortunately hand over our pow…

• Help, Help, Help posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  Sorry guys need assistance again. I totally believe in subjective reality, that we see what we bel…

• OFF FOR A WHILE —- ILL BE BACK SOON. posted (1 month, 2 weeks) ago
  Guys i need to go away for a while, i will be back I trust my friends will continue with their wond…

• IF YOU NEED SOME ADVISE ….. posted (1 month, 2 weeks) ago
  Hope this helps, It did me after alot of thinking today. FREEDOM Freedom comes from the understan…

• Do i feel selfish or what ! posted (1 month, 3 weeks) ago
  ! I need to apologise to all. I have acted out of character. I will be back tommorow, and will be h…

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Namaste`'s Top (2) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) How do you write a suicide note with out going in to too much detail but still getting across wot you need to?
  

  wow we, its going off here wots going on, this isnt the Help site i know.
  Ok Ok
  There is no need for this
  I believe this person is not asking for suicide note advise, they are asking for help and for them to come here and ask , that is what they should get
  
  Hold on i need to get my head around this, i cant believe these comments to be honest
  
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago – voted for by Puck You

• (1 vote) Depression
  

  Absolutely wonderful way of putting it and explaining the Depression feeling. Exactly like you said it is important to not begin to enjoy worrying and complaining because this certainly can become a part of your identity, some people secretly like to be this way it keeps them happy to be Depressed, if that makes sense.
  
  Ok, the worrying, we need to strip this back and understand that worry is the symptom, FEAR is the cause, we really need to understand that the only thing that makes us anxious, worried, afraid , concerned, apprehensive, etc etc etc, is FEAR.
  
  When we understand that and strip this back further we can then look at what we fear. We usually find the fear is of failure and critisism.
  
  Tell yourself a lie :
  One way to transend fear is to look at it like this:
  We usually tell ourselves lies by thinking negatively and saying that a certain situation will work out bad, it usually doesnt, although we dont learn by this mistake and carry on telling our selves lies. If we are going to lie , lie to yourself possitively telling yourself that most things will work out ok, believe it or not this way you will be correct at least 96 per cent of the time !!
  
  Did you know that you will only be liked by about 30% of people you meet. This alone allows us to cope with rejection so much easier, I used to run around attempting to make 100% of people in my experience happy, was i fighting a losing battle or what, it took me a long time to work that one out.
  
  What have you done about feeling this way ??
  
  By the way to come to this site and open up is a really good sign !!
  There is alot of experience here , stick with it and you will find heaps of benifits, you can then help on your recovery. Good luck
  
  - written 1 month, 4 weeks ago – voted for by Cosmic Fool

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• How do you stop being jealous and get self confidence?
  

  wow , you really shouldnt be with someone like that, my feeling would be that it would only get worse, its so important to like and love yourself, you cant possibly expect someone to love you if you dont love yourself, its like catch 22. My advise would be to be on your own for a while and take time to appreciate yourself…once you do that, dont try to find a relationship, let it find you, you will find as you are more confident you will attract people that will respect you for what you are…..dont be used
  - written 8 hours, 32 minutes ago

• I have a situation, whereby I really don’t want a long-distance relationship, yet find myself being inexorably pulled into it anyway.
  

  Whats the long distance relation ship, explain
  - written 8 hours, 44 minutes ago

• How do you stop being jealous and get self confidence?
  

  Thats not a good situation to be in, do you feel you really love him ???
  - written 8 hours, 47 minutes ago

• Do you ever feel like people observe you?
  

  Its hard to compare with you guys, i live in london, so you never get observed at all. Most people in the city are afraid to look at strangers and no one speaks to strangers in public. I lived in Australia, Perth for 5 years, it as different there. People seemed a little more inquisative although not in an over whelming way, they didnt steal your space. The West Australians are also more open and , say if you were in a bar you would always have someone to speak to.
  Also in the UK you would generally be judged for what you have or what you are wearing, if im at a party i can tell someone that im a multi millionaire and speak about fast cars and designer clothes, i find i then have made a possible friend for life, i forget them pretty quick….on the other hand tell them you are un employed but do charity work and help old ladys cross the road !!! dear o dear no friends then… So who wants to be noticed for what they have or what they look like….most have heard that you should never judge a book by its cover…..most do… Sorry just went off on one….in a mood today !!
  - written 9 hours, 23 minutes ago

• Foxy.
  

  That sounds fantastic…good on you. 5 mins that calls for some serious congratulations…..you must have melted away….
  - written 3 days, 2 hours ago

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