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• Need help on how to approach a difficult situation. posted (3 months, 3 weeks) ago
  I live with my friend and I pay her £400 a month rent. Soon, her other friend is also moving in w…

• For some reason, I am getting NO new notices. posted (10 months, 2 weeks) ago
  I used to get so many, last time I cleared I had thousands. I have tonnes of tags too, but no new …

• I hate this. posted (10 months, 3 weeks) ago
  Why do I let myself fall so easily? I’ve was with this guy for a few months. He is absolute…

• I was just wondering if anyone knew of any good software to crop a song? posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  I.e. select a certain part to save as an individual mp3 file. Thanks :)…

• Off topic. posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  Why the hell are users taking over posts to slam, put down, or generally criticize other users? I …

• Do you smoke? posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  Random post, but I’m really curious. If you smoke, how old where you when you started? W…

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Fairy Pants's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) why is it only the weird guys like me?
  

  How do you mean weird? Like socially inept, or just eccentric?
  
  If you mean socially inept, then maybe you seem like a nice girl who wouldn’t hold prejudice against them, which is why they go for you.
  
  If you mean eccentric, then like Snar said, it’s not always a bad thing :)
  
  How old are you? You will probably find that as you get older, guys of your age won’t be so ‘kooky’ anyway. In which case the ‘weird guys’ won’t be so weird anymore.
  
  - written 3 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by ashhleyy

• (1 vote) Legalization Pros vs Cons
  

  I agree 100%.
  
  Look at Amsterdam for example. Prostitution and canabis use is legalised in order to allow more serious things to be tackled, like hard drugs and abuse of sex workers for example.
  
  Legalisation removes many dangerous risks and helps the police concentrate on more serious crimes. Something should really be done about this.
  
  - written 10 months ago – voted for by straigh_t_al

• (1 vote) Please…
  

  Yes sorry hun I can just about fund my raging drug and alcohol habit let alone your education. All I can suggest is overtime overtime overtime, best of luck!
  
  - written 10 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by Ξ.Ģäβž.Ξ

• (1 vote) Is there anyone there?
  

  [quote dayatatime]you can remember the good things later, just put them on the back burner fo now and know that YOU are an important valuable person that deserves to be loved[/quote]
  
  You really are hun.
  
  Don’t let this man control you’re life anymore. You can be so happy without him holding you back. He has conditioned you to hate yourself, to think that you are only worth something because of him. The truth is that he is nothing without you! That is why he said all of that, to try and keep you in his grasps.
  
  When I couldn’t love myself, I used to try this… I closed my eyes, took 10 deep breaths and cleared my mind of all thoughts. After my breaths I’d say out loud one thing I like about myself. Even something so small and insignificant that no one else notices. I’d do this a few times a day whenever I felt really bad and in no time I started to love myself, and I began to open up to others. I think it could work for you too.
  
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by Florie's Gonna Bite

• (1 vote) Alternative Rock Music.
  

  [quote i_lost_my_quarte]Wow. I love maximo park, no one has ever heard of them. Hey do you have any songs by them. cause I would love em. I only have apply some pressure cause I can never fine any.[/quote]
  
  Their album, Our Earthly Pleasures, is awesome. I’ve been listening to it pretty much none stop lately. Great song from the album:
  
  Girls Who Play Guitars
  
  [youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NztJu7fLvEY]
  
  and this, Our Velocity, one of my personal favourites :)
  
  [youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eWwBkA0GqaY]
  
  I’m going to see them next month for my birthday. Me and my partner are flying out to Amsterdam especially for the gig. I can’t wait.
  
  For more of their tunes just visit this link http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=maximo+park&search_type=&aq=-1&oq=maximo+
  
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by chicken...chicken...

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• I think it’s because I’ll never see them again.
  

  I’m back now. No email as yet. I’m going to bed soon, have a riveting book to read! :)
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

• I think it’s because I’ll never see them again.
  

  Le me know when you have my email address, send me an email and if you have msn I will give you that address too and we can chat on there. I’m going to be afk for a while, while I smoke.
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

• I think it’s because I’ll never see them again.
  

  No, there is no PM function on here. However, I have added you to my friends list, and have the ability to grant you access to my email address. I will do so and then you can view it on my profile. I’ll do it now for you.
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

• I think it’s because I’ll never see them again.
  

  Kl33n3x is right. You certainly can’t give up at this early stage in your life. Right now, you are in a situation that, fair enough, you have no control over. If you cannot ‘connect’ with the people who you have been thrown together with, then (no offence) it is of your own doing. If you are unhappy with not being able to communicate or bond with these people, then do something about it. You can’t expect everything to just come to you. Life does not work that way. So, I suppose, you have one of two choices. 1) Deal with the misery that you are feeling now and just live life the way you are now. Unable to connect with those who you are with and wait until the time comes when you can CHOOSE the people who you spend time with. Trust me, there will be people out there who you will get on with. Or, 2) Make an effort! Get yourself out there and try to make friends, regardless of whether they understand you or not. Because, in life, you need to adapt who you are and how you deal with people to live comfortably.
  
  You are NEVER going to have that ‘connection’ with everyone. You will even find situations where you get on with NOONE who you spend your daily life with. I’ve been there myself. And you know what I did? I either adapted how I acted, or I got myself out of that situation. I did this for my own sanity.
  
  Now, are you going to act? Or are you going to do nothing and be miserable?
  
  Sorry if this is a bit blunt. But I have been thinking of you today and the above is my conclusion.
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

• I think it’s because I’ll never see them again.
  

  I’ve still not got myself off to bed.
  
  T.A. you seem to me as a very intelligent person, someone who I could get on with quite easily. You need to remove the mindset that no one could get on with you, because, trust me, there will always be someone who will understand you. Not just understand you, but also think and feel that same way you do. A kindred spirit so to speak. However, in order to meet these people, you need to open up and get to know them. They could be right under your nose. How will you ever know the real person if you never give them the opportunity to know you and likewise, let you know them.
  
  I know that the way I’m putting this makes it seem oh so too simple. But it really is simple. Life is complicated, and so is knowing how to get around the troubles of it. But once you lay it out step by step, overcoming issued like yours is the easy. You cannot give up. What is it about you that you feel they would not like you?
  - written 3 months, 3 weeks ago

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