I can’t believe I saw this post. I have been married over 20 years and my husband recently told me he has been lying about his income (telling me he made less) and hiding OUR credit debt. In his efforts to clear the debt alone, he ran us into significantly more debt at very high interest rates. This had been occuring for at least 2 years, maybe as many as 20. I have been distraught and feel a trust was violated. He does not understand these feelings and becomes very annoyed to discuss teh issue. I find myself doubting and questioning things that never dawned on me before. - written 1 year, 5 months ago
