scot72's profile at Help.com

User Involvement

Last 2 Posts Authored

• Well I just found out my wife is dateing someone now. posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  MY oldest daughter who is 5 told me she saw mommy kissing a boy. I have been seperated for 8 months …

• I have been seperated from my wife since November15 of 2007 , I recieved divorce papers 3 weeks ago , I have 4 children ages 5,4,3, and 1 year and 9 months posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
  have been seperated from my wife since November15 of 2007 , I recieved divorce papers 3 weeks ago ,…

• All Claimed Posts »

Last 5 Replies – All 6 replies »

• Guys wat does this mean?
  

  He just is testing the waters , probally is serious , juat wants to see your response
  Take care
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• Guys wat does this mean?
  

  six words Yes
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• Hello, I need some GREAT advice.
  

  This is not easy , I am 41 I have 4 children they are 5,4,3, and 1 year and 9 months in age , I am getting a divorce and would not want more children , sure if I was younger , but thats me , I have 3 girls and 1 boy,I am focusing on them now , you are young and very attractive and its hard to call I can see his point , yet he has to consider your need as well.
  Remember though you are not responsible for his happiness and he is not responsible for yours, yet both need to be considerit of each others feeling, its a hard fine line ,, marriage is work especially when there are already children involved, hes needing space he loves you yet he doesnt want more children, but he doesnt want to dissapoint you, not easy, as two adults and truly in love you must ….must disscuss and respect each others feelings, give an take, give him space if he loves you and you him you both need to be on the same page to make the correct decisions , he doesnt want to get burned again or loose you tuff for him.
  What you both need is to pray about it
  Take care
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• I’m trapped in a relationship with someone that will not let me leave, no matter what!
  

  I would tell you to get a restraining order, that is just plain slavery you are in , look mfor a church call the womans domestic hotline , make sure all your ducks are in order before leaving if that is what you choose, I know I was once abusive , but I left I wanted to give my wife time , noew she has filed and I have to respect that, but if he is running your life ,listen to your brain im sure it says leave, google for the womans domestic number in your area , they have the means and tools and safe place for you and children…is this easy noooooo, are you pregnant….yes God has a reason for everything we can debate all year long about keeping your child or aborting it , fact is the Lord does not make mistakes , that child should come into a healthy world , call them! They will help you.
  Please call I know I was that man I never put my wife in the hospital but we will never knoew , by the grace of God i am here vto tell you , there was more emotional abuse , please call them they will help you
  God bless
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• I am a 35 year lady, I got married on 1996.
  

  That must be rogh for a mother to leave her children , there must be more than what you are telling ,
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

scot72's conversations are tagged:

divorce, Year, marriage, Child, friends, girlfriends, Love, college, children, mail, word, Get Back, Wyrd, god, face, finance, Pain and nociception, Boy, Turn, Town, kiss, advice, pregnancy, Family, Die