EmilyRI's reply history at Help.com

Yeah I had similar issues when I was younger…I took Accutane for 6 months. It’s an oral pill that you take every day. It really cleared up my skin. There are a lot of risks and side effects that can be associated with this drug so read about it first and talk to a dermatologist about it ! :)

Well, don’t hold back….SCREAM! Because eventually it will get better. Unfortunately probably not today and maybe not for a little bit, but hang in there…my grandma always used to tell me “Better days are coming!”

Aww I feel the exact same way…what caused you to become just friends?

Is this a certain “him” you are talking about?

Ahh I’m sorry that happened to you. :( From what I know and have learned about men, the best thing to do is trust your gut instinct about them…a woman’s intuition (while easy to ignore when you like someone) is a very reliable source. How do YOU feel about this situation….really think about it and see what would make the most sense to you.

Every relationship is different….women have soo many more rights than we did 50 years ago but some women choose to live like it was 1950. The belief that the man provide and the women caretake may have diminished but it’s certainly not dead. Personally, I could never live that way but I respect those who do :)

[quote telamont][quote Max]Untouchable, hard to maintain and expensive chicks are the most attractive to a-holes.
Ever notice the nicest guys have the worst girl friends? Be the hunter, not the prey….lol. Get a nice wardrobe too:) Get them to buy it.[/quote]

hey why should men have 2 do everything if girls wanna have equal rights then they are equally able to get a job themselves and buy the things they want without having to rely on another person to get things for them. now im not saying that a guy shouldnt do little things here and there 2 do something special or something but he shouldnt be required to do everything for her cause then it loses all its meaning. personally i like a girl who can take care of herself and when i see that it actually makes me wanna do more for her lol[/quote]

….and that is what separates you from the assholes!!

[quote Dragon_Lady]I think the “No S” diet is a better idea.

No Seconds
No Snacks
No Soda

Except on days that start with “S”; then, be Sensible.

“S” days are Saturdays, Sundays, Special occasions and Sick days.

If you stick with it, you will lose weight in a healthy way. If you make it a permanent change to your lifestyle, you’ll go a long way toward keeping the weight off for life.[/quote]

Ooooo I am intrigued!

Boy oh boy, that’s your issue right there! Being single gives you breathing space. And time to find out who you are so you can have a healthy relationship when the time comes. Otherwise you become me…a co-dependent lover ;)

[quote Max]If you interview them properly first, yes. Have your list of deal breakers and make sure he understands that they are not negotiable. Men are not that smart.[/quote]

For my last attachment I created a list of “50 things to consider if you want to be with me”. It was half comedic half serious. But I’m pretty sure it was all laughs for him. My point was made, however. And now I’m single :)

:-) I just want to know, are there any men that can handle a girl like me?! Because all the asssholes are too busy with their narcissistic ways to understand me! I’m more like a crazy bit ch!

[quote Anonymous]oh, i have the motivation to study because it would be something that I am paying for. I have already submitted an application for the winter/spring semester at my community college. I just have to pay the application fee and take the placement test. I just need something to motivate me to actually go there and do those two final things.[/quote]

Hah I am at the same place as you! Except I just got my acceptance letter to the community college and now have to pay the fee for the placement test and on I go…once you get the ball moving it’s not so bad….until they send you the bill!

[quote Max]Exactly:)
Why do assholees get upset when you ask them why their assholees?
Hey Emily, you’re cool not crazy:)[/quote]

Thank you my dear :)
That theory I think also applies to people who are crazy. When you ask them why they’re crazy, they flip! !!

What is there to prepare for if you’re going out to eat?! Get dressed, have fun!

Well that is also very true. But if you absolutely have to diet, avoid the original idea of instant lunch ASAP!