Fine thanks. Work sucks, but there ya go. Sorry for delay in answering, I’m in the middle of making dinner as well! Multi tasking. My mum just arroved from Spain yesterday (she lives there) so we have her for a couple of weeks which is nice. Enjoy your peace and quiet! :)
Hey you. I’m fine. Thanks for being concerned. Just been busy lately taking care of home and work. But I’m fine. I probably won’t be on as much either, but I will check in. And you can also email me @ Tyonnna @ yahoo.com. Hope you are fine as well.
Hey babe, I keep missing you on here. I hope you are ok. I start work again tomorrow after the summer, so I can’t be here as much as I would like to, but I will try to catch you as often as I can. Take care *hugs* Michelle
Oh damm. Is Nante a teenager? He seems like a grown man. lol.
Anyway, I get your point though? I was gonna actually try and stick up for him, and I can uderstand where he comes from. And yeah he can be argumentative, and up front and all that other stuff, but that’s why I love him. for that reason. But of course people couldn’t handle it. But it’s ok. Like I said, he’ll be back hopefully.
As far as the teens go, I don’t mind the game playing so much. Again, it lightens things up a bit, and if they have to get on here to do it and it prevents them from feeling down or commiting suicide, I’m all for that. They’re being teens, so it’s expected. I’d rather that though, and maybe even someone who was feeling down could possibly see those silly posts and reply, and end up feeling better.
Now…us adults though..lol. It’s ok like you said for a bit, but it’s better to not get caught up completely in that. But it is a break from all the depression on this site. It takes a toll on you after a while so it’s a needed break.
Cap’n was big help on here if it was just with his personality. When it was time to get serious, he did that. He didn’t even have any posts on here, he was just basically helping other people with his opinionated way. And that he was, but he did help. This just for anyone else who might be reading this *coughs moderators* Smile
Unfortunately for Cap’n, he can be very straight talking and he pulls no punches, which as you can imagine upsets some people. He can also be his own worst enemy. It’s like he wants to be banned sometimes. Unbeknownst to me, whilst he was helping me in shouts, he was also upsetting someone else in a post (I’m now led to believe, and boy I can believe it! haha).
Not knowing this, I got annoyed because when he was banned I didn’t know what else he was up to, to me he was just in the middle of helping me. And I was told by the mod who shut him down that he “was JUST a troll” with no other explanation.
I raw red, because whilst he is hotheaded and argumentative and many other things (I couldn’t even begin to deny that! :)) he is not ‘just a troll’, he is also a good helper who is genuinely there for people who need it. And that was the point I was trying to make.
One of the things that the Cap’n gets anoyed at is all the posts from the teenagers which suck up so much time. I know every one is entitled to socialise here and have fun (we did it last night after all) but they take it too far. And they do it all the time “Reply here if your’re Cool, vote for me” Let’s play Knights and Castles”, it just gets too much. Which is what I meant in the “Cool” post when I said ‘who is watching the shop?’. (And you agreed, thanks for that.)
They drag everyone in and keep it going for hours and no one gets helped. Most people if they are having fun in a post, keep it to the few people who are there. They don’t take up the whole site. So I agree with him on this one, I feel that the teenagers are taking over here. And I’m certainly not a teenager!
What I do know is that you are an asset to this site. I would never dream of telling you what to do, but friendly advice? Don’t let the teenagers take over the shop and don’t take things too seriously here, that can be the worst thing. It’s something I am guilty of.
You are really smart, and this site is all the better for it. Take care. Bye. :)
Wow..Anubis I didn’t know this was you. Who closed the post? I wanted to talk. I’m really mad that some people are so damm sensitive. Damm. Vulgar he was, but that was just cap’n. Love it or hate it. But I guess in that post they hated it. I can’t be mad, because I didn’t get to see what he wrote, so I don’t get their point in posting a link that we could not see. I was not expecting to get back on and see this BS. See…. I love people, but at the same time, they make me sick. Who banned him anyway?
Yeah, sorry I got to that post too late. I’m pissed that they banned cap’n. He had a sick sense of humor he did, but he was good at lightening up things. And I know he meant nothing about what he said about that little girl. He has actually helped people. with his sense of humor. People are petty though and some extra sensitive. That makes me really mad. But he’ll be back I bet.
And you as well. I like the fact that you are the type who, if you don’t have anything good to say, you won’t say it at all. I’ve never seen you say anything negative. Where as I’m the type to say whatever comes to mind no matter what it happens to be. But I also like when people tend to be positive about everything. So we have different flavors of personalities on here. Which is why I love it. Different flavors and we’re all a big ole family. I love this site!
haaa. Thanks Anubis. Never really looked at it that way. So now I know what to put on my dating profile. *smiles*. I like to be silly because it lightens everything up. Even though some people don’t think I’m funny. Goofy is always good. I like the fact that I was blessed with the ability to make people laught and feel better at the same time. So thank you for taking notice of that. Really makes me proud of myself for being able to do that and have it be noticed. Not that I’m an attention seeker or anything, just makes you feel good inside when people notice what you do. So again, thanks.