Anubis's shout trail with Morally Ambiguous JD - Help.com

I stopped poping on those sights when college finals started and havent got back into them yet. I’m doing very well just now though thanks for asking, i think i will pop on later tonight if not during the week :)

Hiya, I rarely see you on Luminosity anymore. How are you? What you up to? Sans has left and I have taken over the site, it’s going well, you should pop in to say hello soon, would be nice to catch up. Take care.

Ok, I think I know what happened. There are 2 chats, you ended up in the wrong one to me. No problem, I’ll catch you some other time. take care.

No, no Josh appeared, I have been there the whole time, very strange. Did you just click on chat, above here?

Josh

I didn;t see you either, what user name are you using?

i cant find you in the chatroom :(

no problem nooby, just being us haha, i am magic that way tho lets be honest. i may pop in and say hi.

It twas veerrrry funny, especially the carpet burn thing. I laughed so loud, we had to pause the programme and I had to pass the computer to hubby so he could read it all. You guys crack me up. Thanks, that is the best I have felt for ages :) I am in Help chat if you want to chat. ;)

hey nooby, yeah twas very funny, glad you enjoyed it.

I just had to tell you, that I saw the conversation you had with DG and S whilst I was watching Pushing Daisies, and I nearly peed myself with laughter. Periods, school and fainting, just the funniest ever. lol

can you pop onto alcatraz for a private chat?
i dont want to see you go like cailean has.

Nooby, take down my email.

Hey, I have to go to work in 5 mins. I just wantd to say goodbye. I have managed to upset someone really badly (unintentionally) so I am leaving all the sites, I can’t deal with it anymore. I forgot rule number 1, not to take these things too seriously and I managed to hurt myself in the process.

I’m not really good at friendships it seems, I always manage to put my bloody foot in it somehow. I have managed to get Sully to agree to close my account here, and I’ll do that when I have said goodbye to those I wish to. Take care. :)

I have appealed on your behalf. Waiting for an answer. :)

I’m sorry I’ve not been around much, or been much of a friend recently. Just got issues of my own, so really sorry. *hugs*

Thank you very much for the support. I’m fine now. :)

Spelt perfectly haha, good night.

oh im not going to sleep im just moving on to another peripheral… is that how you spell it, i dont know i mean xbox anyway lol, night night

Always…. Goodnight Awesome. Take care. Michelle

yeah well i dont try to please everyone lol i just try not to anger them… whats the point eh, anyway im off, wish me luck with my lay-deeee…

It is true that you can never please all the people all the time. Unbelievably there are people out there who dislike me! I know!! But hey, if they need help…. haha

hey everyone likes me.. i think i only have like two enemies… one guy called Graham and another called Cristian… i never found out why they didnt like me but all i know id that they hated me… tis weird.

Nah, neither good nor bad, it just IS. It’s you. Your life experiences make you who you are, they shape your personality.

And there are people who like your personality, like Mya…. haha go get ‘em boy…

ah but the good moments… they are few and far between lol… for a 19 year old apparently im extremely world weary… im not sure thats a good thing or not lol…

You are right about that. The list of worries is always just replaced with a new list. It’s about learning to deal with it, as there is no such thing as a stress free, worry free life.

I have the high powered job, the salary, the husband I may divorce, the debt, the stress of the high powered job which is nearly killing me,…. etc. Life goes on.

Learn to cherish every good moment and focus on the positive. :)

of course i want it all at once… then i can move on to the next list of worries lol.. ah such is life… oh and im at college lol, my course involves me going on placement… bah, im not in debt no but i cant go out *sobs* an i like going out…

*hugs, hugs and double hugs* You poor thing. SOunds like you have quite a lot going on at the moment.

1) X files - great, ejoy
2) No money, as long as you have no debt - who cares, enjoy that feeling. Treat it like being a poor poet, all romantic and such
3) Disclosure check will come through
4) College, keep on it, the right college will come for you
5) Lara, Ask her, be there for her
6) Mole, very unlikely to be cancerous
7) Uni - as college
8) Self esteem, will improve with placement, uni and girl, just believe in yourself
9) Bored - no you’re not, your’re watching the X files and on Help.com!
10) Trust - you just have to keep giving it to receive it
11) Money and job, be patient it will happen in time
12) STOP STRESSING and BE PATIENT

Honestly, men, you want it all at once! Seriously though, it will happen you just have to keep believing in yourself. We do.

*Hugs, hugs and triple hugs* again. ;)

hey im sat in my boxers watching the bloody X files while i worry about.. having no money, needing a job, not getting my disclosure check back, getting a placement for college, how my friend Lara is doing, whether or not this mole is cancerous,applying for Uni, being incredibly bored during the holiday… shit about my self esteem, issues with trust and confidence and how im going to deal with the whole Mya thingy… then some other stuff… like getting a provisional drivers liscence for that i need money and for that i need a job and for that i need to know my placement hours and for that i need my disclosure!!! ARGH STRESS!… i need a hug…

And that’s the way it should be.

Anyway, we need to keep you guys on your toes! haha Good luck, keep me updated. My life is shite, so I live it through you guys.. haha :)

yes i know… you gals just confuse me, im a simple guy lol none of this “dating” im actually having to use my charm and wit… and shes very clever so it has to be my best charm and wit.. oh jeezus, haha bah id love to see her more often.. been a week on Monday since last i saw her.. too long id say. och well hopefully Monday goes well. the thing is i can see us dating for a long while before anything substantial happens lol.

Ahhh it takes time to learn girlspeak. tee hee. The very fact that she is there, with you, says an awful lot, believe me. So don’t worry, just take it one step at a time. You’ll be fine. :)

she never seems very enthused so shes hard to read lol… i have real trouble reading her and im bad enough at picking up those little signs and flirts gals leave… bah. honestly im that bad at it she when i told her i wasnt gifted in that area she told me she had noticed lol… oh god im a dafty so i am..

Sounds like a cool and cunning plan… way to go Awesome. Ah to be so young again, I think I’m envious haha

im taking it very slow, shes very hard to read but i can tell she obviously likes me so it looks good but there is no way im rushing this, not seeing her to often i hardly ever text her and it seems to be working… she lost her ID the last time she went out and her bag was stolen (i wasnt out tht night) so on monday were going to grab a pizza and cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie. trying to get to know her better now sh cant go out (for lack of ID)

Excellent. But some women expect men to do all the running. And if she is dropping hints and enjoying it, then just go for it. Sounds like a winner. But I would suggest you go slow on this one, and build up the relationship on solid ground. Good luck mate, let me know how it goes. Fingers crossed for you. :)

shes dropping hints for me but shes leaving it all to me and that’s something new to me completely.. having fun with this, its all good. and yes im only dating her so im keeping my options open.

Yes, conference season is in full swing. haha

As for Mya, well persistence is good, but keep your options open ;)

… conference you too, god it must be conference season already… wow global warming eh… seems to be alot of conferences at the moment. im good and yeah im getting some intrest from the laaaydeees its quite nice although im still in pursuit of Mya… shes playing hard to get :)

Hiya, just work unfortunately. Just got back from a briefing at our HQ in Birmingham, and I’ve got to work on a ruddy Saturday as I have a conference to attend tomorrow. Grrrrr. Then paperwork on Sunday. Thank God just one week left until Half term, then a week off. Hoorah

How are things with you? Getting out and about much? Chatting up the laydees? :)

hey anubis whats up my friendly friend of help.com?

Well I’m genuinely sorry you have had that experience. Al I can say is that all women/men are NOT like that. But your experience tells you differently, which makes it hard for you to believe.

I also think it is an age thing. The younger you are, the more you believe you are ‘hot’ and can get any guy/girl, so treat everyone with a bit of disdain.

It is with age and experience that you realise and come to value trust, faithfulness etc. Especially when you know the hurt is causes.

But out there, there is someone who feels like you, thinks like you and would be perfect for you. Believe it and let fate take it’s course. Either way, you are better off without her.

I’m off to bed now, but I shall open my email to you in case you want to talk about it tomorrow etc. Not a problem, happy to talk to you always. :) Michelle

i met my best friend over the net, it can happen. but she isn’t the first girl to have done this, three more before her all used me… in my experience all girls are two timing whores, i dont think that but so far thats what iv had…

That totally sucks. I can’t believe she said (or did) that. It’s downright callous to use another person like that.

But you can’t give up. That would be letting her, and people like her win. The users, who use, abuse and move on.

The only way to get over that, is to rise above it. Learn from it and find someone who is not a user. No one is perfect, we all know that, but there are some pretty damn nice people out there, who need to meet other nice people.

It will happen, it may just take time. I am not convinced the internet it the place to do it. False impressions can be built up so easily. It helps to see people face to face to begin with. I mean half the people on here I think are the wrong gender or age, it’s a bit weird. (Like me, too scared to put my own photo up!)

It will be ok, just have faith in yourself! :)

yeah, problem is i just seem to be to nice for my own good, Nichole told me she had used me to get over her bad patch after not getting into the army…

yeah she admitted to using me!… that annoyed me so much, i have contempt for that girl Anubis. bah i dont know, im close to just giving up on women again.

Whatever happens, don’t lose your confidence in asking people out. The girl of your dreams is out there, but you won’t find her if you lose the confidence to ask. Anyway, I know that you know, that you know all this… (I think I just lost myself there.) You’ll be fine, because you have so much to give. *hugs*

ill be fine, i know not all girls are like that and im sure ill find one that deserves me. but i do already feel intimidated by women again its getting harder to ask someone out becouse im feeling as though this will just happen again… i need my next girl to be a good one.

PS, I’m not very religious, but I do believe in karma. What goes around comes around…..

Oh God, I had no idea it was as bad as that. Bloody hell mate, you’re well rid. It’ll hurt for sure for a while, but it’ll get better and you’ll meet someone worthy, kind and loyal.

Not all women are two timing bitches, honestly. Just like men aren’t all women hating players!! So a good man will meet a good girl (so to speak). Take heart awesome one, your day will come. :)

no im actually ok now, my head was messed up becouse i wasn’t sure if me and her still had a chance, i got the closure i needed to move on. i was under the impression we were on a break so she could get her head straight but instead she had sex with the same guy she had kissed when she was with me…

she isnt worth my attention, im over her im already looking for a new Girlfriend just got knocked back actually…shame becouse i really liked her too.