Chameleon's shout trail with ____________________ - Help.com

Hey, it’s no problem at all =). (((HUGS)))

While I’m sad that you won’t be back around much, I get it. I’m really really glad things are going well for you and your family and that you’re handling things. You’re really an awesome person, Cham. I hope you know that. If you do ever need to come back for any reason, even just to chat, I’m ALWAYS here lol :). My email is also open to you.

I wish you all the best, and a very Happy Thanksgiving!!!

lol Hi Nisa!
I’m not really back - just letting people know I’m alive. Please read my shout to Malori, it explains a lot. I couldn’t send one to everyone so I asked her to let everyone know.
You’re such a sweetheart for leaving me such kind shouts! (((huggggg!)))

I’d recognize that avatar anywhere!!! You’re back???

It’s Nisa btw.

Hey I added you Cham =)… Dunno why I never did before o.O.

I’m hoping you come back sooner or later [pref. sooner] at least to just say hi.

Hope you’re doing well ^^.

~Nisa

Cham, it really depresses me that you’re never on anymore. However, here’s wishing you all the best in RL =)!

yeah I guess

He has no problem asking for help or typing out what’s wrong as he clearly showed with his 5 posts in an hour and a half tonight.
He’s just a jackass that’s socially crippled.
But if you can get through to him, that’s terrific, although don’t let him emotionally drain you because I still believe he’s full of crap.
That being said, he obviously needs help for something, so I’m glad you have the patience to deal with him :)

stigerfierc
1 minute ago

pass along to your friends that i don’t get off on this crap, i just maybe not too good at communication sometimes

I see myself in him. I have a problem with asking for help too. It’s really hard to type out exactly what’s wrong when you feel that bad. It also sucks asking for help because you feel like a bother.

I know it’s scary being all alone :(
But sweety you really do have all of us to lean on. We may not live in your neighborhood but we’re real and we care. *hug!*

Oh wow he answered your shout? Aren’t you blessed ;)
You’re probably the only one that didn’t get pissed at him and walk away :P
Keep up the good work!

It’s scary being alone though. All my friends have parents and family. What do I have? Nisa and help.com.

He answered my shout at least :/.

Yeah it’s rough when our “elders” start dying and leaving. It makes us feel alone in the world, and like WE have to be the capable adults now! I’m never gonna be ready for that :P

I have NO IDEA why people do things like that guy did. I can’t imagine what they get out of it. I wish I understood too.

It’s not the weekend anymore. I’m glad that’s over though. The whole thing with my ex just gets me thinking about stuff. Like mom dying dad leaving, friends, etc. I feel so alone really.

People like him intrigue me. I wanna know wth would possess him to come here with that and then play games? Like, is it fun for him or something?

That’s good that it helps you.
I’m so sorry you’ve had such a rough weekend :(
When it rains it pours as the saying goes.
You’ll look back and laugh on this weekend though, as if it was some crazy comedy of bad luck that couldn’t really happen to anyone in real life. ;)

Yeah chasing him around isn’t a bad way to spend your evening. I mean, obviously the guy is begging for attention, so if you can stomach it, go for it :)

Yeah. People like him make me wary of suicide posts. Never know which ones are real. I think I’ll still chase him so it’ll give me something to do besides think.

It’s weird but it helps me feel better. Like putting the hurt on the outside.

well as you can tell I’m fed up with him.
In my opinion he’s just gettin’ his rocks off watching us clamor to him. I’m done with it.

I’m glad you’re not self harming!
Much better that your avie should suffer ;)

It’s not a biggie. I’m wallowing in self-pity and self-loathing and I want so bad to hurt myself. So instead I hurt my Help self.

I really wish the suicide poster would stay to talk.

Why the new avie and name?? :O

Yeah I saw. I just typed practically word for word what I shouted you. lol
Not doing any good though. He’s a tough one to reach.

I wish I could Quotable that. I never thought of it that way…

He made a new post too :/

http://help.com/post/189536-no-family…

Oh I knew you weren’t saying anything bad about the poster hon.
Yeah I think ALL people should be saved (except people who are in permanent, extreme, untreatable physical pain).
When we are suicidal our brains are sick.
It’s our nature to want to survive.
When that changes, something is very wrong.
I’ve been suicidal and looking back I know that my brain was sick, I wasn’t seeing reality clearly.

I wasn’t trying to imply anything about the poster, I just wanted to ask if you thought that some people just couldn’t be saved?

The boy’s parents gave up trying to keep him from killing himself. They said if he wanted to go, he was going to and they couldn’t stop him.

Ooh sad movie.

The movie is about how people go to the Golden Gate Bridge to commit suicide. They have like 2 suicides a month there :/.

But one of the people featured in the movie was like the OP of the post. He was convinced that he just wasn’t meant to be alive anymore. And he jumped :/.

Nope never heard of it. Why did the post remind you of it?

Hey Cham, did you ever see a movie called The Bridge?

Sorry, but the invite to the suicide post made me think of it.

Okay cool. Enjoy!

I’m sure you did nothing to deserve it, it was just “your time” :P
I have to go work on dinner for a bit, I’ll be back :)

Thanks a bunch, Cham =). *hug* I think I’ll do just that.

And yeah, all weekend I was wondering what the heck I did to deserve such bad luck. Ah well, just glad it’s over now.

Oh wow you had a true Hell Weekend!
At some point during those you either dissolve or laugh at the comedic heights of your misfortune.

I think the Universe must sometimes “save up” bad sh1t and give it to us all at once.
I’d be afraid to leave the house too if I was you! LOL
Hunker down ’til this streak of bad luck has passed! *hug!*

I hope so. I’m scared to leave my house lol.

Some highlights from my weekend:
1-Traveled an hour an a half to a club in Brooklyn, only to find that I had lost my wallet on the way there. My drug addict friend goes into the club anyway and leaves me there by myself in a part of BK I don’t know.

2-Because of the 2 energy drinks I had, I couldn’t sleep at all and was jittery and confused. It felt terrible. I still haven’t slept btw.

3-I was getting in a taxi, after waiting an hour to get 1, and my cell phone fell out of the case and got run over by a few cars. Yay.

4-Then if that wasn’t upsetting enough, my ex-gf starts in on me, making me feel less than sh*t.

Sorry for dumping it on you. I’ve been wanting to let it out :/.

Aww I’m sorry to hear that. I hate bad streaks like that :(
Are things looking up now?

Lol, at this point, I would rather that too. This weekend sucked bad because just everything just went wrong :/.

Why was your weekend bad?
Mine was boring as usual - which is a VERY good thing! :D

I had the worst weekend ever, but I’m recovering. How was your weekend?

lol yeah.
How’s everything going with you?

http://help.com/post/189294-how-peopl…

hehehe, I love help as much as the next helper, but these posts still kill me =)

Nah I’ve only lived in Cali, Philly and Oregon. Visited NY and Chicago on business.

Jeez, you lived all over huh lol?

That’s one thing to be thankful for though. Because 100 degrees + humidity would probably just be hell.

Oh no, we don’t have humidity like NY.
I lived in Philly for a year and …omg the humidity was D-E-A-T-H.

Aw man. I feel for you…

Does it get really humid there too? Summers in NYC are made unbearable by the stupid humidity. AC is on 24/7…

Cali and Oregon are border to border, but I’m a few hundred miles from the Cali city I lived in.
In cali I lived on the beach. Here I live in a valley.

We only have a little window AC in this house.

Wow, that’s a huge difference. I thought Cali and Oregon were close…?

No AC at all?

I was born and raised in northern California where it rains a ton and is around 64 degrees year round. I’m not cut out for this sh1t. LOL

Damn, that really sucks. I’ve lived here my whole life and love it too. I hate that one person just HAD to ruin it for you lol, I was about to rave about NY.

I never would have thought it could get that hot in Oregon. Jeez.

I’m in Oregon.
Sometimes the summers here are brutal.
But sometimes in the winter it snows here and I love that! :D

I’ve been to NY a couple of times. Absolutely hated it. Would have been cool if it wasn’t for the people. But there’s bad people everywhere. Just ran into a particularly bad baddy in NY and it left a bad taste in my mouth forevermore.

OMG! *dies* 100 degrees?!?!?! What region are you in???

I’m from NY and it was chilly and rainy all day…

I am mellllting. It was 100 degrees today and it’s still so hot :O

Thanks :). I found it very lulzy as well.

LOLOLOL
I love the animation on your profile of the admin kickin the user! LOLOLOL

hahha I don’t think that’s a bad habit! I think it’s a GOOD one! You’re not tongue tied ;)