bluflames83's shout trail with Stephanie7 - Help.com

Hey Steph : )
I’m just in school right now with wrestling season starting next week, unfortunately. Things have been decent lately, but pretty uneventful. What’s been up with you?

Hey blu :) I miss talking to you what’s up?

No problem, I’m glad he forgave you and everything turned out okay. Honestly, at the beginning of my relationship with my girlfriend I considered saying I had kissed another girl too, but decided against it. It turned out she had never kissed a guy either. From this point foreward though you may want to make a serious effort not to lie though, or else he may really start to not trust you.

Thanks agaIn for helping me find courage to do what is right. I truly hope things go well with you and your lady. You will figure it all out. I told my boy the truth and he forgives me. He is sad that I lied but he is ok now and knows why I did it. I don’t normally lie i just felt lame since I knew that he had experience with girls and I hadn’t even kissed a boy yet. I was embaressed and it was in he beginning of our relationship. I would never do that now. Thanks again though you always seem to be there blu :)

Right, Ireland!! I do remember that. I definately think you need to tell him. It depends on what you lied about that you as to how you should approach it. Generally, whenever you are alone with him at some point just maybe say, “Hey, you didn’t do anything, but there’s this thing bothering me”. And then go on to confess. Odds are if the lie was a while ago, he may not remember talking about it in the first place and won’t see it as a big deal. He may not trust you as much for a while but if you love him you owe him the truth. And if he loves you, he should probably understand why you lied and let it go. I can’t say I’ve ever lied to my girlfriend. In my opinion it doesn’t make sense to lie to the person you are dating because then they don’t get to know who you really are, which is the point of dating in a lot of ways. I’m sure I’ve stretched the truth at some point or another, but never given completely false information intentionally.

*that not slot

I don’t believe at all that you’re a selfish loser but I haven’t talked to you forever. If you remember at all I was the one who moved to Ireland for 6 months and I was freaking out about that but it was a wonderful experience. Anyway I haven’t been on in at least a year so it’s been a while for me too. have you ever lied to your gf,not with malicious intent? if so how did you tell her that you lied. I’ve been dating this guy for 10 months now and I really do believe I love him so I can’t let the lies slide it’s what I think about slot when I’m with him. He hates lying but I told hi
At the beginning of our relationship that I had kissed a boy before when he was my first kiss because I thought I would sound super lame saying he was my first kiss. I have let the lie go on for way too long and I recently lied about something else small and stupid. Idk how to confess I lied. I know that he loves me genuinely for who I am so I know the grub won’t make his opinion change on me but I’m afraid he won’t trust me for a while. How do I tell him or should I let it slide?

Hey there!! I lightly remember you. I haven’t been as active here as I was in the past, mainly because things have been going fairly well for me for while until recently. And when I don’t need help I’m not here because I’m a selfish loser.. Anyway, what’s up? What can I help you with? How have things been going??

I missed you!!!!!! I really hope you remember me because you’ve helped me through some stuff over the years and I will never forget that. How have you been doing? I need some advice if you don’t mind helping an old friend. You are the first person I thought of when I realized I need help resolving this issue. Stay in touch
-Stephanie

hey, no problem.. If he’s writing on your leg kick him or something, he’s violating you.. Don’t smile when you tell him to stop at all. I don’t know if you were, but he might have thought you were kiding if you were smiling.. Ignore his pervertedness or say “you’re not funny, you’re a sick perve”.. maybe not that intense but you get my point : )

sorry to bug you with this but i’m asking cause your a guy and maybe you can help. I have a guy in my class named connor, he doesn’t know when to stop bugging me and hes a major perv. The other day he was asking me all these awkward questions and drawing all over my leg and i was getting really annoyed, but he won’t listen when i tell him to stop asking me awkward questions, and won’t have just a normal conversation cause he always turns it into something pervy. i don’t think your a perv but you know how guys minds work so any ideas on how to get him to stop?

oh ok. i know what you mean.. im just way jelous of all the austalians cool animals.. : )

i don’t hate the french just pauline cause shes horrible to people. I have to disagree, i think America is fairly stupid, there are a lot of smart people but think of all the dumb ones there are :( i like australians, they have cool accents, sorry that was random, lol

Nah, theres way smarter ones out there. And it’s not new, actually a guy in France and australia made full blown cars that run on air. That’s great that you’re enjoying school. It’s weird that you don’t like the French student because we have 2 French exchange students here and none of them bother me, maybe because I havent talked to them..

we need the smarter people to outshine the dumb ones in america like you lol, creating a new way for an engine to work. i know NOTHING about cars and stuff lol. I’m really enjoying the school here, except for pauline, a french exchange student. shes snobby and hates americans, lol. i guess that means me….. i kinda hate her, everyone else is nice tho

That’s awesome! I can’t believe there’s no cliques there, should be a fun school. At my school it seems like there’s no cliques but you see them all over at lunch.. And I don’t hate my school, I just hate how long and dull it is, and how homework makes you not able to do anything else with life.. : ) It’s not really surprising that they would think Americans are stupid, we all think Japanese people are super smart because they make all sorts of robots.. I’m glad everythings going good for you : )…

Not a lot is new, I’m doing judo a lot more and trying to get stronger before wrestling rolls around. And I converted an engine to run on compressed air.. How about yourself??

i’ve started school here to and i freakin love it. maybe you should move here with me if you hate your school that much, lol. Everyone is so friendly here, they’re all friends with each other and they don’t have cliques, they thought cliques only existed in hollywood films:) the guys here are so hilarious too, they are fun to talk to. except for this random irish dude in my class who talks to me like ‘m stupid, cause a lot of america is i guess,(paris hilton). its so annoying tho. i’m like I’m NOT Retarded. i seem to always talk so much probally making you wonder will this girl ever shut up? lol, so whats new with you?

hey stepanie. Not a lot, we’re back to school unfortunatly and I’m really not liking it. About half my teachers give me tons of homework every day. School wouldn’t be nearly as bad if I didn’t get homework.. On the bright side my girlfriend’s in about half my classes. What’s been up with you?? : )

hey blu, whats up lately?

yeah we saw one at caesars palace which was pretty cool, we saw blue man group and terry fator who won americas got talent.. all in all it was pretty good but ridiculusly hot.. my summers going great but i really really dont want to go back to school now, with the homework and only getting to see my girlfriend once a week : /.. I coudnt imagine just being away like that though, is ireland fun at least?? have you eaten a lot of potatos??

vegas…awesome, i went there in 2nd grade, i kinda remember it. did you see a light show, they’re really cool? And i’m adjusting now, i love living here. I still miss the U.S. so much. its weird not being able to hang out with our best family friends, i miss them all so much. How’s your summer so far? Tell me about Vegas

that sucks, but i dont hafta do that with my shower, its about 30 seconds : ).. i just got back from a week in vegas with my family, how about yourself?? : )

so true, i couldn’t believe i was in a different country for the longest time. by the way there are certain things i miss about the U.S like how it takes 10 to 15 minutes just for the shower to get hot water. you have to press a button to turn the water hot and then you wait. anyway whats up with you lately?

wow, didn’t know that.. i know what you mean, and once you’re there you’ll be shocked that you’re actually there : ).. it could be fun.. no problem, ttyl.

I’m moving to Irelnad for 6 months, I thought i told you that. sorry, i’m actually leaving tomarrow as in saturday cause technically it is tomarrow i’m up so late:) My mind is sort of in denile about moving for 6 months i think cause i still don’t feel like i’m going. its a weird feeling. ttyl, and i mean that……just cause i’m going to Ireland, doesn’t mean i’ll forget you guys again, sorry about the whole not logging on forever thing again :P

yeah, its alright, im srue everyone misses you here too. id like to know what you’re packing for if you’re back sometime. ttyl..

aww, I’m so glad everything is going great for you. I missed talking to everyone on help.com. I may not be on all the time since I’m really busy packing, but i’ll try to check up on my friends on here every once in a while. ur right 6 months is a while, sorry about that. I seriously don’t know where the time went :P I hope your knee problems heel all the way. ttyl

hey stephanie : ).. 6 months is a long time!! you must’ve been really busy.. umm ive been pretty good all around, went through the whole wrestling season, made it to districts, but had a whole bunch of knee problems which are pretty much gone now : ).. got an amazing girlfriend who I’m in love with… everythings been pretty great : )..

Blu, i didn’t realize that i hadn’t been on here for 6 freaking months. I don’t know what the heck i did with the time. I feel so bad for not getting on here for eva. I seriously can’t believe it. I’ve been so busy with school, Lacrosse, and getting ready to move to Ireland for 6 months. I think i told you that a while ago, but you may not even remember. omg what if i was forgotten, by all of help dot com???!!!!????? Well, anyway…… since i’ve already written you a novel here with this shout, whats on your mind and how have you been doing?

umm actually, ignorance is bliss sounds really good when choosing whether or not to know about the sadness in the world. you would be happier at least, if you didnt know about all the suffering..

i mean you can’t be happy all of the time. you need to be aware of all of the sadness in the world

yeah flyleaf is pretty good….not quite sure what you mean by a good sad but maybe reflective could describe it??

shut your piehole mister. i love flyleaf. not actually depressed but sad but a kind of good sad thats good for the soul. do you know what i mean?

o, why didnt you go to the fair?? if flyleaf makes you depressed, dont listen to them right now….

aaaah. i’m so bored right now and slightly depressed. i’m listening to flyleaf right now. i don’t know why but their songs make me feel sad(hence the depressed). i’m bored because all 4 of my family members left me to go to the fair.

wow, that sucks. i havnt told anyone about this account and i dont plan on it. did you explain it to mas? anyone should be able to understand that it wasnt your fault…

mas was annoyed with me since my friend got on my help.com account when i was getting a snack (it only took 2 minutes) and megan decided to play around on help.com so she reported 2 people for no reason and mas left me a comment that basically said not to screw up again or i’d be banned.

ummm what?

:( i know mas is a moderator but why did he have to be so sassy for somthing that wasn’t even my fault.

you suck…but i have hydrogen in plastic bottles in my garage, and can make more whenever i want : ) ….

i have a box of highly explosives hidden under my bed

dang, i love mythbusters, im so jelous, they get all the explosives they want to play with….

lol, i’ve tried watching mythbusters before(my family watches that show) no offense but it kinda bores me. its probally because i feel like i have ADD since its hard for me to pay attention to certain things.

o my god, you watch some strange tv..try the discovery channel, like watch some mythbusters, thats allways good….

i’m so depressed right now, toay i was flipping channels and came across this really messed up dude. he was saying how he kil*ls people just because he feels like it. he said that he made a bet with his friend. the bet was how long it would take a man to die if shot in the addam’s apple. he sat there and watched the man drown from his own blood. it gets worse. the next part made me cry and i almost never cry unless in pain of course. he was talking about how he would tie cat’s tails together, hang them over a closline and watch them rip each other to shreds. o god, here i go crying my eyes out again. i am not a cat person but i am strictly against animal cruelty. he also said that he would toss cats in a furnace and watch them run from the fire and burst into flames. there you go two completly messed up guys in one day. and i’m normally posative but this just made me majorly depressed. the guy said he had no emotions when he did this. please say somthing funny to cheer me up

yeah, judo is really fun. and its disgusting about the older guy on dr phil. i cant imagine being like that….

hey i know what that is. my friend hurt his shoulder from it. and about the dr. phil thing i am so angry that people are that nasty to little kids. those type of people need lifes and girlfriends/boyfriends

lq2m…the doctor phill think was random, funny, but kind of messed up at the same time. judo is more like jujitsu, wrestling or aikido if you’re more familiar with those..i have to get some breakfast, cya…

hloy cow, my mom is watching Dr. Phil right now(i know what a loser he is), and a guy is verbally harasdsing a little 10 year old over aim. dr. phil is saying that the guyis saying inapropriate things like thathe gets horny when he thinks about her in the shower. and she replies back with somthing equally bad. there are such pervs out there. omg i can’t believe that disgusting guy.

o yeah, i got out of that so far because i managed to always have something going on when my brother was planning something with the one girl. having judo on friday nights helps in that situation….