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• i text this guy occasionally and most of the time he
  

  Hello!
  
  Its me…….I have had this happen to me and I have done this as well!
  You need to let them know you just want to be freinds …..and then you will see that the relationship actually gets closer!
  He’ll open up and start chatting with you about personal things because he trust you already!
  But as a girlfriend,I dont believe he wants that with you ……I feel he has some one he is interested in thats why you don’t hear from him back right away ,,,,,,she may be there with him!
  
  
  HUGS TO YOU!
  - written 2 years, 10 months ago

• I have a small problem.
  

  hello!
  
  The gentleman that I met last year saw me at a gas station getting gas,He was on his way to a christams party and he turned to me real nervous but still forced himself to chat with me …….He said Hello my name is Ron I just wanted to tell you, your beautiful…..I look around like it was a joke and asked him where the camera is,he said no camera and then asked me if I would join him for a glass of wine……Well I said sure I would love that,so I told him I would follow him in my car so off we went ……As the story goes I’m still dating him today!
  If I would of never said yes …..chances of us meeting again were slim…..We have passion for many of the same things and we feel this is a great person ……its been over a year and this man had no intentions of dating for long peroids of time!
  Well he stop me in my tracks and I stop im in his tracks!
  
  Don’t worry about the rejection……its more the fear!
  Just do it!
  - written 2 years, 10 months ago

• how to forget someone that is special fo you?
  

  Hello!
  
  Its 3:00 Am in Canada BC Vancouver and I can’t sleep!
  I am reading this what you wrote and it says Must find a way……Its does not say can’t find a way ……I like how you phrased that!
  It shows you want to move on…….pain always stops you when you don’t expect it!
  In order to move on you must feel this …..
  
  
  going to sleep now …….chat with you later!
  
  Hugs to you all!
  - written 2 years, 10 months ago

• Good Morning everyone, This morning I just found out
  

  Hello!
  
  I’m sorry to hear of your loss!
  Why was he hurt to begin with ……I’m sorry to ask just a question at such an emontional time!
  This sounds like it might have happened in germany…….
  
  hugs to you!
  - written 2 years, 10 months ago

• Hey guys… Well fro those of you who noticed that I
  

  Hello!
  
  Sorry to hear you have panic attacts……its not a nice thing to have,it feels like an elephant sitting on your chest and can’t breath!
  I had this when I was younger and I had to train myself to get passed this.
  I had a lot of things I would keep inside and no one to talk to about problems,Bills,RElationship,Raising children,living with a drinker……trying always to cover up things and help people at the same time……WOW,I would wake up not breathing run to the freezer and put my face inside,it just made me feel better!
  I did’nt understand what was happening to me a friend said your stress out (WHAT YOUR KIDDING ME)…….ME!Yah you……they told me to go to the hostpital if it gets worse……well it happened one night after having another argument with the childrens father I had a panic attack…..off to the hospital,I thought I was having a Heart attack
  Everytime I got into conflick or had to face something I did not want to do it happen …….So years later and much wiser I Divorced the Drinker have a different job..new friends…..and took some live skill courses and started getting a live!
  It took awhile but it worked…..I did’nt want to take the drugs the Dr.gave me but I did use a puffer everytime it happened I started to understand how things were affecting me….I was never speaking up and telling people just how it is or just saying NO.
  I handle things way different now and I have a life too!
  
  
  
  Hugs to you all!
  - written 2 years, 10 months ago

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