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byrdie
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byrdie's Top (4) Replies by other users' votes
- (1 vote) looking for any pregnant teens im 17 and just want
Hi, I’m not pregnant, but I think you’re really brave! My friend was born when his mom was 16, and I’m so grateful to her, because he is a great guy.
- written 2 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by dove7 - (1 vote) I have been dating exclusively for a month now a wonderful man.
Do not ever, under any circumstances, act like something is ok when it’s not. Don’t let this problem overshadow the whole relationship, because he will be at a loss if you are unhappy with him when he just needs to sort things out. I think now is not the time for an ultimatum. You need to share your feelings, not from a place of anger, but from a place of caring about him and supporting him to make the best decisions for himself. He might be feeling somewhat torn, so just tell him that you realize that might be a possibility and you understand. Then ask him what he needs. Give him space to tell his side of things if he feels ready to, and try to show him that you appreciate his struggles even though you are confused. You can do this without covering up your feelings.
Boundaries are so important. You may need to define yours, or at least make sure he knows that he is overstepping your boundaries and why it matters to you. Just make sure it comes from a place of wanting the best for the person.
- written 6 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by greensrfrgal - (1 vote) what is a ‘different’ and ‘quiet’ date?
I think she means something that’s not a cliche date activity, but not too zany and you don’t have make a big fuss out of it. It sounds like she wants to give you the chance to show off your imagination a little–or maybe she enjoys being surprised.
Believe it or not, she’s trying not to stress you out.
- written 10 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by azza99 - (1 vote) I’m turning 30 tomorrow.
Happy Birthday!!! I kind of panicked about it for a while when I turned 30, too. I decided to throw myself a last-day-of-being-29 party, and I spent the day wandering around some favorite spots and thinking about my 20’s, to say goodbye to them properly. I had some rough years in there, so I was really looking forward to my 30’s. The more I thought about it, the more I was ready to be just what I was–thirty! I gave my twenties a long and fond goodbye, counted down, called my best friend and said “Hello, thirty!!” at midnight on my birthday. A thirty-year old has so much that many older people wish they could have back. Don’t waste time being unhappy with the age you are. When I’m 80, I hope I can enjoy my age and not waste time wishing I was younger. By then I bet I won’t care. So why bother caring about it at thirty?
- written 1 year, 5 months ago – voted for by ~Shie~