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• Hello all, Old and New: This is for you posted (4 months, 1 week) ago
  Seeing as the last time I was on here I posted something in regards to how much my life has improve…

• Here I Am posted (6 months, 3 weeks) ago
  This is to those of you who about a year ago went through one of the most difficult times in my lif…

• Just something I wrote a few days ago posted (10 months) ago
  I wrote this because I felt hurt and frustrated with everything. I just wanted to share this with e…

• Update on my absence posted (11 months) ago
  Well, it’s almost bittersweet to be back here at help.com. I figured I would post a sort of u…

• So I understand now why things were “complicated.” posted (11 months, 3 weeks) ago
  Lately the girl that I’ve been hanging around a lot in a possible romantic interest has sort …

• I think I messed up :/ posted (1 year) ago
  So last night I threw an awesome Halloween party and everything. The girl I’m sort of interes…

• Explanation for my Absence posted (1 year) ago
  So yeah, lately I haven’t been too active and I figured the best thing to do was to shed a li…

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Tzubake's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (3 votes) How do I break up with someone I love?
  

  I have one piece of advice, if you’ve become involved with someone else and haven’t told him about it, don’t keep it. It’s the worst thing ever. Maybe you two just need some time apart and then the love will come back. I really believe in true love, and if you really still feel like there’s something there, then there is, it just hasn’t had it’s chance to show. You two could always just take a break from the relationship, however but still hang out, just come to a consensus that there can’t be any romantic involvement until you two are ready to handel it again. You need to know how he feels about it and if he comes to you and says he really wants what you two once had and you feel the same way, then you can’t take it right away. You both need time to think about it and get your heads on straight about your relationship.
  
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by Lucerne, SingerInPurple

• (1 vote) Help…
  

  My thoughts are with you.
  Just remember, life’s like a big party, it has to end sometime and hopefully on a good note.
  I’m sure his grandfather where he might be now is out of the pain of his cancer, I’m just disappointed in the fact that he had that without even smoking. People like his grandfather are the ones that I want to help; I’m working towards a cure for cancer.
  I hope you feel better and things start to look up.
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by Devil_on_Earth

• (1 vote) Photos from the last frontier, at least that’s what Alaskans call their state.
  

  In Iceland they have public transit running on hydrogen fuel and they’re producing the hydrogen via hydrothermal energy from volcanoes on the island, I think it’s pretty cool. I think it’ll eventually come, they’re working on a highway in Europe, can’t remember where, where it’s devoted to hydrogen energy fuel stations.
  
  They also have a prototype car that runs on compressed air. They’re trying to make it so it compresses it’s own air so it’ll be a perpetual motion machine.
  
  I think hydrogen is a great way to go, even though it requires energy to make. We’d just need to find a way to make the hydrogen, be it growing algae that use sun for energy and then the dying algae turns into bio-diesel, or via solar pannels. Everyone always is afraid of how explosive hydrogen is, but they never think of the thermodynamics of the explosion. Hydrogen is a gas, and if it does burn, it’ll burn up since it’s lighter than air. Gasoline on the other hand spreads all over on the ground and starts to burn and spread.
  
  I dunno, all in all I’m for alternitive energy. Maybe we can harness all the greenhouse gases in the atmosphere somehow and have plants or some other mechanical way to process them back into rudementary elements.
  
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago – voted for by Sans

• (1 vote) Let’s skip the details that tie me to this lady, alright?
  

  I think what you need to do is make sure you know what she wants. You can’t go forward with anything without knowing absolutely what she wants. If she tells you she misses you, yes that is a sign she misses what you two used to have, but you can’t base your actions on those words. Give it time my friend. Keep coming back here to talk, it really helps. I know you feel like a wreck now dude, I went through the samething. I lost 20 pounds last month because of my break up. Didn’t eat, didn’t sleep, just went to work, came home and cried. Chin up dude, you can keep it under control. Don’t let those words consume your mind. Take it with a grain of salt, but obviously don’t forget.
  
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by Wonderousness

• (1 vote) It just hurts a little…you know?
  

  I know how you feel as well. I wish things in my situation wouldn’t be so complicated, but it’s a part of life and a part of growing as a person. What ever doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, and if he’s too lovestruck to see what he’s missing in you, it really is his own fault. Yes there is the option of spewing your feelings to him, but ask yourself if that might really get you there, to lay it on thick all at once.
  
  Maybe show him what he’s missing out on from you. Don’t try for him, just make him realize what you have to offer rather than the woman he’s with now. In time, I know many people say this, but you might wind up with him, or you might find someone that’s even better, that you just were blinded to at one point because of his presence. Soon, I’m sure, things will become clear. Don’t let it overcome you or eat you alive. Control it, and learn from your mistakes, if it even was a mistake, make it your strength and like I said, maybe show him what he’s missing.
  
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by erin

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• does anyone like the band muse?
  

  Ah man that’s awesome. Be sure to take advantage of that awesome Irish food haha. The beer there is probably fantastic also. My friend went there over the summer last year and worked with his brother with some housing contractors just as a summer job and he said he just got wasted like all the time and he came back with this huge bottle of Irish whiskey which was pretty strong haha
  - written 1 week, 3 days ago

• 10 Signs You Are Too Old For Halloween
  

  ahhaha this was great
  - written 1 week, 3 days ago

• does anyone like the band muse?
  

  Ah man that sounds so great. I wish I had enough time to just take like a month off and do just that. Maybe once I graduate.. I really want to go through Italy and Greece, ancient ruins and stuff like that amaze me. My friend and her family is from Greece and she owns an apartment in Athens outlooking the Parthenon :) she’s shown me the view and it’s really cool. One of my other friends went to Amsterdam a few years back and he came back with a bottle of Absith hahaha. I really want to visit the UK.. okay pretty much all of Europe haha.
  Yeah passports are ridiculous to get it takes so long. Sometimes you’re lucky if you apply for one during the slow season but if you do it during the spring or summer it’s really slow.
  - written 1 week, 5 days ago

• does anyone like the band muse?
  

  Yeah most of my friends tells me it takes bout 6 weeks to get which is annoying. Yeah Italy and Germany are two of the places I would most like to go, I’m a big fan of food so yeah haha. I’m assuming you’ve been to these places since you said you liked them, what did you wind up doing?
  - written 2 weeks ago

• does anyone like the band muse?
  

  Yeah I plan on it, first thing’s first though I have to get my passport haha.
  - written 2 weeks, 3 days ago

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