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• my daughter lived with my mom scenes she was 1going on 2 she has been back scene she was 9 &now she is 11.It has not been easy but i try.
  

  True, not everyone can be a mother, but if u think your messed up, what do u think it does to your child being passed here and there. She is YOUR responsibility. What do you think it does to her that u can’t look at her? and why can’t you? Your coming across really selfish and I can’t feel sorry for you, I feel sorry for the child. Can’t you stop thinking about yourself and get to know your child? She’s 11, mine is 12, and she gives me so much pleasure listening to her views on life, being in a 1 parent family, with a nightmare of a father has made her grow up a lil fast but she copes, she is so strong. My point is she can help you get stronger if u just talk and listen to her, try and see it from her point of view. If she was a baby my advice would be to put her in a home or adoption but it’s too late for that now, she’s too old and u will damage her maybe for the rest of her life. Would u really want that on your concience? Don’t u want better for her then u have had? Take some pride in that u have created a life and u are responsible for how she turns out.
  - written 4 years, 10 months ago

• my daughter lived with my mom scenes she was 1going on 2 she has been back scene she was 9 &now she is 11.It has not been easy but i try.
  

  Wow, I got angry reading this, where is the love for your child? I am a single parent and it has been **** hard but it never occurred to me to get rid of my daughter! If anything I hid the fact I was homeless from her school in case they took her away from me. Shame on u for being so selfish life is no longer about u when u have kids, who cares what u want! U are grown and your child needs u, especially now that her father has left.
  - written 4 years, 10 months ago

• my husband is having second thoughts on a baby when I am already due on the 20th.
  

  All the best Angel :)
  - written 4 years, 10 months ago

• i love boys to death….
  

  I think they probably picking up the desperate vibe. Try acting confident (even if u don’t feel it) have a lot of laughs with your girls and act a little distant-but not rude :) it will happen, when u least expect it.
  - written 4 years, 10 months ago

• I can’t stop thinking about him.
  

  I don’t think u should keep him out of your mind! If he isn’t enough for you now then u will grow to resent him (your bf) maybe u shouldn’t be thinking about swapping one for the other but give yourself some time to figure out u and your feelings and wishes.
  - written 4 years, 10 months ago

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